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Mom threatening suicide if I don't come back

Typical narc tactics. Don't fall for it. Ignore it. They will do ANYTHING to get you back under their control. They are feeling the shame that you left and made them look bad. They are adults. They c…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/24/2026
Feels like black magic

Look into FLEAS. You are not bad. You are recovering.  https://outofthefog.website/what-not-to-do-1/2015/12/3/fleas

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/23/2026
When loyalty becomes obligation – a memoir on recognizing the fog

https://outofthefog.website/toolbox-1/2015/11/17/fog-fear-obligation-guilt The FOG is real!

r/Codependencycomment3/30/2026
How do you respond when every message from your ex feels like it could start a fight?

It is not your job to prevent triggering your STBX. Your job *is* to not take the bait. When you read their messages, focus on just fact pertaining to logistics, kids, and the divorce itself. Ignore…

r/Divorcecomment4/6/2026
Ex upset over my wife chaperoning our daughters field trip

"Thank you for sharing your feelings. I don't see how ROFR applies, nor do I feel like anyone has acted inappropriately on our end." If you want, you can even add, "You know that could volunteer to …

r/Divorcecomment4/8/2026