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you're fucking trolling at this point. Why are you here in the first place, do you think you are the authority of rape, assault, or abuse in any way shape or form? Are you hoping to change the minds o…
A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit. — Hey everyone on r/NarcissisticAbuse. We get it, we really do– the U.S. political situation right now is a bloody mess with further escalation, rather than some kind of stability, on the horizon. W…
Share your startup - quarterly post — Share Your Startup - Q4 2023 [**r/startups**](https://www.reddit.com/r/startups/) **wants to hear what you're working on!** Tell us about your startup in a comment within this submission. Follow thi…
I just proved that a crappy industry is literally pissing away money — I constantly preach about template fraud and those "pretty but useless" websites that don't deliver actual business results. This week, I decided to prove my point. I spotted a security product in th…
Announcement Regarding Community Safety — Dear SEO Members, We are reaching out to address a serious issue that affects the safety and well-being of our moderation team and our community as a whole. It has come to our attention that the CEO …
more open useful o2o platform app.i will not promote — This is an open suggested startup idea sort particularly focus at philippines or emerging markets A sort of early shopee were everyone can buy and sell with no business permit free shipping marketpl…
Should I purchase multiple domain TLDs for my brand? What’s your opinion? — Hey everyone I own the main .com for my brand, but I’m wondering if it’s smart (or necessary) to purchase other TLDs too like .net, .co, .io, and so on. Some people say it helps with branding, trus…
An user in Gumroad is illegally selling a product of mine. What can I do? — I contacted Gumroad and recived no response. I sent a DMCA takedown notice and reciveda "we will do the necessary actions" and no further comments has been received. What's my next option? Edit: it'…
A Modest Proposal — A Manifesto for Metrics-First Everything — Picture it: Q1 FY 2025. A Medicaid patient opens an app to request mental health services. The screen is sleek—gradient buttons, playful microinteractions, and conversion-optimized flows. A calm anima…
Being an Entrepreneur is bloody hard — That's a quote from Dan Pena and it's absolutely right. The bum boys on Instagram, YouTube and all the rest that pretend like it's easy are 1000% full of it. The true life of a business person and e…
Solo founder here—bootstrapped a travel startup, no bookings yet. Influencer model failed, paid ads feel too risky. What would you do? — Hi everyone, I’m a solo founder of hopmytrip.com trying to build a travel group tour platform—basically fixed-date trips to places like Bali, Thailand, and Vietnam, where people from any country can …
Low search volume not eligible help — Working with a family law firm and struggling with keyword ideas. ones they have come up with are not eligible due to low search volume on google ads. Examples: "Legal aid for non-accidental injury…
Can I legally register a P2P fund-matching app (not handling money)?( I will not Promote). — Hey founders, I’m working on a startup that helps users abroad (e.g., Nepali students in the US, UK, etc.) connect with others who want to exchange funds in opposite directions locally. The app doesn…
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…
Stylize Iubenda's legal documentation pages — So here is the default style from Iubenda, which, in my opinion, is not very good at all. https://preview.redd.it/zu7k8lyp5eze1.png?width=3688&format=png&auto=webp&s=61abff0980c19eb776e959fc3afcccc84…
How can I retail small batches of Chinese tea in Russia using cargo shipping? — Hi everyone, I’m interested in starting a small retail business selling Chinese tea in my region in Russia. I plan to purchase the tea online in small batches and use cargo shipping to deliver it. I …
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over — Hi everyone, this is my first post here and I’m writing because I’ve exhausted every other option. And I am FUCKING DONE WITH IT. I hope some of you will see this and help me to hold that person accou…
I (re)earned my secure attachment this week. What a journey this has been. — I just wanted to share this diary dump with anyone who wants a success story. I believed myself to be FA/A for a long time, and this week I can finally call myself secure. TW: sexual assualt Despite …
No contact but want my stuff back — I put another thread on but basically he’s broken up with me and gone no contact. I initially reached out to find out what happened and if we could fix it (the next day), and a few days later asked fo…
Thoughts on dating people who are legally married (but separated)? — I have a very close friend who has started dating a man who is still legally married. He's been separated from his wife for at least 6 months. But because I'm a total stalker, I looked him up in publi…
College was supposed to be my escape plan — I'm so angry that I'm literally shaking while typing this. My dream all four years of high school was to get good grades and standardized test scores and participate in extracurriculars to get into a …
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…
Y'all ever realize how narcissists create unconditional amounts of chaos and then blame everyone else for it? — Like I can't be the only one. They're literally come in disrupt your entire day leave you in the aftermath of a tornadoes chaos and then look at you with this genuine look of concern and confusion as …
