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I tried going to the white house in the astral realm and its being guarded

Ok, well I am only reporting what I read in the "files". Iran made a huge banner with the image of a large red bull-demon with 4 people as puppets...Google it.

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/10/2026
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Research -- What makes you hire a copywriter?

Research -- What makes you hire a copywriter? — Hey everyone, I'm doing some market research and would really appreciate any input you have. Also, this isn't a promo post or anything of the sort, just me diving into the market. First off, a bit ab…

r/ecommercepost5/2/2025
Are UX Engineer jobs unpopular?

Are UX Engineer jobs unpopular? — I work as a Sr. UX Engineer at a global company, we are creating an internal Design System UI library. I work with code (React and SCSS) but also as a UX UI Designer on other projects in other teams. …

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
SEO Basics Done But Not Ranking

SEO Basics Done But Not Ranking — I've been working on optimizing a page for a keyword with good search volume and low difficulty according to Keyword Planner, but it's nowhere in the top 100 results. I've done all the basics: * Met…

r/SEOpost5/4/2025
Built a fast multi-host terminal log viewer with timeline histogram – looking for feedback

Built a fast multi-host terminal log viewer with timeline histogram – looking for feedback — Hey all – I’ve been working on Nerdlog: an open-source fast terminal-based log viewer loosely inspired by Graylog/Kibana, having a similar timeline histogram on top, but designed to be snappy, lightwe…

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything)

Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything) — I've built a directory listing website and I'm using WP All Import plugin to pull in data from a spreadsheet (which consists of scraped business info from their Google Maps / GBP listings). Being tha…

r/SEOpost5/4/2025
Question about 404's

Question about 404's — Explain to me like im 5: I just do not understand why google shows me 404s when the URLs listed in GSC as 404s were never posted anywhere. I accidentally created a duplicate URL once, which then mad…

r/SEOpost5/5/2025
Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation

Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation — I currently manage a few servers running some ecommerce sites (WordPress) and some custom PHP based applications (Vanilla PHP, and Laravel) on DigitalOcean. My setup is pretty basic and consists of *…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
CSS not working in web, but works pretty fine locally.

CSS not working in web, but works pretty fine locally. — I was rebuilding the page in a subdirectory. I was working always with at least two browsers (Edge and Floorp) to see how the page was going of course. I also tried with a live server extension in VSC…

r/webdevpost5/5/2025
I built a VSCode extension that shows array sizes directly in your code—would love feedback from other devs!

I built a VSCode extension that shows array sizes directly in your code—would love feedback from other devs! — Hey everyone! I’ve been working on a VSCode extension called **Array Size Extension**, and I wanted to share it with you all to get some feedback or maybe help out others who run into the same proble…

r/webdevpost5/5/2025
Helm & Argo CD on EKS: Seeking Repo-Based YAML Lab Ideas and Training Recommendations

Helm & Argo CD on EKS: Seeking Repo-Based YAML Lab Ideas and Training Recommendations — I am having difficulties untangling the connection between helm and argo cd when it comes to understanding their interconnection. I have a ready eks cluster for testing and i would like to make some l…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Client has disappeared from map pack for target keyword ("More Results" button missing, only top 3 displayed)

Client has disappeared from map pack for target keyword ("More Results" button missing, only top 3 displayed) — ISSUE: I have a high profile client, with a competitive brand, authoritative website & highly optimized GBP, of which they have dozens of real locations, including this one. I have been working with t…

r/SEOpost5/5/2025
Modern ways to serve statics with flask (or similiar framework)

Modern ways to serve statics with flask (or similiar framework) — Hello! I use flask to build different apps. I utilize heavily templating abilities of flask and usually import all .js and .css files into my html pages, and serve them as they are, without any minifi…

r/webdevpost5/5/2025
Duplicate Websites: One Ranks, One Tanks

Duplicate Websites: One Ranks, One Tanks — I own two small‑town dental practices and spun up two nearly identical websites for them. Same structure, images, and copy, just different color schemes and logos. The site for Practice A ranks nicely…

r/SEOpost5/5/2025
How do you inspect what actually changed in container images? (My Git-based approach)

