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Any Coda people read the new Lindy West book?

I have not, I am kind of considering it but a part of me feels like it will utterly depress me. I really enjoyed Lindy West's writing, and this has sent me down a terrible rabbit hole for several week…

r/Codependencycomment3/31/2026
Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader

Pouncemonial: 7th Kill - Disciplined Trader — # Here's how I achieved my 7th mission! **Mission**: To become a disciplined trader **What I achieved**: Mastered stop loss and trading discipline **Background**: After my 6th kill, I was eager t…

r/JosephMurphypost4/29/2025
Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple infra

Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple infra — Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple on-prem infra Hey everyone, I’m a junior sysadmin working with a fairly basic on-prem infrastructure with about 45 users, and I’m look…

r/DevOpspost5/6/2025
Advice appreciated

Advice appreciated — Hi I have started re-reading The Power of Your Subconscious Mind as I’ve owned it for years but never fully read it. I have struggled with contamination OCD for about 4 years and it has progressively …

r/JosephMurphypost1/26/2026
When did you finally realise, your life would never be ‘normal’?

When did you finally realise, your life would never be ‘normal’? — I am 47M I grew up in an EXTREMELY dysfunctional household, with every type of abuse you can imagine, and death of a parent at 12. I’ve had to fend for myself since that age, whilst being used and a…

r/CPTSDpost3/9/2026
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories.

NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…

r/experiencerspost3/13/2026
What does Marcus Aurelius mean by “misfortune” and “good fortune” in Meditations 4.49?

What does Marcus Aurelius mean by “misfortune” and “good fortune” in Meditations 4.49? — I’m having trouble understanding what Marcus Aurelius means by “good fortune”/"good luck" and "bad luck"/“misfortune” in *Meditations* 4.49. From Robin Waterfield translation: >Be like a headland: th…

r/Stoicismpost3/22/2026
How I broke free from panic attacks

How I broke free from panic attacks — For 3 years ago I was at the gym. I was doing my normal push routine while all of the sudden I felt immense pain in my chest. I laid the weights beside me and sat down, my heart was pumping, it was pu…

r/Anxietyhelppost3/24/2026
An Eerie Success story from yesterday that PROVES the Power of these teachings!! Healing my Mothers back, I influenced her mind with Robotic affirmations and a personal success healing story.

An Eerie Success story from yesterday that PROVES the Power of these teachings!! Healing my Mothers back, I influenced her mind with Robotic affirmations and a personal success healing story. — So I wanted to share this with you today, as a reminder of the sheer immense power of these teachings and also as a reminder, that when I share my word salads here, you can actually rest assured, that…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/25/2026
TRIED MANIFESTING FOR THE LITERAL FIRST TIME WITH ZERO ACTUAL HOPES AND IT KINDA AMAZED ME

TRIED MANIFESTING FOR THE LITERAL FIRST TIME WITH ZERO ACTUAL HOPES AND IT KINDA AMAZED ME — Hi, something just happened that honestly amazed me ! I have a big exam coming up in a week, and I haven’t prepared to a decent level yet. I really need good marks, so about 3-4 days ago I started lo…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/29/2026
What should I do?

What should I do? — Hi, I’m Courtney. I am currently seeking some guidance on the most effective way to approach multiple manifestations at once. My current focus is on securing immediate needs like food for tomorrow, a…

r/lawofattractionpost3/31/2026
Here is my plan to learn how to Lucid Dream. Any tweaks I need to add?

Here is my plan to learn how to Lucid Dream. Any tweaks I need to add? — Plan: 1. I usually get up to pee from 2-5 AM each morning. I will try and remind myself to record my dreams then. If that does not work, I will try and find a good WBTB time (how do I do this though?…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/4/2026
Stop thinking you don’t have to work

Stop thinking you don’t have to work — Hello all, I’ve made prior posts detailing my success with Neville. Some of which were curing an “incurable disease” and manifesting almost a million dollars. Today I woke up with even more money com…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/6/2026
Studies on warts and the Law

Studies on warts and the Law — For all skeptics out there, I found out something very interesting today for the application of the law on diseases. Many people on Reddit falsely claim that the placebo effect is limited to subjecti…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/6/2026
My (22F) girlfriend wants a break with me (22m). This is our second one in our 5 year relationship. Is it over?

My (22F) girlfriend wants a break with me (22m). This is our second one in our 5 year relationship. Is it over? — This is my first and I was hoping last girlfriend. We met through a friend in high school at 17 and have been dating since. About 2 years ago, I had a lot of anxiety and kept questioning everything in…

r/relationship_advicepost4/7/2026
Should I accept my narcissistic parents’ job offer as a scaffold out of financial dependence?

