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She didn't say anything in regards to the chopsticks but I could see it in her demeanor and eyes. The best way to describe it was her kind of flinching or being bothered by it. It wasn't a few times b…
How to get Millions of $$$ from ANY government for your business (I will not promote) — Experienced founder & CEO here. I'm gonna tell you how my business got straight cash (like literally millions) from the gov and how you can do that too. I've bootstrapped my last german education bu…
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…
Curious about your experiences interacting with other Asian Americans — Happy Tuesday, hope everyone's having a good week so far. I'll preface by saying that I appreciate that this space exists, and I've found value in sanity checking some experiences with others (though…
My sister (36f) and I (28f)are fighting because she didn’t tell me that mom died and I really feel like she crossed a line. How do I fix this? — TL;DR: my sister was told about my mom’s death, but intentionally withheld information from me. After I confronted her about it, she became mean and made unhinged and unsubstantiated claims about me, …
My brain always keeps my lucid dreams limited and i hate it!! — **My third ever lucid dream (last night)** **Duration: 10 mins or more** The dream was that i wanted to get out of my house (I've never done that in LDs) and go explore and do cool stuff for once,…
I Can't Gatekeep This... This changed my life — Hi everyone, I just want to say this isn’t promo. I don’t post stuff like this, but this is one of those things I wish someone told me earlier. For years I’ve been lowkey obsessed with one question… …
Why "faking it until you make it" usually fails (and how to actually shift) — Heyy everyone🥰 We’ve all heard the advice: "Just live in the end" or "Act as if it’s already yours." but let’s be reall it’s hard to feel like a millionaire or a beloved partner when your 3D reality…
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide — This post contains guides, FAQs and the fundamentals that are suitable for both beginners and experienced members. Explore the links, videos, Astral Projection stories from experienced community membe…
About, Wiki, Rules, Books, Etc-- Read First — # Welcome to the energy work sub! The purpose of this community is to explore human energy in all of its facets. Out of body experiences, energy healing, energetic connections between people, psychic…
Tysm for posting this compendium and summary. I can feel your sense of kindness and willingness to share with others when so many might gatekeep or be hostile. ❤️
You’re not being rude. You just don’t understand. I won’t explain it either because I want to gatekeep it. Why does my sp come only when I want them to or work on myself? and leave exactly when I ha…
You are also not going to have children with strangers, acquaintances, or even friends, and let those people potentially hurt you deeply + take half of your things when those relationship ends. You a…
Absolutely not. A good therapist will steer you out of your bullshit behaviour, an ai will just go 'yassss girlboss gaslight gatekeep' and make you believe it's everyone else who's the problem. Not be…
Hmm. If you offer a relationship right off the bat without knowing the person, that typically is a red flag for women. There is no mystery, nothing to conquer. Women are gatekeeper of sex, men are …
From the purely bystander's perspective, ie. the rational and adult brain perspective with 0 emotions involved, him telling you to "act normal" was yet another of his defense mechanisms. From the po…
Feeling included? Transparency? He admits he handled things wrong in the past.. but hasn’t done much in regard to her and that situation. I understand he gets anxiety and like all of us has trauma and…
Yeah, I've had a male best friend for 20+ years at this point and there's absolutely no way we would even consider getting matching tattoos (although he does accompany me when I'm getting new piercing…
Omg yes thank you, that’s exactly how it felt when I read it. After some reflection it feels like he thinks he’s the gatekeeper of the relationship and I’ve been “applying” to a “job”. He told me he f…
A few of thoughts First, the original Stoics were writing and debating their theories over 2,000 years ago. Due to the vagueries of translation and the vastness of time between them and us, there are…
Jesus. So fucking evil. My ndad was the opposite while my mom was fighting cancer. He became the gatekeeper. He accused me of abandoning my mother from 2017 until she died in 2021. My brother and I bo…
I really struggled at this phase in my healing. I felt I was seeing everything for what it was finally, but my nervous system would over-activate. I would also freeze. My biggest progress in this stag…
So far, sure. I honestly can’t think of something that would blow my mind. And I’m not saying that it’s not ever inconvenient. I’m saying that any inconvenience is worth it to me. (I don’t really kno…
$600? More like the Gatekeeper tapes.
I’m sorry you going through this, but there is no comfort in contacting the AP. He is morally deficient. Your wife is the gatekeeper and she let the wolf in, that is where you focus your efforts
They don't understand how much much Asians **worship** education. Or how Asian parents had to sacrifice their earnings and our childhood so we can be miserable at Kumon and other prep schools. These…
Nice post! But I should add... also the people coming in who are experts, that could offer some relief and "tap you out" and maybe take over some of the burden, for whom lucid dreaming has become a…
It's kind of a strange phenomenon with incels. It's a group where manhood is defined by sexual activity. On one hand, they are stifled by the more conservative understanding of masculinity yet they wa…
"this situation is kind of weird" = gatekeeping?
