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Yes. In traditional astrology, there's not really a "general" reading of a natal chart. Astrology is rooted in prediction - study of fate and fortune, etc., so a natal chart is theoretically outlining…
How should this sub respond to reddit's api changes, part 2 — We stand with the disabled users of reddit and in our community. Starting July 1, Reddit's API policy blind/visually impaired communities will be more dependent on sighted people for moderation. When …
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …
Beginner's question — # Hello, I wish everyone wonders! # I need to answer a beginner's question about training. The affirmation exercise must be carried out with the affirmation presented in the index or we can replace…
My arguments against manifestation — 1. **Maladaptive daydreaming proves that manifestation isn't real**; Manifestation doctrine teaches that what you focus on expands and manifests in your physical reality. Do not split hairs and try to…
Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting — **Table of Contents:** I. Account Requirements II. Content Rules III. Linking Policies IV. Dropshipping Guidelines V. Reporting Violations VI. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) VII. Encouraged C…
Music / Art creation — Does anyone here use the LOB for music creation? Not as much for improving your technique on certain instruments, but rather the actual process of making music. Anything from songs, pieces, riffs, bea…
FAQs about r/AnxietyHelp — Hi guys, One of the mods here suggested creating a FAQ page for our subreddit to help eliminate confusion. **Why was my post removed automatically?** It wasn't! It has been sent to our mod queue fo…
Does attachment style start to shift after cutting out toxic family members? — Recently, I removed a toxic family member from my life after years of emotional turbulence and manipulation. This person liked to gaslight me, hold past mistakes over my head, and blame me for everyth…
Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…
Beginner Questions — If you're new to web design and would like to ask experienced and professional web designers a question, please post below. Before asking, please follow the etiquette below and [review our FAQ](https:…
Thoughts on branding approach for B2B website? — https://preview.redd.it/e5mxjr1ghtve1.png?width=3012&format=png&auto=webp&s=cade89114c5cadadae4dc7567cde6ba8d4d583d0 I think the design is generally good, but I'm specifically curious about the logo …
Why do so many websites of major companies suck? — I just went on [sephora.fr](http://sephora.fr) for the first time in years (I don't really shop there anymore, or I go in person). The website not only looks like it was designed 15 years ago and has …
Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…
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When does maximising space/reducing elements go too far? — I'm working on an eCommerce site at the moment, and when it comes to the product category pages, I've had some feedback from my senior to suggest that space needs to be used more efficiently. To name…
My Keyword Research Workflow — Hi guys, I wanted to check with you if my keyword research workflow canbe improved. Here's how I've been doing: Finding general keywords: Google Trend: Look the best variation of a generic keyword…
Why you should always schedule your job interviews in the early morning. — I got reminded today of a very important tip when you're setting up interviews. \>> Do not set up job interviews at the end of the work day. In short, there have been studies done on judges that sho…
Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker — I started job-hunting in April. After two weeks of sending applications and receiving zero feedback (only ghosting), I scheduled a few calls with my mentor. Based in Eastern Europe and looking for a f…
SEO Results in 2-3 Months — I run a small business and am looking for someone to help transform my website through SEO, which up until now has had very little traffic. In the past I have mostly relied on word of mouth and target…
Monthly Getting Started / Web Dev Career Thread — Due to a growing influx of questions on this topic, it has been decided to commit a monthly thread dedicated to this topic to reduce the number of repeat posts on this topic. These types of posts will…
Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…
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Research -- What makes you hire a copywriter? — Hey everyone, I'm doing some market research and would really appreciate any input you have. Also, this isn't a promo post or anything of the sort, just me diving into the market. First off, a bit ab…
Freelancers – the only person that can evaluate your pricing is the buyer (not Reddit) — *(TL;DR at bottom)* Questions like this pop up on this subreddit every few weeks: > How much should I charge for a basic website? Or: > Is $500 for a single-page Figma design a good price? ...and…
Is there a UX role in existence that doesn't involve so much documentation? — So I come from a background in design. I was a bit of a generalist before—branding, logos, layouts, art direction—and while that was fun, it started to feel fragile. Like I was always one trend away f…
