you issue,

There are lots of replies, so I hope OP is able to read this. This isn't a "you issue," its a "him issue." It sounds like he was raised in a dysfunctional family, so meeting your parents, even for…

You've been together for a year, and you many of your thoughts relate to his **potential** financial instability. I think it's past time to have a talk about finances and to ask for some transparency…

I'm sorry, but he doesn't want sex with the lights off, so I feel compelled to ask, what is wrong with sex with the lights on? Is it a you issue, a motherhood issue? Is it because of your self esteem?…

That’s a you issue, find your spine (as nicely as I can say that, without any animosity), if he keeps pushing back, you tell him this ‘conversation isn’t productive’ and hang up. Literally, hang up th…