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Clothes in themselves are indifferent - they are not inherently good, **nor are they inherently bad**. Your reasoning that led you to the choice of clothes is where the good or bad lies. Are you s…
Hosting Company Gaslighting Strategy? — I work as a sub-contractor for a marketing company and their biggest client uses a niche hosting company that is more paranoid than Elon Musk in a bunker. I have to install Wordpress manually, do manu…
Anxious Attachment Injury - Nervous System Stuck in Fight/Flight — TW: attachment injury, trauma-bond withdrawal, panic attacks, obsessive rumination I think I’m in severe attachment-injury / trauma-bond withdrawal and I’m struggling to function. I’m asking for nerv…
A lot can change, if you allow it to. — It’s my time to give back to this community. Just to put a perspective to things, I don’t mean to boast. I am not very talented, just stubborn and a hard worker. If I can transform my scenario, so c…
"Men Can't Be Men Anymore" — A week ago, I [posted about the Louis Theroux documentary on the “Manosphere,”](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stoicism/comments/1rtveyg/the_manosphere/) noting my surprise at the scale of the phenomenon, u…
Delayed no contact 3/4 years later 😂 — me and my ex broke up amicably 3/4 years ago and remained "friends". id say at the beginning, once the emotions had settled a bit (we'd been together 8 years so fair amount of hurt there) we were frie…
I didn't fail at life. But life failed me. (TW) — I am fundamentally exhausted. Every cell in my body is tired. All I feel is anger and grief, and then the sudden crash of exhaustion that comes after. The sheer statistical improbability of my life,…
I go back and forward between ending my relationship every week, even though it's essentially perfect — My boyfriend \[22M\] and I \[22F\] have been together for over two and a half years. It was originally going to be a summer fling. I had gotten into a different university and was planning on transfer…
Someone cured spinal cord injury with the law? Or other disability that made you unable to walk — I know a person that suffered a spinal cord injury, and apparently for medicine, will be impossible for her to walk again. She doesn't know about the law and she wouldn't believe in it either, but I w…
Should I accept my narcissistic parents’ job offer as a scaffold out of financial dependence? — TLDR; My wealthy parents have a sordid and calculated history of financial abuse, but are offering me to pay me to help manage their investments. I am disabled, possibly for life, and don’t know if I …
How do you know if you’re an addict or if your addiction came from an emotional problem and or injury? — I’m trying to understand this through my own experience and would value honest input from someone with a similar experience. I had PTSD and a intense brain injury, and during/after that period about …
Just found this sub, I know I'm a little late commenting. One thing that I think can be added in relation to how emotional neglect can cause PTSD: People think of PTSD as something that is a threat …
Hey there’s a Z code in the DSM 5 for emotional neglect, I’m sure. I haven’t looked but there’s a lot of different Z codes to help identify life circumstances, to give a bigger picture to the F code d…
Text of original post by u/rainbowjungle: TW: attachment injury, trauma-bond withdrawal, panic attacks, obsessive rumination I think I’m in severe attachment-injury / trauma-bond withdrawal and I’m s…
I had one of those dreams where people from different parts of your life nonsensically show up in one location. It ended with both my mom and boyfriend (who irl have never met) helping with an injury …
Firstly, I appreciate the very well formatted post. So many instances felt like I was teleported back the past At various points in the relationship you've communicated your needs, triggers, boundari…
I will not go in deep as that will make you more anxious. So, will let you know only what is needed to know, only because the previous reader has told you about this already. The Sun represents your …
So, he's 31, working full-time, still living with his parents, presumably not paying rent... he must have a hella savings account or IRA, and if he doesnt, if he has a big fancy truck and lots of toys…
Over-analyzing: Virgo rising- absolutely the sign of getting lost in details and analysis paralysis Saturn is the sign of delay and late bloomer-ing, and the apex of a T-square. The opposition in the…
Lots of techniques out there for assessing the parents. Here’s one: the ancients associated 10H with mother and 4H with father (i know, this is controversial). By this standard, Saturn represent…
I gave you a break down of the legal framework with not only from a sociological, psychological but also including jurisprudence. I did not once deflect from the topic at hand which is "consent during…
>gave you a break down of the legal framework with not only from a sociological, psychological but also including jurisprudence What I meant is that the way you wrote the message it's very difficult …
None of these affect you as long as you don’t allow it, the only real problem someone should have with shifting is if it affects them physically (sickness, mental health, injury, environment, etc.) ev…
Yeah, I'll try not to write another novel (and fail). While I've always loved my sci-fi and stuff, I did not follow the UFO scene when stuff happened to me, that's fun stuff, but I'm more into real …
Ah that good old fantasy (the whole reason I did this whole no contact thing lol, to get her back) Avoidant + covert narcissism = that’s a pretty bad combo if someone wants no contact to work lol. T…
Depends on where you're located and your local legislation. Might be legal to bash your kids, might me illegal. A quick Google search will sort that out for you: > In Canada, it is legal for paren…
oof, that sucks. The only thing I can think of is to try and find a professional to see if they can do it without injury, but that's a big investment just to see if a look you hate grows on you.