Should I accept my narcissistic parents’ job offer as a scaffold out of financial dependence? — TLDR; My wealthy parents have a sordid and calculated history of financial abuse, but are offering me to pay me to help manage their investments. I am disabled, possibly for life, and don’t know if I …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/7/2026
Looking for experienced insight on what happened to me?

Looking for experienced insight on what happened to me? — To preface, I have been very intrigued and interested in the topic of AP for a couple years now. I have never even thought of attempting to try it, and will admit that while I love reading and learnin…

r/AstralProjectionpost4/9/2026
How do I emotionally mature and become more grown?

How do I emotionally mature and become more grown? — (25f) this is my first post on Reddit, but I figured I’d ask you all first. I want to go to therapy for this but seeing as I’m about to move out of state for where I get a job once I graduate, therapy…

r/selfhelppost4/11/2026
My boyfriend who I was initially friends with lacks any romantic initiative [24F] [27M]

My boyfriend who I was initially friends with lacks any romantic initiative [24F] [27M] — We have been friends for 2 years and now on our 5 month official relationship. I (24F) feel like I’m chasing my boyfriend. In terms of initiating, planning, and securing our date nights I’m the one …

r/relationshipspost4/11/2026
I'm a Taiwanese-American scientist running for Congress in CA-32. Another candidate called me a Chinese spy and asked a rival campaign to act on it. Here are all the receipts.

I'm a Taiwanese-American scientist running for Congress in CA-32. Another candidate called me a Chinese spy and asked a rival campaign to act on it. Here are all the receipts. — **Edit 2**: The full unedited video of the forum I attended on April 8, 2026, less than two hours after seeing the March 5-6 texts from Anna Wilding is now live on YouTube. I showed up, I did my job, …

r/AsianAmericanpost4/11/2026
Why are narcs always hoarders & why are all of their possessions always broken/in disrepair?

Why are narcs always hoarders & why are all of their possessions always broken/in disrepair? — I guess this is a rhetorical question because it's pretty much a reflection of how broken they are as people, how little they care for anything but themselves and their inability to accept a loss of c…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/13/2026
Talk to my CIO or nah?

I wouldn’t do that personally. What is your reasoning for going to the CIO directly about this aside from securing face time with her?

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
🛑STOP HIJACKING POSTS🛑

Why can't they stop experiencing love like they say they do and start experiencing it like I think they should??? >Avoidants should swear off dating forever and leave us who are actually capable of l…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment6/12/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

after writing with a shy introverted male avoidant for 2 years he wrote me he wants a break and i am free to write him, because he cares about me. i met him in 2023 when i had anorexia nervosa and nee…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/15/2025
[Video] How to Tell if They're Emotionally Secure

I think that this is kind of missing the forest for the trees. Working through attachment patterns doesn't prepare you to be able to tell if someone else is insecure/secure. Most of the time, someone…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment1/15/2026
How do you respond to people who are very quick to think that you’re angry at them?

To start as an anxious preoccupied attacher it helps to get into our heads. Avoidant types can have a disposition that leaves a more anxious person feeling unsure of their stance with them, leaving th…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/20/2026
how to be "chill" in early stages of dating?

I am in a situation that's very new post a 13-year relationship and post learning I have an anxious attachment style. I have been in therapy and that helps me identify when my anxious attachment is be…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/2/2026
Ending a 1-year relationship: Self sabotage or gut instinct?

imo, you should talk to him about what you need for "fun" before calling it quits. i also sometimes let abstract feelings or needs sabotage my relationships. i think you need to find a way to break…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

We've only been together a couple of months and she's a PGH native. She's told me she's always wanted to live in the PNW for a few years. She's more interested in Portland, but has never been to eit…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/15/2026
NATAL SATURN SERIES: IN THE 2ND HOUSE

You’re so right about Pisces obscuring things because I went on a bit of a search to try to understand this placement better and it came up that Pisces (fluid, boundless) and Saturn (strict, boundarie…

r/astrologycomment2/28/2026
How honest are securely attached people?

About 2: 'When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share …

r/attachment_theorycomment3/3/2026
Found out 10 year situation-ship has been married the entire time

they get extra sex, extra affection, and many other things. you know what they get out of it. stop lying. you are projecting your own insecurities. work on self love. focus on securing yourself. focus…

r/BreakUpscomment3/8/2026
The way as a slave

For Epictetus, to be a slave is to be chained to bad judgment. One can be chained to bad judgment while living by the land on their own, or living in a busy city of ten million people. The good news i…

r/Stoicismcomment3/12/2026
We’re in a computer simulation

I agree with you up to the point where you say that it doesn't matter what religion it is that you believe. But that belief, or focused mental cognition can influence outcomes. There is absolutely som…

r/experiencerscomment3/12/2026
Does Ho’oponopono really work for healing others? Any real experiences?

