book
Little bit more
Evidence
Citations (67)
6 years of CBT. Results? Passivity in realtionships, locked down at home, fear, loose of all my creativity. There Is a big problem? See a psychiatrist. So meds and meds. And I was an artist. Fucking t…
Which DevOps repositories need contributions? — I don't think I am the only one that has a little bit of a spare time in their life and would love to help out on a DevOps project in need. What are your favorite ones? Which repositories need just…
Please help — Hey there! Found this community a few days ago and I seriously need advice on how to push thru the panic/ anxiety. I know I'm an avoidant. All my life I've never wanted people to see me. All my life…
How to say hi to girl in the park? 39M — At my big age (39M), I should be able to go up and just say "hello" to someone, but this is a little bit more nuanced. A few years ago (around 2-3), when I was still on dating apps, this woman would…
I cut wood from an ancient burned tree, watched it burn on LSD, and 100s of grey alien faces emerged from the embers sending me 🫶. Has anyone else experienced this? — I need to share this because I can’t stop thinking about it and I want to know if anyone has had anything similar. A friend and I went camping in the Australian bush. Before the trip started, we chai…
I cut wood from an ancient burned tree, watched it burn on LSD, and 100s of grey alien faces emerged from the embers sending me 🫶. Has anyone else experienced this? — I need to share this because I can’t stop thinking about it and I want to know if anyone has had anything similar. A friend and I went camping in the Australian bush. Before the trip started, we chai…
Manifesting a guy who barely knows me — So there's this guy who i really really really like and we barely know each other. Idk how much he knows about me but I'm sure he's heard of me through his friends , not much just my name. I know him …
AITA: Body Odor — 42 y/o male in the process of getting divorced (11-year long relationship, married for almost 10 years before separation). After being separated for over a year, I started dating and met a great woman…
My girlfriend doesn’t talk to me when she’s mad and i don’t know what to do — Hi im (16M) i’ve been dating my girlfriend (16F) for about 6 months now and literally anytime she’s mad at me or upset with me no matter how big or how small she’ll just stop talking to me, lets say w…
let's share our depression hacks that no one ever talks about — 1. depressed in bed: i just switched onto the other side of the bed (head is where feet normally are.)I'm still depressed, but it's a hack and I feel \*different\* at the very least. 2. sit up. I'm no…
I hate my ex — So my ex broke up with me about four months ago and stuff and I know our relationship wasn’t perfect and all this there were some mistakes I didn’t that she did whatever our break up was basically sup…
How to deal with a break up where you still love each other but are not compatible? — I broke up with my partner 3 days ago and I just don't know how to feel and what to do. Me and my partner were together for almost a year. When they broke up with me, I was told that they love me but …
I [20F] and my Bf [19M] are struggling to get over something that happened, what can we do? (Slight TW) — So, I (20F) and my boyfriend (19M) (Who im gonna call J) have been together 3½ years. We started dating when we were 16, and honestly, the relationship itself has been great. There have been ups and d…
I like when there’s tension in my home — This sound weird, but All my life, I was used to unstable environments. I was used to my mom coming home angry every day. I was used to my parents fighting every day. The only thing that was stable wa…
Too much Sympathy — TW: manipulative parents I am curious if anyone else experiences this. My go to reaction tends to be one of trying to take the best possible view of someone else. Potentially even ignoring negati…
manifested (kind of) an SP from thin air! — this will be a long one, buckle up! # chapter 0, my journey so i started manifesting seriously from a month now. i didnt really know what it was before that. i kind of thought it was hocus pocus ps…
Has anyone ever had serotonin syndrome happen to them from mixing LSD and shrooms? — Hi there, this is my first post and it might a long one so I do apologise. I had a very strange experience a few nights ago with my sister, to give some context this was not my first time taking lsd…
Introduction, Valuable Healing and Attachment resources — # Hi, and welcome! It is a pleasure to have you with us. Please come as you are, we encourage you to share openly and vulnerably. If you do not wish to share and just browse, you are welcomed here to…
Being secure means not personalising their behaviour and focusing on yourself - It is never an easy journey even if you are an avoidant so just keep moving as much as you can. Somebody ( FA male) I wa…
Yes, I had / have the same experience ( former- I consider) FA. I rarely get attached to people, unless they prove themselves. And, at the slightest sign of them being inconsistent, I detach. I worke…
My family will likely want to go out to eat. Friends idk though, and plans I’m unsure of too 😂 but I know I’m gonna have to make plans myself. I feel loved, but I just wish I had someone special to…
I haven't really met anyone in the wild, but it's been easier for me to get to the first date. The second date and after is usually where things fall apart. I think I come off as a little bit more con…
I was hoping maybe. Could have a little bit more time to get to know each other. He said he wasn’t feeling it :( 😮💨🥲
Wow other than the situation with the kid, our situation is very similar and I don’t want to repeat this cycle over and over only to get hurt more and more. It’s so confusing because we built our life…
Definitely if someone does it the way he did you need to block them sooner. A lot of people think “if I wait and be good , they will see it and come back”. You really have to do the opposite. Block an…
Exact doses needed otherwise it can go very wrong. First time I did it, my “friend” said we can either do a dose and a little bit more in a drink, or we can snort it. Snort it I said. Fuck my life. …
I fully agree with everything you said except > bearing in mind that anything less than an enthusiastic yes is a no. 😬 this seems over the top to me. Can you explain a little bit more why you sa…
I appreciate this post. I’ve also felt the same way around money , and it’s been so disappointing to see such little movement around money in my own life. I’ve experienced the same thing you did , thi…
Can I give you my two cents? Hearing that he never had any female attention makes a lot of sense...and it's not an excuse to him AT ALL. But in my case, I was with my partner for 12 years we were high…
