fun times

One of the central ideas in Stoicism is that we should examine the assumptions and judgments we make about people and things. (If you want to read more about the theory behind this, there's lots in th…

How do you deal with missing the narc and the good times? — He was a serial cheater who was a pathological liar and psychologically so abusive, but I still remember the fun times and what I thought was genuine love. The love really seemed so real. It’s the 3 m…

Three weeks into taking space after the breakup and I’m already feeling much better. Here’s what I’ve been focusing on. — My partner and I broke up about three weeks ago now, and I’m already feeling a lot better about things. What I have NOT done: demonize him, villainize him, try to tell myself that the whole relation…

A year post-discard — It’s been about 14 months since he finally discarded me (February 16, 2025). During the relationship he actually “discarded” me many times — probably around 10 times. Every small conflict or inconveni…

So it's been 4 months... — Currently this morning I'm reminiscing on the good times we had. Specially the sex and yeah, it sucks! we aren't together anymore and I'm here thinking about some of our best and most fun times togeth…

I can tell you my experience. I have been in a close to 7 year relationship with a BPD ex girlfriend, quit that one more than a year ago, if you know the dynamics you know that's a huge slap in the fa…

Raise your hands if all the guys you have had sex with after being single come with some talk about how they are super confident, or are dominant, sexual af, really not looking for anything serious ju…

I would just apologize normally. It’s way harder but less performative and (if you actually mean it) will show him you actually care about him and his feelings. If you try to soften it with a gift at …

If you don't love the man who is amazing, gives you all the patience required and gives you stable love and quiet support while you are going through shitty times then what the hell do you want? …

> I realise I am attracted to the idea of him rather than his person. That's a good one. When I broke up my last FWB thing it was really hard in the beginning, but not because I missed HER but the po…

I have a similar thing operating in my chart also. Virgo on the 12th with Mercury, Mars (conjunct Saturn), and Uranus in a T-Square. Fun times! 🤣😭🤪

I'm sorry you're going through this, OP. It's absolutely unbelievable he would do this after what his parents went through. He's but embarrassed. He's upset he got caught and his fun times aren't fu…

Oh man first period i remember that. Told mom I needed pads, she screamed at me and slammed the door in my face. So at 12 I had to figure it out...with no Google, money or a car. Fun times... I neve…

I was in a 40+ car pile-up 20+ years ago. Messed up my neck, left shoulder and hip. So I've had that physical situation. It comes and goes depending on what I do or don't, or how the planets align, or…

Well I wouldn’t call it a hallucination. It’s more akin to the “energy” you’re “hearing”. Loud “rushing” / storm” / “train” / “white noise” / “static” / “buzzing” / “ringing” sounds are very commonly…

Just a little vent: I've been feeling a little undesirable physically. Haven't been getting any action for over a month because of schedules and logistics and when we thought we could have some fun, w…

I’m 50 now and didn’t know a damn thing until my life exploded in Dec 2021. I just kept saying to my therapist “does this mean I have trauma? Does this mean I have trauma? I had no idea what I had b…

My mom and dad are only 16 years older than me and they have never gotten involved in any of my relationships. I would die if they called my (ex)boyfriend “for” me. That’s weird to me! And if they all…

My dad did something similar before my wedding back over 25 years ago now. His reaction included calling people who had been invited and telling them (falsely) that he and his wife had been disinvited…

This is a weird social media thing thats making you feel like this and others to think this way. I wouldn't ask about your sexual history past than would you be willing to get a full panel test if we …

We should have dated and then split up when I first tried. We had a lot of fun times so I’ll keep those memories. But being cheated on hurt my heart so deeply I might never recover. 

Your boyfriend shared his feelings with you, that is a huge plus. Sounds like you communicate with eachother very well. It's a shame your spark is gone. Maybe go on dates. Do things together like you …

I (F) dumped her. I miss her every day. We had alot of fun times and domestically just seemed to work well. She is the first ex that i had alot of the same interests with. She encouraged me to do some…

Wear what makes you feel good and is comfortable. It can be appealing but cute. Who can sleep in often itchy lace that is really just meant for fun times anyhow? I love wearing for comfy reasons shor…

Its definitely not a huge gap, but from a 40 y/o guys perspective who hasn't dated older in over 15 years. Id say try and weed out if its a fetish for him and an older woman or something akin to he al…

The main things I miss about being in a (good!!!!) relationship are things like having someone to go to fun random things, eg I love stand up comedy but none of my friends do, I’ve had partners who di…

I feel this too, even after therapy, and so much work trying to not be too honest, not too available, not too needy, but not too distant, pay attention to what they like, keep track and remember well …

I’ve been in this relationship, it will only get worse. The second he told you that he regretted proposing and that you didn’t deserve the ring, it was time to go. This guy is trash for thinking he ca…

Ooooof, so it's a 12H transit AND Neptune stuff. Fun times!

They are also wildly fun like lsd. But mushrooms allows a different thought process to appear if you let it. More so than lsd. It's really up to you. I took a bunch of mushrooms with my friends and w…

Dude gonna comedown and realize it’s been only a few hours. Been there, fun times

NAL, but....protect yourself, document everything and never be alone with them again. I feel like this wasn't just a little illegal but intentional plotting against your life, and your son is the priz…

A couple of years ago, I lost my hearing in both of my ears after a pretty bad head cold. The doctor put me on some steroids and made an emergency appointment for me with an ENT. Now, for some cont…

Oh, my, I got the “I love you, but I don’t like you .” But I suppose the worst was when she called me one night (drunk), and told me “ The day you were born was the worst day of my life!” She repeate…

Honestly it’s not you. It usually happens if you have a bit of a bad gag reflex AND you just ate a little while ago. I found out when me and my ex were in a similar situation….and I ended up getting …

Wow fun times sounds like a happy marriage. I too try to make my wife's life miserable by picking arguments and rolling my eyes at her. Helps me sleep at night for sure

San Jose State, Cal State Fullerton, Cal State Northridge, Cal State Long Beach UC Irvine, UC Riverside, and even UCLA had tons of Asian Baby Girls when I was growing up. Actually, Cal States in gene…

No they would just lecture me in circles saying the same shit loudly and I’d just cry until I couldn’t take it anymore and it would just end with me shutting down. Fun times.