How do you inspect what actually changed in container images? (My Git-based approach) — Hey everyone, When working with CI images or debugging build issues, I often need to understand *exactly* what changed in a container layer - not just which files were added or removed, but what was …

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Is this normal? CSS

Is this normal? CSS — I was taught there are three main styling approaches: CSS Modules, CSS-in-JS, and utility frameworks like Tailwind. I also learned that it's important to write clean, organized styles with good class …

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Is AI Applicable Everywhere?

Is AI Applicable Everywhere? — Currently working in the tech space for the mining industry. Core product I work on focuses on workflows and tasks for ground and office staff to complete. Such as verifying CAD drawing, sign offs and…

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI

Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
Best practices for organizing large web projects?

Best practices for organizing large web projects? — Hey everyone, I'm currently working on a large-scale web development project, and I'm trying to figure out the best practices for organizing the codebase. How do you structure your files and folders f…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Need recommendations : TMS or similar solution for a GatsbyJS site

Need recommendations : TMS or similar solution for a GatsbyJS site — Our GatsbyJS website (in the works to be migrated soon-ish) is partially translated into 5 languages (French, Spanish, German, Japanese, Mandarin) with just a few pages being translated into 5 other l…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Using external files?

Using external files? — I'm tasked with adding a new page to the company's WP website that'll have a small form and and a couple of external lookups via javascript. I worked for four hours and made only slow progress, and th…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
ChatGPT Plus vs Claude Pro – Which is Better for a UI/UX Designer?

ChatGPT Plus vs Claude Pro – Which is Better for a UI/UX Designer? — Hi everyone! I’m a UI/UX Designer looking to subscribe to either ChatGPT Plus or Claude Pro, and I’m trying to figure out which one would be the better fit for my workflow. I want to use the AI mai…

r/UXDesignpost5/6/2025
Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search

Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search — **What It Does** This is an internal tool I’ve been building to help with UK property prospecting, market research, and deal due diligence. If you've ever tried to buy or invest in property in the U…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/6/2025
How do I properly embed Webpack-bundled JS/CSS into a WordPress site?

How do I properly embed Webpack-bundled JS/CSS into a WordPress site? — Hey everyone, I built a JavaScript app for a client using Webpack. The final dist folder includes: A JS file (bundle) Two CSS files A PNG and SVG The client wants to embed this into their WordPr…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Need affordable tool to convert 200–400 images/day to WebP

Need affordable tool to convert 200–400 images/day to WebP — **Need a simple image conversion tool for my website – suggestions?** I’m building a website where users can upload images to their profiles – around 10 images per user. I’m expecting 200–400 image u…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
To-do lists in text form don’t fit our way of thinking, they are slow and unproductive. To-Do Models is the way to go.

To-do lists in text form don’t fit our way of thinking, they are slow and unproductive. To-Do Models is the way to go. — I’ve found Projects modeled visually instead of written in flat lists to be wayy more productive and successful. Traditional to-do lists are linear—one-dimensional. You follow a fixed path: top to bot…

r/UXDesignpost5/7/2025
How do you promote kubernetes environments using ArgoCD?

How do you promote kubernetes environments using ArgoCD? — I've watched a video by Anton Putra, [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_G\_RY5trQao](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_G_RY5trQao), on production grade setup with Argo. The video is great and I've l…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD?

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Any free wordpress plugins to import CSV files to ACF custom taxonomy

Any free wordpress plugins to import CSV files to ACF custom taxonomy — I have a ACF custom taxonomy named Cities with few additional fields. How do i import over 7000 plus csv fields. Any free plugins or paid ones to import them ?

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
Best & Easiest Mac Cloud Service for Simple Xcode Use?