Glad that you’ve cut her off. I’ve sat and thought about your chart for a little more and having a little bit more info about the religious aspect. I’d like to study a little more, because simply look…
You miss the point. All you've said is that someone with Mercury in 12/3/6 thinks a lot. There is nothing inherently dysfunctional about thinking a lot. It is literally a requirement for working in in…
Therapy starts with an overview of how you experience things. You can’t really get into all of it in a single session. Narcissist do truly believe that they are loving and just don’t express it the wa…
I had a great weekend spending time with my friends including -her-. I'm not going into all the details, as I'm very consciously and actively NOT trying to read into everything for a change (breaking …
I try to use humor in everything, in makes life a little bit more tolerable. The way I see it, I'm a used car at this age, no longer a new showroom model. I have my dings, dents, and odd sounds. I'm …
I have dated a lot and I do not regret it. Any future man of mine that has a problem with this is not a man I want to be with. I’m a 43-year-old woman, not a teenage girl. I’m not looking to be with …
No. I wasn't born in the Philippines and I wasn't raised there. I was born and raised in the US and my cultural values and mannerisms are grounded towards Filipino-American cultural values and manneri…
When I was in my mid-20s I was in a relationship with someone who was obsessed not just with his own weight but that of everyone around him. I gained some weight as a result of going on the pill and a…
Can I ask what you mean by "feel and process my emotions" and how you do that? Because it sounds like managing things that are happening in the moment and old trauma is a seperate thing from that: som…
The point I was trying to make was a little bit more nuanced than how literal you took it. If you meet someone and you click and you go on a few dates and progress to a relationship based on all what …
For warm weather I like a cute pair of linen shorts - solid or print, paired with solid fitted vneck cotton top tucked in. Pair with pretty sandals and that can take you most places during the day. A…
By removing others as the operant power in your reality. Attach yourself to the I am. We are all God experiencing himself, over and over, and over. Our actual universe is built to reset itself over, a…
How does the doll help you explore yourself? Could you explain it a little bit more?
This isn't directly applicable to the Silva method. Incidentally the counting down backwards is a method used by hypnotists or in self-hypnosis to help achieve a deeper mental state. Going backwards i…
I do have my own YouTube channel where I’m going to start uploading more of my shifting story times and almost all of story times I will talk about are accidental shifts so once I start uploading more…
Thank you for your kind words. I have learned to survive since loosing my child, and the ensuing for years that was living 'The Book of Job' . Everything that I experience is to either teach a lesson …
All sounds like a lot of. Lot of emotions you carry, and all of them are spiralling you even further into unwanted state. Fancy quick fix? 1. Give yourself holiday from your emotions first. Just tak…
I'd say something like, "Hey I've been thinking about our sex life, and I'd like to have an orgasm or at least get *very* wet before we start with penetration; the lube helps, but I would like to be a…
Explain a little bit more?
Agreed. I'd even say fluency in the same language isn't quite enough -- ideally speaking you should both be fluent in the native language of the other. My English is excellent, and more than fluent. …
I don’t know ( Sorry you are going through this, take care of yourself please. All I know it will start dissipating - one day it will not be all day but only long posts of the day, then in a little bi…
People are weird in these comments. She is an adult. OP wanted to break up because of the lack of exclusivity, and she didn't want to lose OP so she accepted it. People are blaming OP like he brainwas…
Metocin is the best for this as far as I know, 2cb can be very visual and chill headed to a point but its very dose dependent and just a little bit more can make it a wild trip.
Ok, so my recommendation is to get some more information about your calories and such. I honestly think knowledge is power in this type of situation. Go to tdee.com and it will give you your total dai…
Yeah don't get me wrong I'm comfortable with it and I love dressing like Adam Sandler any chance I get, even in public. I'm talking about for like events where I want to show somebody a little bit o…
I wanted to send one last note because I’ve realized why Krysia has been aware of and reactive to our conversations. She tried to intimidate and scare me a couple of days ago, but realised that it's n…
I actually woke up missing him a little bit more today. It’s okay OP. We’ll get through this.
I think if you really like her, give it a chance. You may find the family you missed out on. Try it a couple of times. Get to know them a little bit more.
I think the best you can do for now is limit contact. You can't force him to turn his life around, but you don't have to participate in the rollercoaster that it is anymore. I put on the perspecti…
Wow! I thank you so much for your kind words and your Insight. This entire process has been so Illuminating and eye-opening! Yes I believe you are right, I may need to put in a little bit more work be…
This also brings up another interesting point, and I’m not trying to generalize, but in my experience, Asians are sometimes easier to talk to than white people. It’s interesting from a professional st…
I’m in the same boat…. 6 years almost, on and off for 2 broke up just over a month ago she started seeing someone quite quickly after and I believe with what she’s been saying it’s become serious…. Ke…
Original copy of post by u/tfr2b: 42 y/o male in the process of getting divorced (11-year long relationship, married for almost 10 years before separation). After being separated for over a year, I s…
can you explain wym by the first thing a little bit more? i’m a little confused wym. sorry
listen.. i was DONE. i sent that breakup text on a random thursday morning , i felt so neglected the last 4months of our relationship.. he never planned dates or even sent a check in text to see how i…
> Someone that makes me feel calm in the darkest nights … > I would need a man understand there times I need to be alone. These two aren’t easy to find in one person. In my experience, feeling cal…
Personally I'm a big believer that anger is a secondary emotion and while we shouldn't in any way criticise ourselves for it, we do have to treat it as simply a source of information. What I mean by t…
Can you tell me a little bit more about how this manifests in the chart? I'm new to Astrology and struggling to understand what that means despite looking it up. What is the my ruler of ascendant? It …