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I feel like he wanted the baby and the idea of a family, but not actually me, and I can’t get past it — I’m posting because I need insight from people who are not emotionally inside this situation. Almost 2 months ago, I had an abortion after getting pregnant by a guy I was involved with for 7 months c…
Help with agency name — I brainstormed names for a digital marketing and communications agency. Which of the following would you choose? Help me decide. Thanks. ** Bliss Marketing ** Maxim Digital Creative ** BlueMaxim ** B…
Help with agency name — I brainstormed names for a digital marketing and communications agency. Which of the following would you choose? Help me decide. Thanks. ** Bliss Marketing ** Maxim Digital Creative ** BlueMaxim ** …
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…
Some Pointers after 12 Years of Meditation — Meditation is an invisible skill, which makes it especially prone to confusion and obfuscation. I wanted to jot down some pointers and opinions about meditation that have served me at one point or an…
Where do I go from here re: dating/socialization/adulting, as a college student near my hometown who has a job lined up near my hometown (both suburban) — So good news is I got a job! It's not in a major city though; it's in a suburb of one, meaning I'll have to drive my car to everything and all that. I'm still wondering whether to take my chances wit…
get me out get me out — my mom rants and vents to me about her useless conflict with some boy for like 7 HOURS the whole day and I'm so tired and burnt out from it. she expects me to say certain things that boost her ego, li…
Meditation Session and Hollywood Video came up! (Yes the old video rental store) — I haven't been to one since I was a kid and I always loved the experience of going to theatres and rental stores and just consuming movies. I had not thought about one for a long long long time and …
How do you handle unwanted intrusive thoughts and rumination? — I’ve been dealing with intrusive thoughts and rumination since I was a teenager. I’m 34 now, and while the frequency and intensity have fluctuated over the years, they’ve never fully gone away. Someti…
I (20F) is starting to question being with my (21M) partner? — My bf and I live on two sides of the state, it takes 2 hours to get to either of our places. We've been pretty good with keeping up with this relationship up until valentines day of this year, he has …
Oh yes. You're right. He took some time. But still, he managed to do alot in a relatively short time. If his tales are true, his is a good example to emulate. (Except that I wouldn't do the nightly m…
Don't send it, you don't know where they're at in their life or what they're doing and it could be disruptive or painful. I've had bad relationships and I don't think I would want a random unexpect…
I agree! There's an abundant amount of attachment style information out there but not much that demonstrates secure attachment style. Although this lady is not a psychologist or therapist, I think her…
Not sure if you're asking for advice or just ranting, but I agree with this. You could just tell them that high volume texting is disruptive for you and see if that fixes it.
I tried to do the normal thing of going to talk therapy, working out, eating rights, getting good sleep, socializing etc but was still firmly stuck in thinking about my ex day in and day out. Eventua…
When the solar return ascendant matches your natal ascendant sign, it's one of the more meaningful configurations in predictive astrology — and definitely not accidental in its effects. The most imme…
2nd house And if this matters, its my antardasha for mercury (like just begun) and it has been wayy strong for me,fell ill,been disruptive,detached and more. Tell me the consequences thou
The question comes up a lot, so I apologize for copy pasting my answer. For me. Benefits: Confirmation of the divine. Loss of the fear of death. Loss of existential anguish. Loss of the concern with…
When you were little, did you have a stay at home parent, or did you go to daycare a lot? A daycare provider can affect attachment too since a child could be in their care 40 hours per week. Same with…
My story is very similar to yours. I've always been decent at singing. Teachers said I had a lot of talent. When it was convenient to show it off, my mother absolutely would, putting me on the spot m…
It was a long time ago now but I will never forget it as a turning point that solidified my awful relationship with both parents. Throughout elementary school (grades1-8 terrible little Catholic schoo…
She is disrupting your work calls and concentration - that alone is a reason she should be taking your feelings seriously, if she cared about your concern for her. During your workday, can you record …
I might get downvoted for this but oh well. Unless you literally cannot control yourself using AI, I would strongly caution against ignoring it completely. It's likely gen AI will be as or more di…
> It's likely gen AI will be as or more disruptive than the internet. A marketing point by AI firms, it would be good to back this up with reliable evidence if you're going to assert it. Your sentenc…
It depends on what context and purpose your interpretations have. Imagine you are Aries so you represent a place where these things thrive: boldness, freedom of action, freedom to take risks, encoura…
I just the music "feed us your girls" and you fit right in it but yours include your mother feeding you to the wolf. Not in the way the music intends but in another way. Still abusive. Still disrupti…
married 20 years, thanks. Do you have kids? Do you care at all about raising responsible children so that they are well adjusted adults? Are you familiar with the research showing how important fami…
1. Aquarius rising 2. Gemini 6°, retrograde 3. 12h & 1h 4. Conjunct IC, opposite Jupiter and Neptune, trine Venus, Sun and, depending on orb, Mars and North Node. 5. Had a very traumatic experience w…
Ok I may be wrong, did you and your wife have a good enough sex life before she began rejecting sex ? She may be going through menopause and not even realize how disruptive and sneaky the hormones are…
in my experience there's indeed a thin line between actually meditating and just entering a peaceful state of mind prone to creative thinking and ideas, so do not worry, it's totally normal to ask the…
the fact that your partners value it says a lot. most people experience that energy as disruptive from the outside. yours seems to be landing as authentic rather than chaotic
Yes this sounds abusive. Why would an important letter be under a cat bed? There is no logic, no world where that is perceived as helpful, just intentionally disruptive.