Best & Easiest Mac Cloud Service for Simple Xcode Use? — Hi everyone, I'm looking for advice from anyone who has used cloud-based Mac services like: * HostMyApple * AWS EC2 Mac Instances * MacStadium * MacInCloud All I really need is a simple, reliable …

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
What’s one DevOps tool you tried but just didn’t click with?

What’s one DevOps tool you tried but just didn’t click with? — I really wanted to love Terraform when I first picked it up. Everyone was hyping it up, and it *is* powerful—but I kept getting tripped up by state files and weird syntaxes. I probably broke my infra …

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Anyone wants to collaborate?

Anyone wants to collaborate? — Fellow business owners, I'm openly asking if anyone is interested in collaborating. I am a digital service provider; I am highly technical but have very poor communication skills due to my autism. I a…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Copying files that builds on local development environment to client system?!

Copying files that builds on local development environment to client system?! — I want to set-up a CI CD pipeline by which i want to build Exe files on my local development environment amd then copy those files to client system, most of my clients don't have a public IP. I use A…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Problems updating to Rank Math Pro

Problems updating to Rank Math Pro — Hi, I have the free version of rank math. I bought the pro version and I am having some problems installing it. I downloaded the file and uploaded it to wordpress but I'm getting a message asking if…

r/Wordpresspost5/8/2025
March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More

March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…

r/astrologypost3/2/2026
Why do people not read dating profiles?

Why do people not read dating profiles? — Just as the title suggests. If you are on an online dating site it seems obvious that reading profiles would be a big part of it? But apparently lots of people...don't do that? But why? It just seems …

r/datingoverfortypost3/11/2026
Ladies: What makes you swipe RIGHT? (inspired by today's recent post)

Ladies: What makes you swipe RIGHT? (inspired by today's recent post) — What are some things in men's profiles that make you swipe **RIGHT**? I'm looking for positivity here. The stuff that makes you say "ooh," not the stuff that made you say "eww." We hear about dealbre…

r/datingoverfortypost3/13/2026
advice on how to be more playful while chatting on the apps?

advice on how to be more playful while chatting on the apps? — I (38F) find that sometimes I get into this mode of chatting with folks on the apps where it’s not necessarily dry, but just sort of straight forward and earnest? “Oh that’s a cool hobby/travel spot/b…

r/datingoverthirtypost3/15/2026
Whats going on with TanTan?

Whats going on with TanTan? — 30 year old dude just came out of a pretty long LTR. Never used dating apps before. Downloaded it to see try and see whats out there today. Put up a profile with 3 pics on Tantan/coffee meets bagel. …

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/16/2026
Older men who lie about their age in their dating profiles

Older men who lie about their age in their dating profiles — I posted a question yesterday about how surprised I was to find that men who were claiming to be 55 (only 8 years older than me) seemed so old, and I was trying to understand why they would age so fas…

r/datingoverfortypost3/16/2026
I am a scientist who discovered she can travel with her mind

I am a scientist who discovered she can travel with her mind — Hello everyone. I want to tell you my story. I come from a verty strict religious background and I struggled since childhood to believe in something I could not scientifically prove. I begged God to s…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/17/2026
I made my husband confess to OBS and here’s what happened

I made my husband confess to OBS and here’s what happened — For your education and entertainment purposes, this is the story of what happened when I forced my husband to confess to OBS. Quick backstory: (you can read the full post on my profile) my husband h…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/17/2026
Anyone else unable to find others attractive (in a romantic sense) after a breakup?

Anyone else unable to find others attractive (in a romantic sense) after a breakup? — Maybe this sounds ridiculous, but it's been almost a year and a half since my last breakup (which has mostly been no contact) and I'm still unable to find other women romantically attractive. Even whe…

r/BreakUpspost3/20/2026
I wanted to discuss letters 3 to 5 of Moral Letters.