So I imagine you spend a lot of time in hospitals curing the sick and injured then?

r/Meditationcomment3/13/2026
Aphantasia

my partner actually used to have aphantasia, though I believe it was dissociative in a sense because they also used to be able to visualize vividly before some trauma. With practice, they were able re…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/14/2026
Advice on how to deal with parent giving ultimatum over my relationship

If OP was straight, they would cry and complain about something else. There's no curing the narcissist AP disease

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/14/2026
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories.

Hey. Your Cheshire smile was in my dream. You have an interesting analysis off of what I wrote. But you need to go back to Jimmity Cricket and tell them God is real, therefore consciousness is fundame…

r/experiencerscomment3/15/2026
What is the potential of Hallucinogenics fixing ptsd from your experience, taking in to a count the risks?

Recreational use of psychedelics alone (typically) has very limited effects on curing complex psychological issues, such as PTSD. However, if the user is actively seeking help with a mental illness/a…

r/Psychonautcomment3/17/2026
How do I (39F) forgive my husband (39M) for making a fake vet appt for our senior dog?

“That’s not true. Yes I do.” And just kind of shuts down. He’s coming with me to my therapist on Monday and has contacted a couples therapist about an appointment…sadly had to offer to show me his p…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/21/2026
Why does it take years to realize you’re traumatized? And why does "standard" therapy often miss the point?

I think there are multiple reasons why it takes years, or even decades, to realize that you've been abused. The first reason that I see is a developemental one. As a baby, your world is incredibly …

r/CPTSDcomment3/23/2026
Why does it take years to realize you’re traumatized? And why does "standard" therapy often miss the point?

BECAUSE ITS IN BIG PHARMA'S INTEREST GLOBALY to keep the world depressed sick mentally unwell! Imagine if MDMA or PSILOCYBIN was available to people who need it where it's 1 dose curing our I'll menta…

r/CPTSDcomment3/25/2026
I'm exhausted of doing everything myself

I was born in WI and lived in Maplewood for a time. I understand that completely.  And I own some of what I'm about to say - I'm not completely a victim and this is something I continue to work on a…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/28/2026
NATAL SATURN SERIES: IN THE 4TH HOUSE

1. Scorpio rising 19 degrees 2. 0 degrees Aries retrograde 4H (Placidus, what I use -- otherwise it's 6H in WSH) 3. 3H Capricorn at 23 degrees, 4H Aquarius at 29 degrees 4. Saturn **trine**: Sun in Sc…

r/astrologycomment3/29/2026
Profile pics with partial few of their face

Same. Are we talking about poses that are maybe trying to be artful but appear as face hiding to you? Or literally obscuring half of her face with objects, cropping, and/or filters?

r/datingoverfortycomment3/30/2026
Emotionally Unavailable Mother BUT she’s literally the nicest person ever..?

'When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain a…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/30/2026
Divorce order rejected..

The court would generally prefer to see a complete cost child support agreement and also an independent dealing of the house. As in, you would buy out his equity over time, etc. The reason for this is…

r/Divorcecomment3/30/2026
My wife (f38) wants me (m42) to be okay with her going speed dating with friend?

Dude... open your eyes. It's laughable how blatant the situation is. You need to start digging & securing your future.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
The reality regarding interracial dating for Asian men in the West

[https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/xswxrcqb2s3sapmzpw9df/the-dating-divide-race-and-desire-in-the-era-of-online-romance-9780520966703\_compress.pdf?rlkey=yzcqc5x3a67d2c2eupj8vh6ow&st=5yx93sfo&dl=0](https…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/31/2026
Do you ever look back and think maybe you should have been taken away by child protective services?

yes. my parents drilled it into my head that I would get raped if I was put into foster care and would threaten to send me there whenever I got too resistant to their abuse. I regret allowing them t…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/31/2026
Feeling lost, depressed, and lonely.

