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Any Coda people read the new Lindy West book?

These are such thoughtful and nuanced observations, thank you! I couldn't get into the rooms until I literally thought as much as I loved my partner, the relationship would destroy me, and boy did I t…

r/Codependencycomment3/31/2026
New Partner Has Never Used Condoms

In case nobody said it yet: make sure he's using the right size condoms. They are NOT all the same size, or at least the same diameter: the condom should be a snug fit but not enough to cut off circul…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 22, 2026

Giiiirl, happy for you! I recently had a couple of dates with a 29M (I'm 39F) and much to my displeasure we ended it because we were going to get attached. But everything on that boy was on the righ…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/23/2026
My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside.

The vaginal canal is designed to birth babies and then go back to just the right size for pleasurable intercourse. She’s not the problem.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/29/2026
Update: my husband (33M) wants me (33F) to dress more revealing

That's how I see it too. A matching bra holds everything together and nothing falls out of the top. Yes, when bending down you will probably see something of your chest or your bra, which is completel…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
Any Coda people read the new Lindy West book?

I have the same thoughts on Gilbert, and I’ll say this — as crazy as her actions are/seem, she at least recognizes how problematic they are. It feels like a memoir of recovery, Lindy’s doesn’t feel th…

r/Codependencycomment3/31/2026
lads,how to cope with a small penis?

As said, what you see in porn, as appealing as they make it look, is generally not what most girls are looking for. You can have a big dick and be bad in bed and have a small one and know what you're …

r/selfhelpcomment4/7/2026
sexually frustrated and conflicted about sex life w bf M20 F20

And finding the right sized condoms on top of hormonal bc

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it

I'm glad you said this. As a fellow reader on the /r/ABraThatFits sub, I know that OP's reported size of 30H is not *that* big. I immediately thought she's not in the right size and isn't being supp…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
I (33F) want to remove my IUD but my partner (35M) is reluctant to wear condoms. How can we find a compromise?

If he goes soft its cause hes buying the wrong size. Get him the right size and see if he complains again. If he does then he's just a dick. No one LIKES condoms. We use them because we need to.

r/relationshipscomment4/12/2026