How honest should I be with my new psychiatrist? — The last 2ish months I have been having a lot of issues with both my anxiety and depression and I think I need to change or adjust my meds. I have been “self medicating” aka smoking hella weed… not my…
I just need to rant, Y'all. I'm so angry!!!! — My 83YO Ndad is selling the farm/family business Emom left my brother (48) and me (52) in an irrevocable trust. Dad is tickled pink with himself for installing legal loopholes to fuck us over. His IQ …
The term lunar new year was first used in British Hong Kong to quell Anti-colonial anti-imperialist sentimemts — “Lunar New Year” was first used to refer to the Chinese New Year in legal documentation in British Hong Kong in 1968. The holiday was officially called "Chinese New Year" in British Hong Kong until th…
My husband moved in with his AP? Is it ok for me to date? — My husband moved out 3 months ago and after a couple weeks at a hotel, he moved in with his AP. We are negotiating a legal separation. To my surprise, I’ve met someone who wants to date me! Or maybe …
What was the hardest non-legal part of your divorce that nobody warned you about? — I went through a divorce recently and the legal stuff was hard, but honestly it was everything else that really caught me off guard. I had an attorney to help me file and communicate with my ex's atto…
How to permanently stop feeling romantic love for anyone? — wasn’t sure I needed a TL;DR here, but I’ll put it anyway: how do I turn off my ability to feel love for anyone, ever? hi all, I (M,33) have not had a whole lot of luck with dating. I try to stay s…
The quiet house is the hardest part and nobody warned me — Divorce has been final for about 3 months now and I think Im starting to realize what hits me the hardest. Its not the legal stuff. Its not even the arguments with my ex anymore. Its coming home to a …
Revision is where it's at. — People say that revision works faster and this is my experience as well. I'm a fairly good manifestor but there were a few things I was stuck on, namely my height. I carried a bit of disappointment …
I am amazed that anyone would ever get married again after divorce - help me understand! — I am in the process of legally separating (which in California is essentially the same as a divorce) from a man who I was with from the age of 20-31. We have a toddler and I separated from him while p…
Personal journey with psychedelics — Hi peeps :) So, I wouldn’t say I’m a seasoned veteran in traversing the inner workings of my mind, but I’m no armature either, I’ve personally done shrooms around 30-40 times, each time around 2.5-3 g…
My homeless mother (literally in a shelter) literally keeps bombarding me with messages about my wedding that she delusionally thinks she's going to attend — You literally have no money, no way to get there, no one wants to help you (because you caused your own homelessness), my partner (we got legally married last year but this is our ceremony with family…
I (29F) have cancer and my estranged father (60M) is funding my treatment but forcing me to leave my boyfriend (24M) or marry him immediately. Do I have any way out? — Please be kind. I was unable to type so used audio to text converter and ai to fix the spelling mistakes. I m already in a terrible mental state so hope this sub can be a little gentle on me. Haven't …
When it’s finally over with a narc or NPD person — I said this in a comment to someone else’s post but I feel like I should post it here, just in case it helps someone. There’s no way of truly knowing whether or not a person with narcissistic traits…
I blocked my mother. — On March 3, I blocked my mother in WhatsApp. I’ve been living abroad for four years and started therapy two years ago. So many things have happened during this time... She used to tell me that I’ve ne…
[Update] She [F25] withdrew consent after the act, how do I [M26] move on from this? — Hey everyone First, thank you for all the messages and the support I talked with my best friend about everything, she was already aware of everything because of that girl and chose to take her side. …
UPDATE: How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? — TL;DR: I had the conversation. She brought up moving in first. She completely agrees the house and inheritance should stay separate, supports a prenup, was impressed I’d thought it through, and confus…
My mother is super affectionate now that I'm an adult and she has dementia. It disgusts me. — My mother doesn't remember the screaming, my mother doesn't remember her calling me stupid everyday, she doesn't remember her telling me to get out of her house. She talks to me now in a baby voice, s…
Why are people such sheep when it comes to drugs? — People seem to just accept things, unthinking, unquestioning. This person I was debating with said "Well people can just die instantly from MDMA" and I said that's just false. That doesn't happen, not…
UB Art Student Taken By ICE — I saw this thread in the ubreddit UB Art Student Taken By ICE Jiaye You is a senior in the University at Buffalo’s BFA program in Art and Technology. Right now, he should be in the studio finishing…
(tw: trafficking) I can't interact in queer (or even fandom) spaces because of all the sex — *"Oh yay, someone recommended I watch this fun, light-hearted new movie about a gay couple! I sure hope it isn't actually an uncomfortable, borderline-rapey story about a 24/7 bdsm dynamic that goes p…
Complaints Allege Illegal Lobbying By Two Former Members of Congress — Got this in this email newsletter. What do you all make of this?