The way I see it, you seem to want to keep the peace by letting your dad walk all over you. Dad's are a lot. Especially when they are near retirement age and want to be seen "they still have it" like …
That's still an inconsiderate thing to do. I've had past partners think the same thing about herpes. Doesn't mean I'd want it, especially if I know I'm clean. Have you ever been lied to about somethi…
When I was a teen, I had a 200 year old piano gifted to me by my grandmother because I was a pianist. It was very loud, so I would usually do my practicing and songwriting when no one else was home. …
I have no idea if this resonates with you (it's AI, not me, it just gives me a basis to research) but I thought I'd share it. Chiron in the DSC with the moon & Lilith just seems rough, I had to know m…
My pay has been cut by half due to AI, and might not survive another year. I am so sorry this happened to us. And of course you are absolutely right about all its problems and wrongs. Let me pre…
Any time! I highly encourage you dive into the wiki in the sidebar. It has great info that is directly related to your question. For instance, this is what I was trying to say but this is much more c…
That’s interesting but it’s kind of just that you’ve created your own narrative to self-soothe. The truth is that you were disruptive and therefore excluded. If one goes on believing it’s a good thing…
Being born under an eclipse isn't bad, but it means you're disruptive, which can be a good or bad thing.
Why assume I was disruptive? My Kindergarten teach was mad at my mother and me because I knew how to read before I got there. I was making myself suffer with the interpretation of events in my life. …
My mistake then I assumed you were disruptive because you “marched to the beat of your own drum” but I get it.
Some men really just can't fathom the idea of being close to other men in a platonic capacity. A couple nights ago, my best friend came over and hung out until 5AM. Nothing crazy or disruptive, just s…
Saturn return in the 11th house is one of the more socially disruptive Saturn return placements, and what you are describing is textbook for it. The 11th house governs your social network, your hopes…
Any therapist that doesn't hold space for the impact of their interventions with and for their clients isn't doing their job. If a client leaves therapy without any attempts to communicate to the th…
Today, if you dont mind me sharing, i was really upset teaching kindergarten because this girl who i asked to listen better next time to my lesson (she was really disruptive as usual so i gave her a f…
What you’re going through is honestly one of the hardest versions of a breakup. It’s not just “missing your ex it’s that your environment is constantly reminding you: same town same university same so…
Yeah, I don't see any need to come up with alternative Red safewords - they should always be clear like that and you're breaking the scene at that point, so there's no point trying to hide it. I unde…
It’s sometimes hard to discern on Reddit or the like. To say, hey I’m in the house and he preferred to get himself off real quick in 5 mins rather than have an intimate moment with me and he’s done it…
My parents, particularly my dad, failed to recognize I had ADHD and very likely autism. I was identified as “gifted” at 8 years old, and coasted through school with high grades, so my stereotypically …
The Lunar Eclipse on 8-27-26 will be at 4 degrees 54’ Pisces, in your 11th and favorably aspecting your Saturn. This is auspicious for 6 months during which you set up hopes and wishes in a certain wa…
I think the fitting into his social circle thing depends on the man. Some men have a lot of their identity in their family of origin. These can include being culturally conservative (as in traditional…
I'll share my experience. I must say that marijuana is much more mentally disorganizing than mushrooms, which is why many people find it difficult to focus. Many believe they think better because anxi…
**This hits close to home.** I was on quetiapine, zolpidem, alprazolam and trazodone for years. Started as a sleep aid prescription, ended as a full dependency cocktail. And yes, they absolutely kill…
I'm still early days with my STBXW. I filed for joint custody and equal parenting time (presumptive where I live), she moved out, went to her parents 8ish hours away and just responded with wanting p…
Trolling, including posting inflammatory, irrelevant, or disruptive content intended to provoke emotional reactions or derail discussions, is not allowed. Trolling is when someone tries to stir up d…
When he chose to have an affair, he made a choice that very obviously and predictably could lead to him not seeing his kids half the time (divorce with 50-50 custody). He was willing to give up half …
She’s lying and being deceitful. You leaving is disruptive to her lifestyle and standing. She was looking for an upgrade over you and it didn’t work out. Now she needs to keep you around until ano…
I have had a really good therapist the last 2 years. That's privilige, I know. I couldn't always afford the co-pays though. I plan to prioritize that expense now that I have financial help. I had to …
First of all I’m sorry for your experience. Regarding your story I only have an opinion. But maybe it can serve you as a - very distant - outside perspective: I believe you picked this person for …