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Question of virtue ethics: Proper Ambition, the golden mean between ambition and unambitiousness.

>But I would argue that Stoics divide life into what is within our control and what is not. Actually the (ancient) Stoics didn't do anything of the sort. What you describe is a complete misinterpret…

r/Stoicismcomment3/28/2026
The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control.

The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control. — I wrote part of the body of this post as a comment in another thread, but I see these comments very often anyway so I thought (voluntarily) that I would give a general objection to them here. The g…

r/Stoicismpost3/29/2026
Disconnected from my future

This Marcus Aurelius quote might be a helpful reference for your situation: "It is in our power to have no opinion about a thing, and not to be disturbed in our soul; for things themselves have no na…

r/Stoicismcomment3/16/2026
Disconnected from my future

A quote was found to be attributed to Epictetus in Discourses 1.1 (Higginson) ^(1.1. Of the things which are, and the things which are not in our own power ()[^(Higginson)](http://www.perseus.tufts.e…

r/Stoicismcomment3/16/2026
Hard times.

A quote was found to be attributed to Epictetus in Discourses 1.1 (Higginson) ^(1.1. Of the things which are, and the things which are not in our own power ()[^(Higginson)](http://www.perseus.tufts.e…

r/Stoicismcomment3/17/2026
The "Manosphere"

The manosphere (mysogany) is the enforcement mechanism of the patriarchy (the system of power) and sexism is the justification of that system of power. Stoicism sees value in our shared human existe…

r/Stoicismcomment3/21/2026
Anyone else from the US not motivated to survive a systemic collapse?

My plan is to hunker down and basically hoard shit, hoping it all blows over quickly. I can't leave either due to finances so we can only do what is in our power. If that means living out of your car …

r/CPTSDcomment3/27/2026
The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control.

"Impressions happen to you, not thoughts. Thoughts are verbal representations of impressions. You get the impression of light from your eyes. You create the thought "It is day". The thought is in your…

r/Stoicismcomment3/30/2026
The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control.

By "up to us" I not only mean that we are responsible for them but that they are also in our power. By saying that assent is not in our power I am saying that we can't control assent in the sense that…

r/Stoicismcomment3/30/2026
The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control.

I think you are not correct in this. You said:  "What is passively received is impressions. Impressions happen to you, not thoughts. Thoughts are verbal representations of impressions. You get the i…

r/Stoicismcomment3/30/2026
The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control.

It may have been better for me to say the awareness of the impression and the thought that results from that impression comes from our soul or our hegemonicon. Even then that's problematic because heg…

r/Stoicismcomment3/31/2026
Stoic free will versus determinism

I was hoping the more learned  redditors on this sub would comment. "so how does Stoic practice correct your actions and beliefs, if you can’t control them?* Through sustained rational inquiry, ar…

r/Stoicismcomment4/6/2026
I didn’t think it would hurt so much as the dumper.

Well we dated for 2 years, and there was a spark there, we liked the same stuff, shared the same values, really got along. But there was some small stuff that we could not agree with, but it was impor…

r/BreakUpscomment4/7/2026
did anyone else grow up thinking certain behavior was “normal” until way later?

It was the worst! I was verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive to my own child, thinking I was parenting. It wasn't until years of therapy that I realized I was trying to raise me out of my daug…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/10/2026