The best way to differentiate yourself? — What I have found works is this: Step no.1: Research yourself and your competitors If you're the founder or in a C-level position, you might say: "I already know everything about my business." WRONG…
Why is Amazon's website design so ugly? — I can't be the only one seeing it. The all white pages, strange font choices, horrendous product image compression, terrible layout, cluttered webpage in general. Even the text looks awful on the page…
Should I redirect the sales? — This is not a rant/rave about my e-commerce journey as I expected a lot of turmoil and for e-commerce to not be all it was cracked up to be. This is actually witnessed by the shhear number of people …
How do you deal with the spam? — I recently (4 weeks ago) started a shopify store in a niche market with my handmade products. Doing organic advertisement with product videos on tiktok, facebook, instagram and youtube. Generally spea…
Need Guidance for Amazon Systems/DevOps Engineer Interview (Cloud Support Background) — Hope you're all doing well. I'm currently working as a Cloud Support Engineer and have managed to land an interview with Amazon for a Systems/DevOps Engineer role. While I’m excited, I’m also feelin…
Canary like deployments for Custom Resources? — Why is there no Canary-like deployment orchestrator for Custom Resources with quality gateway analysis? AFAIK, Flagger, Keptn ( have some maintenance problems ), Argo Rollouts, these are tightly boun…
Things to do with my non technical cofounder "i will not promote" — Hi all i will not promote So i have a startup / side business im working on, I bought a friend in as a cofounder as he's generally useful in going out making connections, someone to help with site …
How to show charges on international order screens in USD — Topic. Right now we charge everything according to local currency, which also makes the order screen in the admin show it in the local currency. We would like to change that for general convenience, b…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
Common sense from an actual founder [fully boostrap 10M$ company] about startup studios' playbooks [i will not promote] — I don't post on reddit but I've recently seen an increased influx of post or people talking about X or Y playbook about how you should startup. i will not promote Let me get this straight, I won't cr…
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…
Advice on how to prepare for this final round interview — Ive received an email for a final interview for a digital media buyer position (somewhat entry level). This is the only description they gave me on what the final interview will include. "As a final …
Furniture ecommerce idea - good or bad? — Looking to start a furniture ecommerce brand. I own a digital and branding agency so I can nail it on brand and design/UX but I'm torn on if the idea will work. For me, it'll be fairly economical to s…
[question] What's the general opinion on best bookkeeping for ecommerce business these days? — This will be my second year in ecommerce -- we own a small ecommerce store in the CPG space. Sales have done much better than expected (We've allocated a lot of effort and resources building relations…
Tech Startup advice required - Hire or equity offer (I will not promote) — I’m a serial entrepreneur—what some might call "very successful,” though success is relative and I just did okay. Over the past 25 years, I’ve had some brilliant tech ideas and a brain wired for archi…
Best Practice For Canonical URLS — Hi everyone, I haven't used reddit much for anything besides lurking and memes, so its time to try it for crowdsourcing information. I'm looking to implement a rule set for a very large catalog of p…
How to prepare for this final step interview — this was included in the email "The exercise will include a walkthrough of report formatting and analysis using a simple Programmatic campaign example, along with a brief performance review of a Goog…
Any experience running and managing many locations on POS? Switching from Square and I’ve got questions — Shopify POS as a refreshing breath of fresh air over Square on many points. However, they seem to fall short on some really obvious things. That make me think maybe I’m the crazy one and just don’…
Product variants are not tracking properly in GA4 - Any Suggestions? — Hey all, I'm trying to analyze product variant performance in GA4, but they don’t seem to be showing up properly. I can track general product views, but not specific variants. Has anyone figured out …
Feedback on Branching Strategy for IAC Repository — Hello, One of the challenges I’ve faced when researching branching strategies is that most resources are focused on software deployment workflows, often emphasizing versioning and tagging. These stra…
General manager compensation — Hi All, I've owned a small seasonal diner for 5 years now and am planning on drastically stepping back next year. An employee who has been with me for 4 years, and who I trust / get a long with/ have…
Pre launch marketing for gaming tool on Steam (I will not promote) — Hi all, i am building an AI notifications filter and creative visual display for gamers and streamers, to be launched on steam in 3 months time. I wanted to ask how folks do their pre-launch marketing…
How can I let devs update their lower environment terraform while protecting production environments? — I know the title is a rather open ended question, but let me lay out where I am now, in the hopes of getting ideas on how to do this better. For a given service, we'll have one directory for environm…
