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Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 08, 2026

Not dating perse but I'm (33M) still dealing with the fallout a friendship breakup with an ex-friend (28F) that honestly makes me feel like it's a bad breakup. About 8 months ago this ex-friend joined…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/9/2026
What are some healthy ways of self-soothing in place of limerence?

What are some healthy ways of self-soothing in place of limerence? — Hi fellow anxious attachments girlies (and guys!! and everyone)…I’m someone who has used fantasy about a person to escape a lot in the past. I’m better about it now, but sometimes the tendency still c…

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost9/26/2025
On and off for 2+ years, I want this to be the end

On and off for 2+ years, I want this to be the end — \*needing advice & encouragement We had an awfully traumatic relationship - trauma bond, mental health issues (I have complex PTSD from him, and an array of other MH issues like bipolar, and social …

r/ExNoContactpost4/8/2026
Looking for 10 female - test users for an app that combines your cycle + moon cosmo data

Looking for 10 female - test users for an app that combines your cycle + moon cosmo data — Ideally you are already 1) Tracking your cycle via Flo or whatever apps 2) You know your big 3 aka birth time etc 3) You are both spiritual (believe in manifestation, energy work, etc) and prac…

r/Manifestationpost4/9/2026
Deal for a deal 🤝

Deal for a deal 🤝 — I'm making an ig burner account, and i want to make it look legit so I would need ur follow on that. and in return I can follow people whom u want to know about. I'm a girl, and I would be watching …

r/BreakUpspost4/13/2026
What are some healthy ways of self-soothing in place of limerence?

Text of original post by u/BoysenberryAwkward76: Hi fellow anxious attachments girlies (and guys!! and everyone)…I’m someone who has used fantasy about a person to escape a lot in the past. I’m better…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/26/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Hey fellow expressive girlies, this is just a reminder (to me as well 😜) to never let a man dim your shine! I am a talker! I’m a verbal processor with a good attitude, I’m gonna give people complimen…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Holy shitballs, that sounds EVEN BETTER than anything I could have imagined! The girlies are gonna LOVE IT 😍

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/14/2026
Thoughts on dating people who are legally married (but separated)?

I am a separated dude who will eventually divorce once we can sort out our finances. It's amicable and we're trying not to screw each other (ayooo) Best way on my end to navigate that is to find enm …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
Dating over forty and living separately

See, economics are the only reason I would live with another person. I’m living w my 80 year old mom now. It’s not great and if she or my dad dies, I’m homeless. But even with a good job, I can’t affo…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
Unable to forget what I (20F) saw on my bf’s (24M) phone

Hey girlies, im a med student dealing with this currently with my bf. It sucks. I found out the morning of an incredibly important research presentation but somehow I went up there and killed it. Plea…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/14/2026
Has anyone dated a lot and kind of regret it?

Ignore the body count judges. They’re just jealous.  I had to date to get out and do fun things because most of my girlies are introverts, have chronic illness or both so they never left lockdown. 

r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
The Public's Opinion on WMAFs has done a 180 in the last 5 years

Women tend to be way more susceptible to social influence. That's why you see that so many SJWs and leftists are female. Asian women are no different. If anything, they're more likely to be influenc…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/29/2026
UPDATE: My (23F) Boyfriend (24M) got really jacked and now I’m no longer attracted to him

Sam Edelman boots has great options for thick calf girlies! Comfier than most too imo

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
How do you “win” the breakup?

I have considered my win in past breakup. When the breakup happened, first I reached out to my girlies. Watched this movie"how to be single" as many times as possible. There is a podcast called - Dat…

r/BreakUpscomment4/2/2026
How do I convince my parents to knock and enter, or let me lock the door?

Girl I'm 26 and I was having a conversation with my mother yesterday that she needs to give me some time alone at home. She knocks even at the washroom door. I was scrubbing my feet! And it's like jal…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment4/6/2026
Have you ever missed only the sex from ur partner?

Ironic because a few comments up you were laughing about how "mid" it was. Not possible that HE had better like you did huh? Gotta stick up for the girlies smh

r/ExNoContactcomment4/7/2026
Former “hot girl” that was used and coerced to the point of trauma - how do I fully heal?

Oh my god! Feels like the universe is playing tricks on me. Feels like it’s written about me. sweetheart this genuinely felt like reading about myself, exactly every single thing and experience. A…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/9/2026
My (36F) partner (37M) recently got a medical diagnosis and now wants an open relationship. Is it selfish of me to not want to? Or selfish of him to ask for one?

his blame against you for his bad health issues LONG before you even met (i’d assume) it’s a WILD theory right? how can he blame you for a virus that changed him on an international trip he made in hi…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 08, 2026

god I hate when grown women say "girlies" it instantly pisses me off when I hear it. especially coupled with immature behavior like this. anyway, I would not be surprised if her boyfriend snapped on h…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 08, 2026

- Yes, heard her use the “girlies” word when we were friends and I thought it was weird at the time but just shrugged about it just being an eccentricity. Following the friendship’s end I add it to my…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/10/2026
My bf (M22) is losing interest in me (F22) what can I do or how can I have a conversation without arguing?

HEY GIRL. It's time to make what we girlies call an EXIT PLAN. As caring and loving girls we don't want to leave them empty handed of COURSE. Completely understandable. What ya need to do is give hi…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026