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I want to point out something I think you might not see yet about your own post. You titled this "how do I handle this?" But every single paragraph is a piece of evidence. The 4 years unemployed. The…
I feel like certain people latch onto me and drain my energy—how do I handle this? — Hey everyone, I’m brand new to all of this, and I’m hoping for some guidance. I’ve always noticed that, at different times in my life, I’ve had specific individuals who seem almost obsessed with linge…
My girlfriend (27F) flirts with other people in front of me (28F) and it makes me feel disrespected-how do I handle this? (together 4 years) — Hi everyone, I need some advice. My partner and I have been together for almost 4 years, and one recurring issue is that she's naturally very flirty with everyone. I love her and I trust that she lov…
My friend/coworker (26F) didn’t invite me (26M) to her birthday party after I helped her get her job. How do I handle this? — My friend who is also my coworker (26F) is having a birthday party this weekend and I (26M) just realized I wasn’t invited. This is especially weird because I literally recommended her for her current…
My parents are forcing the marriage talk only one month after my breakup. How do I handle this? — I (31F) have been living in Germany for the last 8 years, but my Indian parents’ expectations haven't changed with the distance. I’m currently at a breaking point and need to vent/get some perspective…
My partner is financially stretched, how do I handle this? — I (40F) have been dating my partner (43M) for about a year. He’s a great person and everything else in the relationship is pretty good, but I’m really struggling with one issue: finances. I’m in a st…
Family crisis has made me realize how deeply my mother’s criticism still affects me — how do I handle this? — We have been going through a major family crisis right now and it has brought up a lot of old pain in my relationship with my mother. For some background, my brother has severe addiction issues and i…
Partner(35M)could not attend a family event due to my(33F) appointment and his family is angry. What to do? — I moved to my partner's country to be with him so I had an important appointment to get my official documents on the same day as his sister-in-law's father's funeral. My partner chose to be with me an…
How do I (21) navigate friend groups where your friends still hang with people who have disrespected you? — (We’re all the same age, 21) Long story short one of the girls from my high school friend group made a really sudden and unexpected racist “joke” towards me in front of everyone back in December. Ho…
I (23F) use Reddit for outside perspective because I don’t want biased opinions from friends/family, but I think my boyfriend (26M) found my account and is uncomfortable. How do I handle this? — I sometimes use Reddit to get outside perspective when my boyfriend and I have issues. I started doing that because I realized that when I go to friends or family, they usually automatically side with…
My boyfriend has a habit of stressing me out right before exams — TL;DR: My boyfriend repeatedly brings up serious issues right before my exams, which leaves me emotionally drained and affects my performance. I’ve asked him not to do this, but he says he can’t help …
My boyfriend (21M) keeps saying I (21F) said things I didn’t, how do I handle this? — Also I know I might have handled the situation wrong, but I was and still am super frustrated. Also I’m asking for advice. Me (21F) and my boyfriend (21M) hung out today, and everything was going wel…
How do I tell my (22F) partner (22nb) that my birthday gift feels more like a chore? — My birthday is in a few days and I'm dreading my birthday present. Anastasia is my favorite musical, and I've told my partner that I would kill to see it live. On Valentines day, they told me they bo…
I [26F] am struggling with my boyfriend [33M] lack of ambition. How do I handle this? — I \[26F\] am reaching my breaking point with my boyfriend \[33M\]. We’ve been together for over five years; we met at the same university during the pandemic and have been together ever since. For th…
New here, I hope I picked the right place for my question: I feel I can do the LOA when I am by myself. But then my SP comes along and it is very hard. He calls that "being realistic". I stopped talki…
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