I wanted to discuss letters 3 to 5 of Moral Letters. — I just finished letters 3 to 5 of Letters From a Stoic by Seneca.  I wanted to summarise what I got from them, and talk with y'all about the parts I didn’t fully understand. If I misrepresented or mis…

r/Stoicismpost3/23/2026
After 9 years together she cheated, moved on fast, and dropped the bomb during 'final goodbye' – advice needed to survive this

After 9 years together she cheated, moved on fast, and dropped the bomb during 'final goodbye' – advice needed to survive this — Hello Reddit, new user here using a throwaway account. I've heard this community gives solid advice, so I'm finally posting. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for 9 years. We broke up in May 2025 …

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/25/2026
Neville Goddard - All Lectures (almost)

Neville Goddard - All Lectures (almost) — Here you go — (almost) all of Neville Goddard’s lectures. There are 279 in total, sorted alphabetically, with a table of contents page and TOC bookmarks. I’m not aware of any other sources that have a…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/26/2026
Ryan Coogler's 'X-Files' Reboot Taps Himesh Patel To Star

Ryan Coogler's 'X-Files' Reboot Taps Himesh Patel To Star

r/AsianAmericanpost3/26/2026
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules

Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules — I consider myself a feminist, and I have followed the burned haystack method with great interest. I have been dating for about three years, and I have been aware of this method for at least the past y…

r/datingoverfortypost3/27/2026
Pediatric Hospice RN using Meditation to communicate with my terminally ill newborn patient for insight how to serve him and his family during his few days of life

Pediatric Hospice RN using Meditation to communicate with my terminally ill newborn patient for insight how to serve him and his family during his few days of life — I took a workshop with Bob Monroe in the 1970s. He and my mother argued about the best methods for OBE as we were active members of Eckankar and Surat Shabd Yoga prior focusing on the audible sound c…

r/gatewaytapespost3/29/2026
Haven't been on a date in 15 years and I don't know what women my age wear on dates now

Haven't been on a date in 15 years and I don't know what women my age wear on dates now — 44F, divorced last year after 15 years. I'm finally ready to start dating again. Made profiles on hinge and bumble and immediately panicked about photos because I look like a mom in every single pictu…

r/datingoverfortypost3/30/2026
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

Knowing that there's a physical reason for the confusion and lack of awareness makes it easier to accept. One feels like an outsider; the people around you seem to know how to be with each other. An…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment6/26/2020
If you are new here..

Here's the link : https://www.jamiiforums.com/data/attachment-files/2018/03/1715864_power-subconscious-mind.pdf

r/JosephMurphycomment8/10/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

It doesn't prevent people totally, but there are complexities to this practice, it is not as simple as it seems. Astral projection is inherently a spiritual practice and not always easy to control. Lo…

r/AstralProjectioncomment7/7/2021
Before you make that post about some avoidant ex ask yourself……..

Yes I agree it’s an important topic. My issue with how you’re addressing it is that you’re creating some sort of behavior hierarchy that simply doesn’t exist. I’m not AP, for the record. I am in the…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/23/2025
Does anyone have this book pdf?

https://cdn.bookey.app/files/pdf/book/en/miracles-of-your-mind.pdf

r/JosephMurphycomment5/5/2025
How do you inspect what actually changed in container images? (My Git-based approach)

That's a really cool idea, can you explain how you use VS Code to do a diff afterwards ? I know you can compare files, but folders ?

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
Was pushed into a Devops role. Never got the chance to learn properly

There is no single right way to do it. The right way is deciding which tools work for your workflow, and provide the least administrative overhead. Whatever helps you not copy and paste things all the…

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
Americans working in majority Indian workplaces. What do you need to know to succeed?

I'll leave this here: [Indian management style](https://www.worldbusinessculture.com/country-profiles/india/business-management-style/) and [The conflict between foreign and Indian management styles](…

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
Cannot stay attracted to dating app matches

Exactly! No context. I know it's becoming more difficult to approach eachother in the wild. But things changed so fast for this generation , and how dating app works is so unnatural to me my brain can…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/13/2025
What are the signs to spot a DA or FA in early talking stage?

