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>But I would argue that Stoics divide life into what is within our control and what is not. Actually the (ancient) Stoics didn't do anything of the sort. What you describe is a complete misinterpret…
Back to looking for love — So I met someone online as i started to try and get back to meeting someone. My bf passed 3 yrs ago yesterday. I didn't think I wanted a relationship as im in my 40s now and work and have children. I …
No, my statement has nothing to do with validation. I find when someone says 'that's invalidating', they haven't sat down and thought about what they're saying. And why would I need to constantly vali…
No use being worried! At worst it’s an hour of your life. I’m sure you’ll have spent an hour doing worse things even if you don’t like it.
To all of u on here...... The hurt from the lost is undeniable but my greatest advice that Id like to share with all my heart and hope, that you will understand what is happening in your life at thi…
Ouch spot on, I think this is what happened to me It sucks when you don't feel like you can grow in time for your partner. Missed chances. But the love was all real. Hope your doing better :(
I feel the need to weigh in again, otherwise you’d walk away thinking you were so right. No, you are the opposite of right. My points were concrete from the start. You’re the one who made up ridiculou…
My immediate instinct to this is to tell you, you will not "detach" from your thoughts. Controlling your thoughts is actually just redirecting them. Whether you are meditating or in your day to day li…
It was the same thing for me too but after 15 years but this is recent. Very hard when it was all you knew for so long. I miss her my kids my dogs so bad and it's only been less than a week. I messed …
Same thing has happened to me recently with the thoughts for me I think it was abit of brain fatigue because I just started studying again for the first time in a while however I felt a deeper mean to…
Its possible. I help folks with this. Just assuming it's your heart, sight unseen without examining our doing any diagnostic tests.... the heart is interesting one to tackle because it's layed. The…
Your doing fine but equating college easy mode to after is gross malpractice for most AM
I’d say good luck with your wedding and future. Everything you do now, written or notarized is your doing. If things go sideways with your marriage that’s on you and don’t ask anyone for help
It hasn’t ocurred to you that perhaps you just make it happened for yourself. You eventually get it after 5 years, it is your doing nothing else
What he did was weird and inexplicable because you still wanted to be in the relationship. It sounds like a bs cover story for his selfishness, like he was envious of your doing well while he wasn’t …
Okay, you really sound like you know what your doing. Can you give a little more info on what exactly to do?
11 years is insane, I hope your doing well. Best of luck to you
Your doing well, keep going little fish. Proud of you
appreciate your comment i hope your doing well with ur current situation, it was my first relationship and really special not a normal relationship for people at my age so it feels like this relations…
Sounds like your doing very well. The mind will feed you all kinds of imagery, most is just fuzz and should be ignored. But feet can be a reference to your roots. E.g the root chakra. Perhaps you sho…
You two have different goals and desires at this point. It's not at all clear from your post that you understand why someone who has just emerged from a 4-year-long relationship wisely feels a need to…
I hope your doing better, I’m currently in a similar situation. I initiated the break up due to him being emotionally abusive. He never once called me names, screamed, or anything. He just wasn’t emot…
What does he mean by ‘having access to you’? Or can have a convo with you while with him? With him like he is physically present or like you two are in a relationship? Honestly both sound unhealthy an…
What your doing is the right way, of course you can't suppress your emotions and the love you have for her. So, you can allow yourself to feel it, even cry about it, when you're alone. Don't blame you…
Your doing really well. Good on you!
It sounds like your doing the right things, so it can be just continuing and to have patience with the process. Also, maybe as you use to be a caregiver, then maybe talking to people who have been or…
As a fellow narc survivor, I get exactly how you feel. I'm 26, somtimes I feel 6 years old again, other times I feel 60. When you've never been allowed to develop your own personailty, it makes every …
Look, I don't know if anyone has ever told you this, so I'll tell you. I'm proud of you and your doing so very well despite everything thats been thrown at you.
I have seen a few scenario’s like this in recent past, and I have never understood the reasoning whatsoever (or rather I don’t believe you are making your choices with your husband’s best interest at …
Sorry you went through that. I hope your doing better now
Original copy of post by u/Affectionate-Cut-994: So I met someone online as i started to try and get back to meeting someone. My bf passed 3 yrs ago yesterday. I didn't think I wanted a relationship …
The emptiness after long relationship is something else entirely. I went through similar thing few years ago and that feeling when everything just stops... it's like learning how to breathe again. …
depends on the type of meditation your doing, some meditations have you focusing on breathing or visualizing or postures; and other forms of meditation have you doing all 3 at once. and yet other form…
Can you please tell me which tapes exactly your doing and in which way ? I want to do it too and for example if i got high stress,some injuries and want my relationship with wife get better what do yo…
I came here to say this too. It's underrated, but walking will raise your metabolic baseline over time, which is a healthy and sustainable way of getting more fit. I'm recovering from a chronic illnes…
It sounds like your doing great to be honest. You are consistent and don't give up. You said you see benefits while meditating but not outside of that. That's completely to be expected at first, othe…
when in meditation the connection between the sensations of the body and imagination can be amplified, this can be positive but it can also amplify your negative thoughts and feelings and make meditat…
Its hard and I know. You have to examine what you hold onto the regret the guilt the shame the fear. We are running on the programing that we've learned over the years. Some of it isn't our doing some…
#Therapy! Go talk to a therapist. No one on Reddit will really be able to help you. You need to talk to a trained professional about this behavior and they will give you the tools you need to recogni…
you sound like a bad person to date... work on your self or be prepared for a life of pain, also know when women say all men are trash they are referring to men that treat women the way your doing.
No offense, but your doing this on purpose right? This isn’t embarrassing girl this is evil. Not once in my life have ever even THIUGHT about saying something like this. Ooo child you the problem
Look babe, if you don’t like my reaction to your lousy and selfish gifts, change what your doing and get me a gift that will get you a good reaction, like giving me a thoughtful gift that shows you th…
I didn’t knew. Definitely try to slowly cut them off from your life. I did the same with my childhood friends who started commenting on me because I started putting makeup and wearing dresses. They ma…
Been through something similar and yeah, this is totally normal. The whole "gets worse before it gets better" thing isn't just one cycle - it happens in waves over months. You had that clarity phase w…
Hey man, it does get better. A good way to quiet your mind is to occupy yourself in something else, take up new hobbies, go to the gym, get active, just move around. About her reposting, it’s probabl…
I can relate, I am a guy but I was the one at a young age being used by older females and just looked at as an object and I also internalized it. Don't isolate yourself, first learn to love yourself,…
Let me try this over because it’s not hitting the way I wanted to hit. so basically I never wanted to see anything bad happened between us that caused us to hate each other from which I know that we w…
I think the heaviness means your doing it right!
That means your getting better/closer to disconnecting from your body. I am also at about the same spot in the tapes. If you cant feel your REBAL very well you should repeat the first REBAL practice (…
Your doing the right thing, she doesn't sound remorseful enough to not cheat on you again.
The vibrations are my signal I can get out and leave my body, there's a moment shortly after cant explain it but I just know now is the time. Your doing great to already be at a vibrational state, s…