[Product Survey] Help us understand your auth/DB platform choices (Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, and more) — Hi everyone! 👋 I’m a Product Manager working with a developer friend on a new backend-as-a-service solution, and we’d love your feedback. Whether you’ve used Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, Authn …
Sounds like the plot to Insidious lol try not consuming anything with sugars, Caffeine or carbs after 6pm if you can. sometimes nutrition and physical activity can have an effect on what goes on in yo…
Oh God. Way to generalize people. This blanket statement and judgemental attitude shows that you have not even understood the principal basics of neither Nevilles nor Joseph's teachings. Really weird…
> Oh God. Way to generalize people. This blanket statement and judgemental attitude shows that you have not even understood the principal basics of neither Nevilles nor Joseph's teachings. Oh ? And w…
It just depends on what kind of beings you want to meet. Duality still exists in the Astral. Just like in physical life you can find good and bad teachers. And yes, dimensions above the Astral are gen…
The point is to still go to sleep, if you're going for the direct method, exiting the body happens during the precise moment between wakefulness and sleep, [see this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AstralPr…
Yep! Practice makes perfect. Deep relaxation is important. You have to relax and go to sleep, consciously. It's generally recommended to do it during a WBTB phase. That is, attempt it after 4-6 hours …
Haha what an honour to be compared to Uncle Iroh! 😆 yes I understand and I debated whether to put that in, however there are some people who get frustrated with their attempts and prayer can actually…
idk your situation, but generally do you feel like this is cruel if that person genuinely did nothing wrong to be treated as an annoyance?
The 2019 DevOps Roadmap link (aka https://roadmap.sh/devops) is no longer useful and should really be removed or majorly updated as it's confusing to newbies. It's actually linked twice in different…
I have not been public-facing but generally when people come to me with issues I take care of them. This was due to complaints about a certain comment that made people feel unsafe. It's important a co…
I totally agree that there is a general trend to project personal issues and give drastic advice, especially since... well, it's not your life. I particularly notice it when it comes to fear of a par…
Definitely true. My parents in law have been together for 40 years, married for 32. They started dating when she was 16 and he was 24! Something that's literally illegal in most places now and situati…
Another green flag (on reddit in general honestly) is anyone willing to ask for info/context before giving their thoughts and anyone willing to provide more info/context when asked. Those are two thin…
Really solid points and then there's space for legitimate concern regarding abusive relationships. Basically, the “Power & Control Wheel”, like instances of sexual harassment/ assault, emotional abuse…
Ze's saying within 5 years of a serious betrayal, like cheating, not within 5 years of marriage. Your statiatics are for marriages in general (this is a good demonstration of why it's generally a good…
Another thing that you can do is umbrella affirmations. They are more general: something like: my life is amazing, i am living my best live. everything in my life is perfect. Basically they imply tha…
I’ll take a crack at it Point 1: The answer is sm vs cm thought. Daydreaming is not focused with intent, the mind often wonders and you still feel it’s not true in the end or with emotions that are …
No babe. I’m happy as can be, I guess you don’t realize people can get into committed relationships without having to rock back and forth in their rooms doing affirmations and visualization all day, l…
I'm FA and I identify with this. I value my alone time, and generally speaking, consider myself an introvert. A recharge period is definitely necessary, not just after a social interaction but at the …
Read as much as you can about it. There are sooo many amazing books focusing on avoident attachment: I recommend reading a book solely on it, as this focuses in more in detail then the books that talk…
sure but at what point is repeated “venting” just victimizing yourself/validation seeking? if you really do the work, you wanna live your life and invest your time in things that are interesting or …
Working on this :) Though unfortunately in my case, my avoidant ex was just a bad person and serial cheater. It's led to some passive blurring of the lines between him and avoidants in general in my h…
They can be self critical, but that's actually the opposite of being accountable and aware because typically it's just another way to ruminate. I also think that tendency in general is what drives the…
Irritating the ones you love, polysecure (because it deals with a lot of attachment education), women who love too much, polyvagal theory and exercises, legit anything to do with different therapies— …
Avoidants are victims of their past trauma. They tend to make victims of non avoidant partners in their present life. This is a generalization and every relationship is different.
