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:::Frequently Asked Questions::: — **Q: Hey, I can't post a topic! Why can't I post? Am I banned? It says I need to be a trusted member to post!!!** A: No, you're not banned unless you broke one of the subreddit rules. If that was the…

r/attachment_theorypost5/12/2021
Introduction, Valuable Healing and Attachment resources

Introduction, Valuable Healing and Attachment resources — # Hi, and welcome! It is a pleasure to have you with us. Please come as you are, we encourage you to share openly and vulnerably. If you do not wish to share and just browse, you are welcomed here to…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylepost12/28/2021
When I want to deactivate I swing too far to the other side to preemptively "sooth" my partner, just in case.

Yes I know this feeling. A big thing that helped for me was to actually notice when I'm picking my partner apart in my head or feeling some ick. I have to objectively observe those feelings and ask if…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/16/2025
Avoidance and not being able to access emotions when deactivating

it really sucks because most couples come together and they cuddle or embrace or just reinforce that they love eachother and no one is going anywhere. to me that is not intuitive, i withdraw. and even…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/15/2026