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I will second this - do not move back in with them. I made the mistake of moving back in with them after a breakup and hitting a wall with my career to "regroup" and “start over again” since I was dea…
Just another day, Stuck in a maze, Just another hurt, Eyes in a haze — Just another day, Stuck in a maze, Just another hurt, Eyes in a haze, Just another route, Stuck in a loop, Just another plan, Tryin'a regroup, Just another goal, Stuck in a storm, Just anoth…
I (F31) ruined my relationship (M27) and now I don't know what to do. — I thought our relationship was perfect. It was the best I felt with someone, even though there were flaws on both sides, I saw it as "we're improving together" rather than "I need you to be perfect, a…
So I started over — Engaged and together 2 years. Never was a co dependent person but we built a life together. Both got cars and improved our credit, I took out loans and got insurance and all the adult stuff. We built …
man, I've been feeling the same as of late, it's unreal. today especially. me and her were together for almost 4 years. domestic. marriage talks at some point. it's about to be 3 years since she walke…
I feel the healthiest thing for both when this happens is to go, "This conflict has obviously occurred, and we need to talk about it and reconcile it. Since we are both too dysregulated to handle it n…
Sometimes my partner and I have to leave to cool off for a bit, but we always regroup by the end of the day after we've cooled off and have clearer heads. But your bf is leaving and going radio-sile…
When you put it the way you are experiencing it sounds horrible. But if both of you need a break to regroup and be better for each other the next round, that makes sense.
thank-you for sharing. last night i submitted all the documents that my lawyer asked for and today they debted the retainer payment. i'm not looking forward to not seeing my two teenage boys everyday.…
Yes ! Get a reliable car, like a Toyota. They are great. For investment you can get a professional or if you want to learn more about it you could take classes. Look into ETF, they are stock that reg…
Do you drive home? I’m a working mom as well and I work with clients. Sometimes if the day was especially bad, I’ll drive somewhere after work like a parking lot or an overlook and just sit in my car …
When you really think about it, what was the 'gym guy' actually like? What would you rate him looks, career, ego, wealth, attitude, demeanor wise? What drew you to him? There is a pattern here, with…
He cheated because he wants to. His actions say I want out of the marriage, want to be with her and I am a selfish narcissist and don’t care about you or our child. He is not remorseful, but narcissis…
Wow. I am almost out of a 13 year marriage that sounds eerily similar to yours. It's been 11 months since I fled the marital home and retained a pitbull of a divorce attorney. We went to trial a few …
I had to start over after being a sahm for 17 years. He left for his mistress and destroyed our family. He even filed for full custody despite rarely parenting and living on the opposite coast for 4…
>I’m Viet as well, and have many family members that were caught in the crossfire of this conflict. But the reality of it is that even the side that is “in the right” will do bad, horrible things as w…
Thank you! This group has really helped me regroup and refocus because I was truly a spiraling mess . Things are still sad but it’s getting much better!
Bro this is a second date. Not someone she's been with for years who may be going thru a rough time and acting out of character. I'd give someone this wasn't normal behavior for some grace and time to…
Had to do this with my own mother, I pretended she did not exist, completely ignored her. If they try to engage just smile and say, "That's nice" and walk away, or "You know, you should ask my husband…
I didn't see the point in being vindictive, or trying to be a weasel. In real terms, the extra amount I had to absorb was maybe a years income on paper. Gave me a chance to restructure, regroup and r…
the silence is actually the best outcome here tbh. once a narc realizes they can't get you to feel bad about calling them out they pull the silent treatment card - which means she's regrouping and fig…
Ok so I can answer this pretty thoroughly as a 4th gen Japanese American. The Japanese American community is a shell of what it once was. The only 2 places that still have a sizeable community are H…