Don’t feel backed in a corner and get your power back. When you beg they repel. Help them get what they want. Get a lawyer and make him pay for the fees. Get what’s due and move on. Bottom line, you d…

r/Divorcecomment4/1/2026
Learning About Aspects

This is a reaaaaally good way of going about it. I didn't even think about going about it this way. This seems like an easier way of learning about aspects for sure. Thank you so much! One question I …

r/astrologycomment4/1/2026
I can't fully believe in it

You're comparing manifesting a specific person or outcome to curing every dying patient in every hospital. That's not a fair comparison and deep down you probably know that. This practice has never cl…

r/Manifestationcomment4/2/2026
My 71 year old mother escalated to throwing objects at me tonight because I started vacation from work

"*She doesn't know yet because every time I've mentioned leaving, she deploys guilt tactics* " And that is why grey rocking came to be. Frankly - i would only tell her via a happy postcard "hey I ha…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/2/2026
Fully anonymous therapy

Was just being sure, truly I want to show that there's is no harm and I really just want full privacy. Not confidential, nope full on privacy. I want a therapist that doesn't have to follow any obliga…

r/therapycomment4/3/2026
Are there any psychedelics that produce strong visuals but without the losing your sanity part?

"Losing your sanity" and "going insane" are definitely... opinions. You're more likely to lose your sanity and go insane by submitting to the 9-5 capitalist grind after daily 2-hour commutes for 40 ye…

r/Psychonautcomment4/3/2026
I am completely convinced that somehow my mind is being read.

You're not alone. I gave up believing my thoughts were my own years ago. Many beings and probably humans working in certain agencies, or hybrids, can easily do so. Either corporations have managed to …

r/experiencerscomment4/3/2026
My parents used my abuse compensation money as a house deposit and then made me feel like I was the problem

Thank you for responding - I do want to get the money back but I’ve called several solicitors and they don’t want to take on the case. My parents live in France and have no savings or pension to be kn…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/4/2026
Where Did you Go to Find Your Therapist?

we need to advocate to end all therapy mills. they tend to strip all reasonable business from appropriate client relationships while leaving clients demoralized and dissatisfied. Clients will always b…

r/therapycomment4/4/2026
My (42F) husband (41M) grew a mustache that triggers my childhood trauma. He says I should get over it so he can do what he wants with his face. Am I being unfair in asking him to remove it?

I was first going to say it was probably somewhere in the middle. Your husband's being an mild dick, but so are you. You need to work on your own trauma recovery. But then I read the end of your post.…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
I saw the process of me being sent to earth by some entities

I had a reoccuring nightmare like this when I was little. Im in the dark. From the waist down I feel cold movement as if Im standing in a river. I dip my hands into the water. I start seeing sparks of…

r/experiencerscomment4/5/2026
I(30f) found vides of my bf(33m) recording a costumer at his job.

There's no help. I watch these pred catcher shows, it's always the go to excuse "yeah I'm going/thinking of going to therapy". If he's attracted to kids.. isn't that like suggesting a gay person that…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
I saw the Romans, and I was nailed on the ground

The sci-fi writer Phillip K Dick had a very similar experience, "The Empire Never Ended" is a profound, recurring phrase from his novel Valis and his personal journals, *The Exegesis*. It signifies …

r/experiencerscomment4/6/2026
Manifesting good governance in the Philippines

I get why you feel like that, it’s heavy when you see it every day. Wanting better for your country is a good thing, not delusion. With stuff this big, don’t try to “control the whole country”. Focus…

r/Manifestationcomment4/6/2026
He pushes me away and pulls me back in

I was in your cycle with my ex husband of 18years. He also took ages to get a diagnosis then did......nothing. no therapy, no medication, continued being dismissive, ignored the problems in the marria…

r/Divorcecomment4/6/2026
Stoic free will versus determinism

Like u/MyDogFanny, I hope some more knowledgeable posters come to help out, as this is a great exercise. Anyway, here's my understanding. Fate and determinism are tricky concepts because they are A)…

r/Stoicismcomment4/6/2026
Is it important why we want something?

I’m so glad you posted this. I see that most of the people posting here, and I guess they represent the public at large to some degree, desire normal things that anyone would deem appropriate: \>…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/6/2026
How do I get my GenX dad to stop being chronically on his phone.

Yes. But to clear someone of an entire addiction that doesn't affect you the vast majority of the time is different than just... asking someone for your attention. It's like... if your roommate has a …

r/relationshipscomment4/7/2026
Confused love life

On Tuesday the 9th of June 2026, transit Jupiter and transit Venus will be joined together at 25 Cancer and sextile your asteroid of partnerships, Juno at 26 Virgo. This means that day you will be per…

r/AstrologyChartSharecomment4/7/2026
24 ,will I be able to join govt bank and by when

Yes, you have a high chance of securing a position in the banking sector. If you are currently preparing for your exams and maintaining a disciplined, hardworking approach, you are very likely to land…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/8/2026