We really should start gatekeeping and getting more defensive like they are.
If you're stating fact, I just wanna know the source so I can do my own investigation. Or is it that you're gatekeeping so you're using projection? Atp I don't even want your source, its probably lace…
I apologize but your comment reeks of a very tiny bit of gatekeeping. Again, I am not trying to confront or shame you but some of your choices in words such as 'watered down' and 'taking away from peo…
Western media doing what it does best when it comes to casting Asians in any major roles: usually erasing Asian men in favor of mixed Asian men, and Asian women (including those who are mixed) rarely …
He popularized the term. Thanks for sharing, but like I said, evolution is evolution. He's run more people form more backgrounds through the nonphysical exploration process than any yogi or even teams…
Her Instagram account doesn't have a blue check mark. Once again I'm worrying if this entire thing is some sort of social experiment to "prove" points for a certain side in our culture wars. I mean...…
Is this some gatekeeping or what? Many people are attracted to women of other races.
While not trying to gatekeep, this is a fair question. For instance Ive seen people describe their meditation practice as 'just zoning out and relaxing', 'sitting in a bath daydreaming', etc. While t…
I was taught by my spirit guides, so I'm not sure on what literature is out there. I'll tell you how I do it though, I'm not one to gatekeep useful information such as this. I tend to do this whil…
I am in my late twenties and my ex is in her early 30s. We broke up on the 15th of February. After two weeks of being blocked, she reached out to meet, in the hopes of working things out. I thought sh…
The only historical fact I’ve got from you so far is he coined the term —combining binaural beats, breathwork, mantra, and yoga nidra, but invented nothing new. REBAL is just another aspect of the lig…
You sitting down? Good ... There's a good chance you're neurodivergent. Try browsing the neurodivergent subs here... /autism, /adhd, /neurodivergent... (I personally like /evilautism over the /autism…
Yup. I really appreciate them also. Very authentic about wanting to help people, make real manifesting accessible, and get the truth out about manifesting without misinformation or gatekeeping content…
You look like a momma's boy, through and through. Throw in the fact that you're a 'systems engineer' who never does cannabis, only drinks on 'special occasions' and don't have a pet (but would love on…
It's not a coincidence. The white men who are gatekeepers favor Asian women more than Asian men. It's played out in social groups too. Majority white mixed gender social groups have multiples more A…
What you've met is known as a gatekeeper usually they serve as guides I have one of those cloaks myself not sure why but I do
...I wasn't talking about Asian men giving Asian women a hard time online for not always dating Asian men. If my personal experience was that the non-Asian +1's of these ESEA women were overwhelmingly…
Food, clothes, shelter: we live in a matrix that gatekeeps these necessities, so most people are forced to spend a majority of their time concerned with these 'root chakra' issues. Most people also ha…
Whoa I thought woman are the gatekeepers of sex. I thought you stood up for the feminist movement. It is murder. If she had kept it for nine months like you said. It would have became a child. It…
But you didn’t answer my question, I thought women were the gatekeepers of sex.
i'm not a christian but having an experience convinced me, previously a materialist atheist, that Christ really did exist, does that make sense? and then you look at all the gatekeepers of the UFO s…
Great share. I think it's also the parents job to gatekeep who their kids hang out with and to put in extra effort to ensure they grow up with other Asian kids. I think parents have ~14 years before t…
It's actually wild to me that people think Europeans or Africans or Latin Americans ("mejorar la raza") aren't class-obsessed. Like it's just an Asian or Korean thing apparently. No, the reality is …
Yeah, that's one of the traditional ways of looking at it. For some people, it sure feels like a barrier. But, just like today where we get stuck in some meme and that filters our world view, people w…
As another Chinese American, I was gonna say try connecting to other Chinese Americans if your family isn't giving you that connection, but it's sad to hear that other Chinese have dismissed you. Maki…
This is actually completely pointless to share if you're going to talk about how great this is but gatekeep where we can listen to it. It doesn't appear to be on the Hemisync app. So where can I spend…
Love him! Been watching his excellent spy-thriller tv series, “The Copenhagen Test” (which just appeared on my Peacock App one day—saw no promo for it, or anything—was just like: “Um, damn. Why have…
SA women show strong in-group preference and don't statistically date outwards anyways. They don't have the same systemic imbalance in dating that E/SE Asians face so it doesn't make sense to group us…
I agree. Become disabled/chronically ill & you are now subhuman. Gatekeepers in the medical industry & social programs are bullies with no empathy & are extremely abusive. Family & friends are dismiss…
because women are the relationship gatekeepers. they are the ones who have to be 'suaded. men don't have the plethora of inbox messages they do, that have to be filtered through. women have to be sele…
I get why that would frustrate you. You went in expecting normal friendships, then found out later the values didn’t match. That feelslike wasted time and energy What you’re describing does happen. S…