I (27F) keep getting mocked about my lack of friends by my boyfriend (32M) — To provide context, my boyfriend (32M) has had the same friends since he was in diapers and I love that for him. I’ve had friends in phases as a result of my upbringing. For more information, I grew …
"Men Can't Be Men Anymore" — A week ago, I [posted about the Louis Theroux documentary on the “Manosphere,”](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stoicism/comments/1rtveyg/the_manosphere/) noting my surprise at the scale of the phenomenon, u…
Why MAGA 2.0 Hates Legal Immigration Too
Going to false legal cases. When will it get over and when will I get divorced? M37 — I was married for couple of months. Due to few things which I got to know - I asked for divorce. She filed false cases to extract alimony. It's been over 3.5 years now - when will this get over? Pl…
I feel like I’m in a full relationship, but not fully chosen — is that sustainable? — I (M) am in a relationship with a woman who is separated but still legally married and going through a divorce. We’re very close emotionally and spend a lot of time together – it feels like a serious …
Only child (30F, Indian, US). Parents financially exploited me and my husband for years. Set boundaries. Now they’re trying to destroy my marriage. — **The financial fraud:** My father retired with 1 crore and started building a house. Behind my back, he took a loan using my husband’s documents — claimed 45 lakhs, was actually 80 lakhs (POA fraud)…
My ex destroyed his life after we broke up — I don’t even know why I’m writing this, but everything has escalated so much that I just need to get this off my chest. I (33F) was in a relationship for more than 14 years with my ex, let’s call him…
Sad how many people here basically don't give a shit about anything other than their lil dopamine hit. I shouldn't be shocked the guys that usually don't give a fuck about anything as long as there's …
Unfortunately I find this reddit to be too toxic to have any kind of meaningful help to anyone without being trolled or attacked here for providing real legal advice. Most of the people here are just…
I'd just tag on that posters pay attention to all advice posted, regardless of the upvotes/downvotes. The hivemind here can be brutal. This is PARTICULARLY problematic when advice gets legal advice …
Absolutely. I see so many comments that say things like "call the police" about things that aren't illegal, like - as much as you might WANT some things to be illegal doesn't mean they actually are. …
Definitely true. My parents in law have been together for 40 years, married for 32. They started dating when she was 16 and he was 24! Something that's literally illegal in most places now and situati…
Really solid points and then there's space for legitimate concern regarding abusive relationships. Basically, the “Power & Control Wheel”, like instances of sexual harassment/ assault, emotional abuse…
I've seen the opposite. I've seen people encourage illegal acts. It was a recent post about a PS5. The girlfriend bought their boyfriend a PS5 for his birthday and like a week later he said he wants …
They took the Ellis Island poem too seriously - “Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, the wretched refuse of your teeming shore…” We’re a country of legal immi…
I know I'm going to get downvoted to hell, but all this talk of "erosion of trust" is such utter BS unless you were a cloud provider. For all related to this, it's all about the predatory cloud provid…
Interpreters make do. Sometimes agencies will have specialists that are better at technical or medical or legal contexts and send them, but it isn't always the rule. When I was in grad school, there w…
That's an inspiring mindset! I'm also a solo founder, and i am working on a student-focused idea. It's a mobile app that aggregates verified discounts (like Apple, Nike) and campus services (scholarsh…
That was a good question. In this big e-commerce platforms we are also doing price comparisons with different companies with the same products. Actually, I'm building an app, i am doing one of the fea…
Have you posted this on r/legaladvice ?
It depends on a lot of things to interpret a behavior. The social programming in childhood, current social environment, individual values For example, in Sweden or Norway, gender equality is ingraine…
now that you put it that way, that makes sense. i guess maybe the key is learning to live with it and recognize that it may not be rational but its not like... a "failing" unless i make it my romantic…
>(like, he’s still legally married and lives with his wife and he had chlamydia when we first met) but I genuinely enjoyed the time we spent together. I, uh, have to ask...Did any of this genuinely n…
It's definitely still a red flag that he's legally married and lives with his wife, even if you're having a good time together!
Tbh, I think this guy is a walking red flag. Even if you only like a few people a year (same with me, it takes me a while to find someone I really like), it’s better to stay single in case someone bet…
When did the marriage end? Or is he still legally married?