'For one, if you’re saying he’s avoidant then there definitely was something you did that made him feel unsafe— you loved him and you wanted him to love you back.' No, no, no. Someone steps into a re…
Usually most people are a little bit chill and collected in the first few weeks of meeting each other. There are no global standards or benchmarks, but if you’re looking for general guidance maybe som…
Here's what I found helpful to figure out my own feelings. I look at three angles: 1. If they suddenly told you they were done and didn't tell you why, would it hurt you? If it wouldn't hurt at all, …
Okay ignoring that you’re only a week in.. here is how it works for me: Annoyance level. If this person annoys me a lot, I probably don’t like them. But I also have to juggle this with the mindfulnes…
It's a theory, as that'd what it is. It may work for some, it may not for others. Its essentially a basic CBT method to help you break a loop of rumination and understand you can have 2 opposing thou…
It's a theory, as that'd what it is. It may work for some, it may not for others. Its essentially a basic CBT method to help you break a loop of rumination and understand you can have 2 opposing thou…
Not specifically with my T but I regularly shift between all 4 attachments depending on who I’m blending with. Lately I’m DA with most, holding them as some flavour if contempt or patronizing, or ge…
I think your therapy must be working? Does your missing her feel destructive since you’re anxious? To me it sounds like you’re really working through your childhood wounds. I’m DA to everyone. I was …
One way to avoid over reliance on a therapist is to internalize a new set of secure parents that fulfill your needs and re-wire your internal map. The protocol, if you want to learn more about it, is …
Well said. Honestly not only that, but I think in a lot of cases a bad relationship actually harms the ability to sniff out red flags (unless someone does a lot of work to process). Bad relationships …
You might want to work on your attachment issues first. It took a week for you to get attached. You can’t generally “spot” an avoidant. They still want love and all of those things. They’re not avoid…
How long has it been since he hasn’t responded? Maybe something is indeed going on in his life. Either way don’t let it affect you. Just detach from him. I’m sorry to say. Also in regards to spotti…
Husband and I met when I was on a business trip we dated 1 year plane ride long distance. 1.5 year car ride long distance then moved in together and got engaged a year after that. It absolutely can wo…
Thank you. This research at least is not wedded to what is seems to me to be a very over simplified model. I've just read the abstract and will chew through the rest of it. Then look at what else …
honestly, it's pretty situational and depends on the person and the relationship, but in general with interpersonal stuff that i have dobuts over, i try to not take any action immediately and instead …
Living through this right now. Was dating a DA last year and I really liked her, but she would put me down and be generally disrespectful at times. She would often say things that minimized our relati…
Sensitive when it comes to their own struggles and issues. Much less towards others’ (generally, not everyone obviously) IMO
It is different for me too. One is an apology, and the other one feels more just expressing guilt or absorbing responsibility to some degree. At least for my DA ex, I knew there was no ill intent in m…
Bare metal doesn't mean running the whole cluster on a single server, that wouldn't be fault tolerant. Generally you'll see it used to distinguish from running in the cloud (i.e. on premises). A more …
Not a good metric. It's used by middle managers to justify their existence (my opinion), as it's as useful as counting github commit lines. Or bugs found and squashed. Additional process limits pro…
For my org, it’s basic economics at the end of the day. The cost of build (or rebuild) vs buy. Optimize for the lowest cost to meet the business need. When Elastic changed their licensing, our genera…
Is this a permanent need/requirement? I imagine something like a light KV store w/ a RESTful interface(e.g.: Kinto) could be viable. So, instead of pulling and overwriting an entire blob, the KV st…
While terraform/opentofu isn't a crazy difficult skill to learn, I'd still prefer tools that are more generalised than just MS, mainly because: * it's easier to find people that have that skill * it'…
Hey, Your future employer knows that you are fresh out of university, they know your work experience and should have set their expectations accordingly. Breathe, take your time relax and learn. That…
Depends on the therapy. Somatic, and EMDR, and AEDP are generally better suited for avoidants, as a lot of the reactions are tied into bodily/nervous system responses.