I am a FA learnt secure, and I'll say almost half of the women I have dated are avoidants. Ken Reids and Dr Sarah Hensley have given lots of advice on this. I'll paraphrase them: 1) Ask them early,…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/20/2025
How to fix my own FA attachment (ideally without therapy)?

Also tiktok has amazing content on attachment styles!! There are profiles dedicated to FA

r/attachment_theorycomment5/31/2025
How to fix my own FA attachment (ideally without therapy)?

1. Therapy is like training wheels. If you can’t even ‘shop’ for a therapist, meaning: seeing their profiles, interview them, try it out, switch, maybe come back, maybe move on means you don’t have a …

r/attachment_theorycomment6/1/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Does Anxious Attachment always stem from childhood or can it develop from adulthood? I ask b/c I (40M) have always felt very secure, not much anxiety, good relationships with parents/siblings/friends…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/23/2025
What are the signs to spot a DA or FA in early talking stage?

These are my personal experiences from FAs: bad texter, late replies, hard time describing themselves and their emotions, past history of relationships (or none), problems with parents, retreat in soc…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/11/2025
I earned secure attachment in 4 months...

Hi, with all due respect - I'm formerly disorganised, and with some secure-leaning (work in progress). This being said, I have been in therapy with regularity for 11 years (I had seen therapists and …

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment11/17/2025
I’m still a magnet to guys who need help. (I stopped rescuing).

Be more discerning of their profiles. I feel like you can tell a lot by photos they share and how much or how little they share about themselves. Are they posting a lot of sad looking selfies? Or just…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/19/2025
Being DA but really wanting kids

I see a lot of profiles on dating apps of people who want kids yet are looking for “casual” and “long term relationship”, but not marriage or a lifetime partner. Bummer: children are not an accessory …

r/attachment_theorycomment11/28/2025
How do anxious attachers know when they are truly ready to date again, rather than just trying to soothe anxiety or loneliness?

for me, it took about a year after my ex to feel good and alright about dating. I was still out there but i wasn't 100% in it yknow? I would be slow with my dating style and put my phone away. Right n…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/11/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I haven't had many close friends or a best friend at all when I was younger and I was always used to it, eventually I made a super close online friend but I've had extreme emotional dependence and anx…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/16/2026
What qualities to look for in a therapist

If you can find a therapist who has a heavy interest and has also contributed to the research, I would recommend trialing them! General trauma based therapy is fine, but it always feels way too superf…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/19/2026
If my nervous system is used to interpreting intensity as chemistry, then...am I just supposed to settle for love where I don't feel any "fuzzy" feelings? Like is love supposed to be boring? Then how do I even know the difference if a relationship is boring but good vs. boring but bad??

That meta analysis addresses empathy in general. As stated by them >We did not differentiate the dimension of the empathy; both cognitive and emotional dimensions were included as a general measure o…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment1/20/2026
What is my core wound when I don't worry what others think about me, I'm not afraid of being alone, but still no boundaries with closest people

I would guess that while you logically know you have a right to be accepted as you are and you're not afraid to be alone, you have not accepted that on a deep emotional level. Or there's some inner co…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment1/27/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

i think social media is really harsh on people on dating apps. i despise the way that its become normal to share others’ profiles and mock them online. it makes every interaction feel so forced and wa…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/3/2026
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This is so true and a big part of the reason I try to only go on app dates when I'm in the mood to shoot the shit with a stranger. Profiles really only tell you so much - you have to go in without any…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
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To be clear, I'm talking about a situation where someone used old pictures that do not represent their current look, and then we meet in person and it becomes apparent. I do already avoid profiles whe…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
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I have a couple of good close-up portraits that are about 10 years old that I used to use in my OLD profiles. And people never noticed, to the point that I even asked them to guess how recent my photo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
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I'm sorry that happened to you. It must take a lot of strength to try again, I wish you the best. Where I am hinge has the nicest vibes, definitely. People treat you a bit more like a human when comp…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
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Gotcha. The way I read it at the time sort of came across as the profiles you were reading were obvious on looking at them. Even then, I don't think I'd feel awkward if someone didn't represent th…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
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Is there a subreddit for getting feedback and suggestions on dating profiles?

