i wasn't perfect

Hear me out. Starting "i wasn't perfect" signals humility, self-awareness, and acceptance of our existence as humans in a relationship. Often our cheating, loathing, and insatiable partners are so s…

How do you stop feeling of needing to be perfect? — I have no problem getting dates, but things always seem to end after 1-3 months. Sometimes, it was my decision to break up or it was theirs but I didn't disagree. But I've had guys dump me when I thou…

Breaking up is my last resort — I broke up with him last night, and it took a lot of chances and time before I finally snapped and resorted to this decision. For months, I tried to raise what hurts me, understand and justify your …

How do I talk to my ex when no-contact is up? — swear I'm not as naive as the title might sound. Anyways, buckle in for a story time. Me and my ex dated for almost 8 months. I've never met someone I clicked with so instantly, not to say I can't f…

Thank you. That is most helpful. I will try those techniques suggested & they could definetly help. I think Schoold of Life did a video in which they suggested that dumpees try something similar. :…

Text of original post by u/rkuchiki123: I have no problem getting dates, but things always seem to end after 1-3 months. Sometimes, it was my decision to break up or it was theirs but I didn't disagre…

Recently, I've been adopting the mentality of "is this productive for me?". How am I scheduling my days to show up for myself, reach my goals, finding fulfillment, and being a better version of myself…

Oh yes so true. Separated 6 months and his family is still calling me in emergencies because I have always been the one who will drop everything for family. It's very telling when your ex-in-laws call…

Having trouble with situation with someone where we were friends for a long time prior to giving it a shot: Gist of the story - she got a new job, hours are brutal, it is stressful. She also got out …

The day before she left me, she told Me, I love you so much, you're my sweet boy and we will work this out, 24 hours later she left me Completely discarded me got into a rebound ( that only lasted 2 …

I feel your pain. My exwife did this to me... multiple times. For 1-2 months flirted and had an affair with a man online, sending photos, talking about sex, planning to leave me for him. Then got …

The advice that mine gave me made no sense and depending on the hour - "you don't need a license or car" (next minute) "why don't you have a license and a car"... Mine also showed me nothing and expe…

Im one of these people she broke with me on Tuesday it was my first ever serious relationship since 8th grade we broke up many times and I hate even admitting that shes a narcissistic fucking piece of…