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I learned a lot reading about narcissism and narcissistic parents. My mother also controlled my hair while I was growing up and into my teens until I just plain refused to go to the salon with her. Ha…
The old standby advice for an ending relationship (or cheating or whatever) is "lawyer up, delete Facebook, hit the gym" or joking variations. I guess it's just being abbreviated to references to the…
Delete reddit, lawyer up, hit the gym. You're single now. Find another woman who'll respect you.
Consider yourself lucky you aren’t married!! She’s showing you who she really is. Lawyer up and be the best dad you can be for the kids
You can collect proof and have HR deal with it. If they don't, then you can go to the media and lawyer up. That way, you can collect enough of a payday to move out of that racist shithole and into a b…
So sorry to hear that. Some things I would do. 1) Get in the habit of documenting all your interactions with colleagues. Don't know exactly what you do at a medical setting when outcomes can be impa…
The kids aren't going anywhere internationally without a passport. If they have passports, get ahold of them. If they don't then get ahold of their birth certificates. And, of course, like other p…
Lawyer up. You’re stuck with half depending on the state, unless you actually filed.
> I still have no idea whether that girl wants to take legal action or not, I don't really care anymore to be honest. That's the problem though, you can be forced into it, ironically. Consider findi…
Sorry this is happening. Do not confront. If you are still in the same house, move out of the bedroom to another room or the couch, totally gray rock the shit out of her. Total iceman, no communicatio…
Lawyer up, find a hobby, and hit the gym. Don’t let her know you know anymore.
Ok, show us the literature that recommends therapists immediately recommend clients to lawyer up and divorce? I suspect you can't because you just pulled this out of your ass and are speaking from you…
What power does she have? What does she want a restraining order lol!! lawyer up if you have to!
OP lawyer up, record everything she says (specially the menace/threat of doing your life hard or miserable) And tell her that she has no word in it like you had no word with how and when she introduc…
Honestly OP, the moment she started to f—k this guy, your marriage was over. On top of that she lied for years about it, even when you confronted her. You did everything a good husband should be doing…
100%. Hopefully the money isn’t already gone. Lawyer up ASAP.
Who put the down payment on the house? If you did, lawyer up.
Your post indicates you're not married to this woman. Lawyer up to understand your custody rights and obligations. DNA the kids just to be sure. If this woman hasn't been screwing you for the past…
Time to lawyer up. Unacceptable.
Lawyer up asap. Don't do or say anything before this step.
I can promise you 99.9999999% he’s cheating. Whether emotionally or physically. Might be a coworker that had lunch together in the car- my best guess. So many APs are coworkers. My husband’s was. Bec…
Don't make a big splash. You know what you know. You don't need to have her admit it, and she won't feel guilty. What she did was deliberate. Lawyer up, just in case you need that where you live. (A …
If you truly believe that your wife was in an EA after six months affair then my friend i would like to sell you an Inland. The only one who feels marriage is you only. TIME TO LAWYER UP AND EXPOSE HE…
Tell him for 50k you will do it. Write up a contract. With real property involved, I think you should lawyer up.
That can work if neither party gets combative, sure. If he's going to make things difficult if you keep your name, then you're gonna want to lawyer up. Most areas have some sort of legal aid clinic …
It became your name when you got married, he has no further say in what you do with it. Also, under no condition should you ever discuss the conditions of your separation with him directly again. Ge…
No kids? Oh, well. Lawyer up, hit the gym, delete from facebook.
Yep! Time to lawyer up. He will keep coming at her with one ridiculous demand after another without even filing for divorce. She should hurry up and find herself an attorney and then start the form…
Divorce him. Choose you and your child’s best interests. Lawyer up. He should be able to provide for himself and not request alimony. But just in case Have your lawyer get ex-husb to agree to alimony …
To me, it isn't necessary anymore to label it. NPD? BPD? (POS? AH?) They'll never accept a diagnosis. The only label that matters to me is what I received: abuse. Narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse…
Time to lawyer up the minute she threatens to use the kids against you.
Lawyer up. Kick her to the curb. Rally friends and family and tell them the truth.
They do love a dogpile in this sub. Hell, half the commenters don’t even finish the OP before they head to the comments to cut’n’paste their last comment from a different post saying the exact same s…
Probably only married you to milk you in the divorce. Try for an annulment and lawyer up.
He's a bad guy. Lawyer up and stay strong.
Lawyer up bro and never remarry just date. My advice to him.
Hey, friend. You deserve peace, and in relationship you deserve to be cherished and respected. Echoing others here: Lawyer up, write her a letter to read while you are out of the house.
Well, you gotta lawyer up anyway. If she's a customer using felony-level drugs, you will need to show your non-involvement if the dealer (or her) get busted.
Lawyer up. Your husband did you dirty. Is that how a man who respects you acts?? That soooo fucked up. And there was AI porn of his mother?? Id be done.
Lawyer up before you do anything. Custody is going to be a battle and you'll need your ducks in a row.
Restraining order. But before you do that RECOGNIZE THEIR PRIMARY WEAPON. Gossip and character assassination. So you know they talk shit. Start doing the same but with truth bombs. Tell everyone ever…
Have you tried twerking for him? Maybe let him record it, or you record it yourself and send it to him? YouTube, tiktok, insta - all them sites are full of twerking tutorials. I'm trying to put mys…
New job? She probably has a new guy on the hook. So it's bye bye husband. Best thing to do is lawyer up, gray rock and fight to protect yourself
Kick his ass to the curb. Don’t worry about her, she’s trash. He’s the one who needs to be your sole focus. He must pay, literally & figuratively. Lawyer up, my dear.
Yeah, you can be mad at her, but just realize if it hadn't been her, it would've been someone else. You can't be mad at the whole world of potential APs. Lawyer up with a shark and take your WS to the…
Cheaters cheat and liars lie. This is who your wife is. She has made her choice repeatedly... and it isn't you and your family. You've learned the hard lesson that to a cheater, forgiveness is permiss…
Lawyer up with pro bono providers or just take a loan out and do minimum payments.. Thank you for your service.
Lawyer up and counter sue. Fight back or he will never stop.
Lawyer ASAP, and you should be able to get a protective order given this conduct. Hole in the drywall and broken glass is abusive behavior and doing it in front of the kids is unacceptable, and a cour…