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
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First: 1-3 likes is a lot 😂 Second: I hadn’t heard of this before, but it would make sense. If their goal is to have some benefit to paying then bypassing certain profiles just bc the dealbreakers w…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
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That happened to me too! A little while ago out of curiosity I set a dealbreaker for “doesn’t want children” and swiped through maybe half a dozen profiles before it told me I was out. You really expe…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
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the cheat-code for hinge is to apply these filters when you are actively swiping, however turn them off outside of swiping as you will get a ton more more likes coming your way definitely fishy stuff…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
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1-3 likes, usually zero matches. I do send out likes as well but virtually never get matches. My experience on bumble is very different, despite the fact that I use the same photos and very similar pr…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
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Yeah I just hopped back on these apps and noticed that on a few. While not a dealbreaker it is a slight negative. Same as how unaware men make profiles where they look cool to themselves but look an…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
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Therapy-speak is hella common in my area for female profiles (don't know about male profiles but gonna guess no). I don't mind them but every now and then, you'll get some TikTok trend and see it on …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
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I'm hoping that the dating apps will eventually start deleting inactive profiles. At the same time, the pragmatic in me says that it will hurt their revenue (as they will be perceived as having less u…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
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I'd love to get some concrete data on the app decline. But of course the companies will never release that lol. I only went on one app date in all of 2025 and it was with someone I already knew and we…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
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Huzzah!  IMHO: your "life goal" prompt is excellent. The"recently discovered" prompt doesn't *really* say much ( "adventure" and "value my downtime" are on a lot of profiles and cue some apathy/swip…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
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Facts. Apps are rough because so many people are stuck in the "grass is greener" mentality. It's by design and keeps people trapped in the apps for years. For women its especially bad because most me…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
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My take was that if you're getting a dearth of likes, opening up the dealbreakers makes you more popular, which then will make the app think you're more popular, which then will increase their likelih…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
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Do you not have any pictures of you smiling? Since you should lead with a picture or 2 of you smiling. 5,7, and one of (8-10) are workable and invite discussion, but you should lead with something tha…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
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The apps seem to have completely died now. I'm lucky to get one match a month. Often the match I get is someone I'm not attracted to and have no memory of liking.  I noticed they started to get wors…

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No.  Doesn't matter how physically attractive a woman is if her profile doesn't show her personality.  Like profiles that can't give me an idea of who they are get ignored.

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Logistics-wise, it’s mostly local matches to your proximity, but you can ask to broaden your distance to how far you’re willing to travel. There’s a brief phone call interview to make sure you’re a go…

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Right? Although I get a huge dopamine hit and confident boost when women go from my Standouts to my Most Compatible, even when we inevitably don't match like this one. Look at Hinge, teaching me the c…

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I've been seeing so many profiles (usually younger) that repeat a word in the question before the answer, like this: > *What's your superpower?* > > Superpower take a shower every day > *My dream is…

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Idk if it helps but I recently saw a profile that was very upfront and said "going through a divorce, just want to go out, kiss and cuddle, have a good time and go home" and appreciated the detailed w…

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I think you did well selecting photos that show you being a social guy, friendly with animals, a hobby, and someone who travels. That is exacrly the type of photos I recommend guys have on their profi…

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Sitting in my bed with my pets, watching the X-Files and debating if I should put a pizza in the oven. And avoiding scratching my itchy new tattoo! Did you end up getting or planning one with your tax…

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Yes you should put a pizza in the oven! What season of The X-Files are you on and what’s the new tat? I have a bunch of ideas I want for tattoos - I need to draw them up! (Need me a kraken sinking a …

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