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When people victim blame you

Took me over 50 years but I finally figure out I was the family scapegoat. All the abuse was covert, coordinated & intentional. Learn [The Gray Rock Method](https://www.selfloverainbow.com/the-gray-ro…

r/CPTSDcomment4/12/2026
A lot of parents give their children mental disorders then pretend as if it's the child's fault.

I feel you. I was born into a family of covert malignant narcissists. I have also been the family scapegoat since birth but I did not figure this out until I was over 50. [HOW TO RECOVER FROM BEING T…

r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
Realizing at 57 that I’ve been the family scapegoat my entire life

Thank you for sharing… it also took me until I was over 50. It truly broke my heart but also set me free at the same time. Here’s an article that helped me when I was figuring it out. [HOW TO RECOVER…

r/CPTSDcomment4/5/2026
Family Gaslighting - They talk way more about You than to You

You may be the family scapegoat. I was over 50 before I figured it out. Here’s an article that helped me. [HOW TO RECOVER FROM BEING THE FAMILY SCAPEGOAT](https://www.laurakconnell.com/blog/family-sc…

r/CPTSDcomment4/6/2026