the big picture

Not OP, but I believe I may be able to help answer this question. To my knowledge, this is in particular a very complex topic, as the end result will bring about drastic (but positive) changes to not …

Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026 — Even if you are not an artist, philosopher or feel things deeply, the New Moon in Pisces could give you an open, dreamy quality, where you want to dig into more abstract subjects. You may be thinkin…

My boyfriend doesn’t make me feel heard — I (F18) have met my boyfriend (M19) about a year ago through our mutual friends. When we first saw each other we both were in a relationship. My relationship of that time ended after two weeks of know…

36F Twice Divorced Now? — Really trying not to get down in the dumps. I married my high school sweetheart when I was 20. Divorced at 26. Married my 2nd husband at 28. Now divorcing at 36. With therapy, I've acknowledged I hav…

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

I am unsure why. It's quite a common topic in psychology. And yeah, even better that you're doing it during a difficult period, as well as observing yourself doing it. A breakup is still a loss, an…

Biggest difference for me is I’m more selective in my 30s than 20s. Not just about the men I’ll date, but what I do with my time and my lifestyle choices. I’ve always used dating apps, but in my 20s …

It will be strongly pushing for you to **diversify** and **broaden** yourself. A wide range of experiences and some specialized learning will likely have you seeing more of the big picture and the in…

I think it's easy to regret things when you see the big picture more, but I think it's also important to remember that you were able to have realizations about the relationship because you went to the…

I was Daddy's girl until I was in my thirties. Then I really opened my eyes to just how fucking selfish he was. Literally yesterday I remembered having panic attacks trying to drive down to his place …

I get that feeling of powerlessness when the world feels chaotic - you're focused on your personal reality (your art, your dreams) but external events feel overwhelming and outside your control.From a…

I get that feeling of powerlessness when the world feels chaotic - you're focused on your personal reality (your art, your dreams) but external events feel overwhelming and outside your control.From a…

Yeah, thats pretty much the big picture of why narc's have kids to begin with. To use them for anything and everything up to and including care into their senior years. They are so grandiose they thin…

The thing about that is that you gotta demonstrate some ability to examine yourself for the AI to see the big picture. It’s one of those things where you only get out of it what you put into it. Call …

Thank you a lot for your words, it truly means a lot ! aslo you're right I mostly get lost when I compare the big picture and lose sight of what I can do today to get better, God maybe I'll need to fo…

I don't know that a 6th house Gemini stellium *has* to be bad. What if you had both benefics and the sun in there? It just means that 6th house/Gemini themes are going to be really prominent in your l…

Agreed. It’s good to have a man awknowledge a woman’s sacrifices when she has kids esp if she’s a stay at home mom, if they end it or he leaves her how stuck she is after that. But so many men call wo…

Going for a walk even 5 minutes a day *(Going outside helps our nervous systems so much naturally, I recommend your work lunch break)*. -- Taking a long bath *(Evening time well spent, sometimes this …

No because I value my mistakes as necessary to put me where I am right now. I wouldn't change anything. Even some stuff that feel like mistakes that I'm really paying for right now (student loans lol)…

I know right. It’s like we see the big picture and didn't realized about all little details in that

Finn being willing to sacrifice himself showed that he believes in the cause now whereas before he was always trying to just stay alive with his friends. But it's not just about wanting to take the ot…

Believing things like the afterlife can be a source of strength and comfort for a lot of people. For many, the thought of living a relatively short and often tragic life would be unbearably unjust if …

I would say it boils down to whether, outside of this incident/situation, you really think you have a future with this person, because the reality is that you will eventually tell any serious partner …

If at 40 years old she can't communicate better, one more reason to drop her. Edit: The down votes are wild. If she is suffering from trauma she needs to seek therapy not a date. The lack of discernm…

I love Jurgen Ziewe's stuff, I think he has had some of the best experiences and I love how he describes things from an artist's eye. Plus, all of his accounts with his deceased mother are great if yo…