TW/CW: ICE Raid violence, imprisonment, and deportation Quyen Dinh, Executive Director of Southeast Asia Resource Action Center (SEARAC) joins me as a guest for this emergency episode on The Banh…
I'm hoping that the dating apps will eventually start deleting inactive profiles. At the same time, the pragmatic in me says that it will hurt their revenue (as they will be perceived as having less u…
I would like to note that I do understand what you are saying and get how Society plays a role. I think if anything, what I take issue with is its a little too black and white. That Instagram post is …
He is not a good or faithful man. He did not disclose he was separated and still legally married until months later. He is dishonest. Have you ever thought he is such a great date and partner to co…
She's started turning up at social events I've been going to for years. And bringing new bf and being super handsy and whatnot with him. We also still have a legal entanglement she's refusing to …
Ah. Yeah that changes the calculus a bit. It's my experience that Pittsburghers are very attached to their hometown. And considering that you've only been dating a couple of months, her moving is a ha…
> I’d love to hear more about how human rights are being violated in the present day I can't imagine this is asked in good faith at all. https://www.reuters.com/legal/government/courts-have-ruled-4…
>You can’t be with someone who is taking your rights away as a woman? Yes, they are trying to do that. https://www.npr.org/2025/04/13/g-s1-59684/save-act-married-women-vote-rights-explained >**Get…
“Hell hath no fury like a woman, scorned” I’d just leave it. Trying to go through legal hoops to get those items would be equally frustrating to attempt to do.
If I'm interpreting you correctly, it sounds like you might be dating from a marriage-minded focus? There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but if you're looking for an alternative framing, maybe …
I’m still in a dilemma because I found one of her earrings about a month ago. I’ve been advised not to reach out to anyone about returning it as it would just show that I’m still thinking about her. I…
Maybe I’m too hateful towards people, but this reads as a step one in a plot of guilt-tripping you into helping him get a legal status.
I feel something along those lines, except that I may be part of an escape hatch more specifically with roommate. With the way the US is, even if he was the love of my life, the process of helping som…
Take out all your frustration on a bad date! Legally! (May not be legal. Don’t blame me if you get arrested)
1. Rising Sign - Libra 8*29’ 2. State the sign and degree of your natal Saturn - Saturn in Scorpio 25*43’ 3. ruling in Capricorn 3H and Aquarius 4H - not sure if it’s correct 4. List the major aspe…
We didn’t get rid of it. We legalized it and call it “capitalism” and “the working class” who can barely afford to live on their wages, are perennially in debt, and can’t afford heal insurance in “the…
You can avoid telling him you looked him up by just asking if he's ever been married, or is legally divorced. I do this now during texting after too many men scheduling a date without mentioning that …
In terms of the filling for divorce it depends on where you live and that can dictate when you file. We have a family friend who’s legally still married to her husband even though they have agreed to…
For me personally, I wouldn't. Still a lot of messy stuff to deal with. There is also the legal argument that it could be considered adultery, which messes things up more.
I don’t want to be legally married or date anyone who is legally married. I’m fine with divorced people but I find that they’re weird about it
Divorce (as a legal concept) is completely independent from someone romantic and emotional availability as a single person. Most jurisdictions force you to be separated for a year before you are able …
Come back to me when you are officially divorced. Like I know the process can be time consuming and a pain in the ass, but between legal proceedings, jealous/angry ex, a seemingly very recent and ser…
I’m legally married but have been separated since June of 2024 (however the marriage had broken down quite some time before that). I feel so ashamed that I am not divorced. However, I don’t have the m…
It depends on the local laws. Where I am, we are not legally allowed to file until one year of separation, and the law defines what qualifies as separation. According to the laws here, I have been off…
Yea the idea that you are some dating social pariah because you’re navigating the legal systems of divorce… you can miss me with that bullshit lol
How long were they married? I’d be concerned about the mental state of someone who jumps right back in to trying to seriously date. Can they not survive being single for a little bit? Shouldn’t they b…
So they were married for 9 years. However it had been going downhill for the last three. She had kids from a previous marriage and the current husband basically had no respect for them. Like one of he…
I don't have strong thoughts about what other people do in that situation. For myself, I'm of the mind that i'm bad enough at dating "regularly" that people with extra current baggage or unique circ…
Having said that, I think dating a separated person really is upto you and how comfortable you are. If they are separated and 100% planning to go thru the divorce, I think it’s fine. It may get messy …
Speaking as a guy who is currently separated and going through a divorce I'll say the not filing part is what would worry me about the situation. Yes divorce is difficult and expensive and can be a h…
For me, it *realllly* depends on the circumstances. My ex was still legally married when we met. I told him I wouldn't call him my BF until he at least filed and it was public knowledge among his frie…