look good on paper

Genuinely want to hear your thoughts, I am exhausted looking for my person. — Ive been back on dating apps for about 2 months and it has been absolutely frustrating and worse than I remembered from a couple years ago. I am in my late 40's (49), I am not feeling the clock is tic…

"I'm conventionally attractive..." "I make really good money, I take care of myself (and him) and my things, I'm kind and caring and I'm a good cook - which he loves. Our sex life is great." (That d…

YES. Universities are strange places. They are basically political jobs in that the money comes from very ambiguous sources and it's based more on making oneself/one's department look good on paper, …

I think in the specific situation of the partner actually being good and healthy for them, then it can be the following: 1) Lack of chemistry and excitement Childhood trauma and dysfunction means th…

You have no idea how refreshing it is to have such a pleasant debate around a topic thats always so heated, but, understandably so! So, thank you! I tend to look at a lot of things from the way thing…

Original copy of post by u/confuseddating1: Ive been back on dating apps for about 2 months and it has been absolutely frustrating and worse than I remembered from a couple years ago. I am in my late…