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Asian parents and haircuts.

I learned a lot reading about narcissism and narcissistic parents. My mother also controlled my hair while I was growing up and into my teens until I just plain refused to go to the salon with her. Ha…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment4/11/2026
Dating Apps Make Me Feel Super Lonely

Dating Apps Make Me Feel Super Lonely — Hello all. I'm a 45 (M). I rely far too heavily on dating apps because my current job (which I'm seeking to leave) is pretty isolating with respect to meeting new women. I also pretty much have no fr…

r/datingoverfortypost3/19/2026
Anxiety about my past getting brought up

Anxiety about my past getting brought up — I'm trying to get my foot into the entertainment business, but when I turned 18 (2 years ago) I got crazy trying to ease my anxieties about my Internet safety and decided to be as unsafe as I could wi…

r/Anxietyhelppost3/30/2026
Looking to start life over, nice areas with sizeable Asian populations?

Looking to start life over, nice areas with sizeable Asian populations? — Hey folks! I'm an Asian guy (28) that's looking for suggestions or even life advice. I lived on the east coast in the New England area my whole life in an essentially 99% White state. All through sch…

r/AsianAmericanpost4/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

Im sorry to hear you’re going through that that sounds really challenging. I hope things feel better for you soon, it’s really frustrating to not even be able to walk like you used to. I get that so…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
My mom called my son’s birthday party “f***ing embarrassing” because she cares more about what people think than celebrating him

I personally would not deal with this. I am no contact with my narc dad. But i understand not everybody wants to cut out their parents from their life. You need to set strict boundaries and kind of st…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/10/2026
Is this person ideal for marriage!

Okay look at d9 too as d9 shows one inner nature and trasnformation of life after marrage and second half of life D9 lagna leo lagna lord conjunction with Jupiter spiritual in nature venus in lagna …

r/vedicastrologycomment3/15/2026
Dating Apps Make Me Feel Super Lonely

Original copy of post by u/Headbandallday: Hello all. I'm a 45 (M). I rely far too heavily on dating apps because my current job (which I'm seeking to leave) is pretty isolating with respect to meet…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
Does anyone secretly hope for the “we reconnect years later” ending with an ex?

Its the only thing thats giving me hope right now as im healing and working on myself. I have too much baggage, i was too much trouble for her and i chose to step away because it hit me at one point h…

r/BreakUpscomment3/23/2026
Found out my wife cheated before, after & during marriage

We can all need a hand every now and again. You aren't weak or wrong for needing help. You have been through something insanely hurtful and stressful. If you weren't bothered by that, it wouldn't hav…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/25/2026
Anyone who grew up in China and then moved to US at a later age?

I am guessing He didn’t have too much trouble adapting since he still came at a relatively young age.

r/AsianAmericancomment3/27/2026
My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice?

I married this guy. I eventually just stopped having sex with him at all. It made me feel gross to nag him. Then I just started dissociating and he never noticed that either I finally realized he just…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
Do you think this is a valid reason for AFs to avoid dating AMs?

No lmao, not a valid reason. She basically just said that she’d rather submit to white patriarchy because it’s the status quo. And as for OP, why is it too much trouble for you to visit your Chinese g…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment4/6/2026
What did your parent(s) tell you about relationships and marriage?

I had single mother family - she did not tell much, I think she struggled herself with relationships, perhaps she is on autism spectrum and or was traumatised by her parents. Our relationship was a c…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment4/8/2026
Asking my “master manifestors”

Thank you so much for your reply!! If it’s not too much trouble could you talk a little bit more about nervous system & identity catching up? Because like I said- it’s the big things that take “foreve…

r/lawofattractioncomment4/9/2026
What are your thoughts on the Victorian ideal of masculinity?

Downloaded it. Here’s a better link. I was able to access the full text through this: https://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/items/b5d53f04-b8cb-4f32-b4b4-9c3b73acc595 Heads up, you’ll have to create an acc…

r/Stoicismcomment4/11/2026
The way minors are treated when they're clearly experiencing hypersexuality due to sexual abuse is insane

I have met, as adults, alot of the "bad guys" who werent violent who were well known in my area as a teen They were all just traumatized. And incredibly sad and kind And JUST like me. Although I d…

r/CPTSDcomment4/11/2026
What advice would you give someone who has given up on dating?

Be friends with a broad group that includes women, but not for the purpose of dating. Just increase your social and friendship experiences and enjoy spending time alone and with others. This sounds …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/13/2026