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Trauma and BDSM

I don't openly speak about this because I know people will accuse me of kink shaming and being a bad person when I say it but, to be frank, yes I'm a kink shamer. I'm also a CSA and SA survivor. I ful…

r/CPTSDcomment4/3/2026
I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex

THANK YOU. I tried to say this on a bdsm subreddit and was told that “wrestlers/MMA do it all the time and it’s fine” when I brought up that they also experience injury frequently I was told to “stay …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
Fiancé 26 M shamed me 25F for my kink

Yeah, my "kink" is to fuck my GF's best friend - she's unbelievably hot. I'm also poly, I'd love to be in a relationship with both of them. My GF better not kink shame me for that. That would make h…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
AM diversify your dating pool

As I have never seen this, and I know that the kink world is not always a good reflection of real life (there is some very degrading shit out there) so I don’t kink shame, all I can go on is real life…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/18/2026
My (27f) roommate (25 nb) keeps masturbating with their door open

“dONt KiNk ShAmE!1!1” Top tier virtue signaling.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
Have they ever choked or slapped you during sex

The two main abusers I have had were relatively vanilla in the bedroom and judgemental. One said that dom/sub play in the bedroom was weird and he constantly kink shamed our friend who was into it, th…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/6/2026