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Trust your gut, even when your mind is unsure — Not exactly infidelity, but the same effect, I think. This is a bit long, apologies up front. I and my gf (both well past our 30s) started dating three years ago. We both had been married previousl…

How do i get over her — So, it’s a long story, but I’ll keep it short. I had been going out with a girl for a few weeks, and it was great. She was one of the first people I could truly trust, and she supported me in my sport…

My ex wanted me back — I'll start when it all started (last year when i was 17 and now I am 18) . So when my ex and I first met she had joined my friend group at college and we all were hanging out and just chilling walking…

Should I text my friend about seeing him next weekend or just plan it differently anyhow? We have a long backstory — tl;dr: my friend didn't reply to.my last messages. should I ask him about our planned meeting this upcoming weekend or should I just make other plans anyway? Hello there, I (32f) have a friend (31m)…

Do you guys ever feel guilty dating/ seeing people after a break up? — Got broken up with like 1.5 months ago now, it was a 3 year relationship and today I just went on a date with a girl. We made out. Didn’t go beyond that but I mean I won’t lie some part of me feels gu…

Telling the "full truth" only when there's no other way out — I'll keep this short. (NOTE: This happened about 3 years ago, but still comes up, hence me posting about it now. We've generally worked through it, I've intellectually forgiven them and emotionally to…

my(21F) bf(21M) possibly saw an extremely unflattering picture of me and now i’m spiraling, how do i deal with this? — so me (21F) and my boyfriend (21M) have been dating since late feb, like a month and a half. just for context he was the one who had a crush on me and made the first move so we got together. things we…

Hesitating to initiate or escalate physical touch, ending kisses quickly, facial expressions showing uncertainty, lack of playfulness. It was a situation where we got along very well platonically. …

Went on a first date last night and instant chemistry! Met on the apps. We spoke on the once before meeting up. I could already tell before we met that this guy is different. He’s 40 and I’m 37. He wa…

Quick advice/thoughts please. Genuinely busy/overwhelmed with life or just not interested. I was talking to this girl on a dating app for a couple of weeks. We have about a 2 hour distance between us…

4 months and no kissing or hugging? This sounds like a friendship and not a relationship. If he's not willing to progress forward with intimacy, I wojld cut my losses. My BF and I have been dating f…

Had a good date, we made out.

I love this idea! If we see each other again I think I will do a "check in" on how everything feels. Something she does already that I really appreciate is keep me honest on boundaries around physical…

I met somebody on the weekend, who gave me her number but then never responded to my 'nice to meet you' text. We met in the afternoon at a wedding and later that evening, after exchanging glances th…

My first date post-divorce I hit it off with that guy, we made out, I cried a little bit (mostly happy tears but also "wtf I'm dating again" tears). That was three years ago and thankfully I know to k…

Weird, getting a crush is one thing, arguably common. Its choosing to not do anything for it and choosing to be loyal. The only reason I could see her confessing is to trickle truth, it was just a cru…