I’m sorry. you are so young and have plenty of time to find someone who deserves you. Yes he cheated. Chlamydia is highly contagious and in the big picture of your life this will not be a big deal fo…

He's being honest, you're not worth the effort to him, believe him when he tells you that. It's called dry snitching. They tell on themselves in little ways. You don't need marriage counseling you ne…

I thought that was when they do something so badly that they're never asked to again. This sounds like he doesn't see the big picture

1. The details aren't perfect. Sometimes you take the chance because you won't get another one for a long time. 2. It's a chance to 'burn a lot of karma' at once, as they say. By this, I mean that…

Yeah, some of this shit he did because he thought it would be 'funny' was a little alarming. Of course, it was always at my expense🙃 LOL Dang, your sister was looking out for you, that's awesome!🩷…

Who cares about “some”? They don’t deserve special attention taking away from the BIG picture

I’m having similar issues with my partner where he says he wont be able to call even for 5 minutes everyday especially when he is busy. I feel emotionally distant at times cause while he replies my te…

I’ve definitely been in that 'everything hits at once' season. It’s like the universe decides to test every single pillar of your life—work, relationship, housing—simultaneously. For me, the only way …

u/dasplete Great follow-up questions. For me it comes down to life experience vs textbook. If someone has Sun in Aries but they describe themselves as deeply philosophical, more interested in the big …

The short answer is yes, but not through sun signs. Sun sign is too broad for career specifics. What you actually want to look at is a combination of factors: The Midheaven (MC) sign. This is the cus…

I was at my lowest point when my mom passed away due to cancer. I was barely 17. She was a single mother and I am the only child, so it created a void that’d last forever. That same year, I lost the c…

I get it, I had to file at 10 weeks postpartum with a 2.5 year old. My first advice would be therapist and an attorney. Go to virtual therapy at night while the kids are asleep. Do not let him be maki…

I hate how knee jerk my flight/fawn is. It's like I'm watching myself do these things a million times over and it just happens. fuckin sucks. I was gonna say tho that despite my feelings and trauma, …

I’ve felt stuck or like there’s a wall keeping me from doing anything my entire 48 years of life. It seems to be all about how I look at things. Stop being scared off by the big picture. And try to fi…

I think you are spot on. Our generation and those that have become before us have definitely struggled with acknowledging past traumas and also struggled with accepting, coping and healing in a hea…

Omg! Go you!! I gave birth to my newborn when I called, he is now 3 months old, I finally see the big picture here and since he left 2 months ago, they think they won! Because I haven’t said a word. H…

This is useful! Thanks! Yeah we went to one of the VCA locations, I did a quick review at the time and saw some people were saying in Pasadena and SGV area, VCA and other private company are buying t…

i also have my north node in 12th, and i dont think the 12th house is primarily about the psyche, at least not as much as the 8th house. 12th can relate to mental illness and introspection, but typica…

Yeah, it's tricky moving from a fire sign to a water house. This is from the intro to my guide to this placement: "This is not a warrior lifetime in the old sense. You are not here to fight for surviv…

Just prioritizing getting *something* done every day, even if it's small. I find it easy to get caught in the trap of thinking "I have lots of work to do, so if I want to improve my situation, I had …

To be honest, it is not easy to stay friend with you. You have too much Earth - Capricorn, too little Air and Water so it could be challenging to think in other perspectives and pick up the emotion of…

You are a Pisces rising who feels everything, Sagittatrius Sun who can see the big picture and sick of everyone's bs (Moon and Jupiter in Seventh House)

While I understand the hurt of rejection and being excluded I will say this and it is 100% true!!! School, whether it is grade school, middle/Jr High, High school it all means NOTHING!!! Growing up …

Here's what I see: Virgo Stellium 11th House (Jup 3°, Merc 17°, Sun 18°, Ven 24°, Midheaven 2°) North Node Taurus 7th House 22°29’ is conjunct Descendant in Taurus 25°54’ South Node in Scorpio 29°5…