If that's what you want.

My narcissistic mother used to sneer at me that she was leaving everything to the dogs before I went NC. I just said - "If that's what you want." and watched her go red in the face because I wasn't i…

Anyone else feeling like it's almost impossible to have stability? — I rewatched Harry and Sally and couldn't not notice how it's so much harder nowadays to have a roof over your head, a decent paying job, and conditions long term so you can get into relationships and …

I hope you can resolve things and get back together with her if that's what you want.

You chose to go to a school four hours away for reasons. You chose not to be local to her. And that's perfectly fine! In my experience, this almost always means she has cheated already or plans to. O…

To be fair, I think that two counseling sessions is not enough. I would suggest attempting again. The spiral of questions is going to follow you for a long time and into other relationship if that's w…

All of this. I have always been a little more thick, maybe leaning towards chubby & then gained weight after kids. My first was a huge baby & then I had twins. My stomach looks like deflated balloons.…

You're misunderstanding what ghosting is. If you break up with someone and don't want to remain in contact, you aren't required to. Communicating your desire to not be in contact and then not respondi…

Do things you know you'll be shit at. I stayed rollerskating and usually I can pick things up quick, not this time. It's taken me years to get decent at it. Took up dancing, have I ever been a dancer …

Those types of "romances" fizzle out as fast as they start though. Which is fine if that's what you want. What you're describing is rarely sustainable nor grounded. It's nervous system shit, and usua…

?????? Selfish because you don't want your partner to have sex with other people? Man, the internet has driven people mad. If two people want an open relationship, by all means, that's up to them. …