Asking at the beginning of the session is normal for some therapists. It's just how they practice. If it doesn't work for you, it's totally okay to find a new therapist. About the yawning. A lot of …
CBD has powerful neuroprotective, mood-stabilizing, anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, pain-relieving, antioxidant, anti-allergic, anti-proliferative, and immune-regulating properties, supporting overa…
Your partner need to work on her own mental health. self-injury, not honoring boundaries, not giving you emotional space, threatening are all signs that she needs more help than you can provide. eg. t…
You don't get over it. He just showed his true colors. Your gut is telling you what your brain is struggling to process. Think about all the things that can happen to your body in the course of your l…
Brother, first: do not go see her again right now, and do not go anywhere near her husband while you’re carrying this much pain. This sounds way bigger than jealousy. It sounds like injury, grief, old…
Speak to a lawyer! Speak to several. Good ones charge money for consults because they don't get commission like personal injury, but it'll be worth that cost.
I have a chronic pain issue, basically I am in constant pain all day every day, but I manage it because I have to and because if I don't get up and move and do something during the week I will just ge…
Dude, this speaks to me so much. My wife is similar -- started her own business, I agreed to keep things afloat. She has turned into a self-absorbed, entitled woman who seeks constant validation from …
This is it. Also, as someone who was until very recently a certified kids sports coach and trained in pediatric first aid, a screaming kid after an injury, upset or scary event is *good* if they'r…
I found out my ex had been doing this for the entire 7 years of our relationship. We didn’t have kids, so it was less complicated. The very idea that he’s trying to push the blame on you is also a h…
Friend, a bad origin story does not automatically make a bad future. If one day you help animals, the important question will not be “what strange path led you here?” but “how did you treat the livin…
That's how narcissists and other toxics are. Consequences, exposure, and not taking their shit is like Armageddon on 9/11 in their minds, especially in the presence of others. They do become especiall…
Every single phone conversation with my mom is like this. 99% of the time is she talking or ranting with little interest in knowing about how I'm even doing or that I'm seeking therapy. I'm very glad …
Mutilation means injury and disfigurement. Male circumcision is neither of those two. Because unlike injury, it confers health and hygiene benefits. And unlike disfigurement, it cosmetically adorns t…
It isn't mutilation, it is just a surgery. Mutilation means injury and disfigurement. Male circumcision is neither of those two. Because unlike injury, it confers health and hygiene benefits. And unl…
A lot of people react aggressively because they genuinely cannot fathom feeling that way themselves. To them, life is something you hold onto at all costs, so hearing that someone wants to die feels f…
I went on a really nice first date! It was his birthday and he chose to go on a date with me during it (what the heck!) And he was really charming and interesting. He's into scuba diving which I've ne…
Need more info. Did he know you were gonna do this before it happened, or was he startled? And when you say he pushed your leg forcefully, did he shove it at force/angle that he could reasonable predi…
Oh! Hello! I have not lost someone to their brain injury, but boy do I know what living in those conditions is like. When I was eleven years old, my older brother had a near-fatal frontal lobe injur…
Yes. “Bad” events do not have to be the bridge, of course, but they can be. A little more than a year ago I also had an accident out of the blue. A kind of freak accident involving my shoulder in a s…
At 14, to save my sister from a manic family childhood friend trying to stab us to death - I came literally *mere seconds* away from killing him in self-defense. On the *direct* (no exaggeration, no …
Ldr in the beginning and she had never cheated before you or during the ldr? Look up the following terms related to infidelity. Cognitive dissonance. Compartmentalizing. Affair fog. Dissociating to …