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Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

Even being found "not guilty" is not exoneration; they don't prove you innocent. They just say there wasn't enough evidence to prove guilt. OP is asking for something that likely doesn't exist. Even…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

r/AsianAmericanpost3/21/2026
Seattle man who killed pregnant asian woman and shot her husband found NOT guilty due to mental illness

Seattle man who killed pregnant asian woman and shot her husband found NOT guilty due to mental illness — [article](https://komonews.com/news/local/seattle-man-cordell-goosby-found-not-guilty-by-reason-of-insanity-in-2023-killing-of-pregnant-woman-eina-kwon-belltown-shooting-case) [article 2](https://www…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/22/2026
I feel for everyone on here.

I feel for everyone on here. — I’ve been in an a relationship for last 9 years. I’ve read everyone stories infrequently as a reminder of how hard all this is and how hard life can be. Tomorrow will be day 1 NC for me. I found out…

r/ExNoContactpost4/8/2026
Anyone else triggered by the HI v Gerhardt Konig trial?

Anyone else triggered by the HI v Gerhardt Konig trial? — I’m 13 months post DD. My WH had EA with coworker, which I discovered after finding their messages on his phone. It was earth shattering in every was imaginable, but we’ve come a long way and are in…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/9/2026
Should I help repay my sister’s debt to protect my parents?

You keep acting as if your parents and your sister are your kids whom you should have managed better. They're not. You made a suggestion and they went along with it. If you hadn't made that suggestion…

r/relationshipscomment3/14/2026
Anyone find out later in life the “good” parent was as bad as the “bad” parent?

The crazy thing is that he is still the better parent. That's terrifying! He was the more nurturing, loving, kissing, huggy parent, and for that, I thank him. I have his personality, and it was defin…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/20/2026
My (26M) brother (35M) has impregnated my ex wife(F27) and is engaged to marry her. How do I move on going forward?

Let it go and move one. Suck it up. Why? Because their marriage won't last. But still that kid is not guilty of anything. Maybe it will be sad if you don't know that kid. It's a terrible thing, but it…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/20/2026
Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

It’s incredibly difficult and rare to be found not guilty due to insanity. This person obviously had severe mental issues, and this is a symptom of our society’s inability to address such disease

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

Frustrating that no one reads the actual circumstances. Everyone sees “not guilty” and assumes he just gets to walk away; that’s not the case. He’ll be involuntary committed to a mental health hospita…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

As someone who’s unfortunately going through a similar situation (white man with major psych issues murdered my late husband), I can’t imagine how infuriating and insulting it must feel to have them b…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
inappropriate relationship with my therapist

Tbh, if I was one of his kids, and he as my father would get arrested or anything.. I would be GLAD, that the person (you in this scenario) reported it. Nobody wants a father that manipulates a minor …

r/CPTSDcomment3/26/2026
After April I’ll be living in my truck and my son will be living with his friends family.

Thank you-no its not right at all. Even worse, he had multiple criminal charges for stalking and opted for a jury trial (I had to wait 2 years for), and was found NOT GUILTY even though there was cle…

r/Divorcecomment3/31/2026
Are you happy now?

It sounds really painful and lonely to go through all of this, especially after everything you described with your mother. You've already done a lot, it's really good that you live on your own. Somet…

r/CPTSDcomment4/5/2026
Make sure you thoroughly research your dates

Reminds me of a friend of mine.  She dated a guy who was found not guilty of child SA charges. The child in question has autism.  *This friend has young kids including an 8 yr old daughter*. I sai…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
Make sure you thoroughly research your dates

💯💯💯💯💯 on all this.  The man I was referring to told me this whole sob story about how it was a false accusation. Then a week after the trial and I wrote him a fucking character letter he dipped o…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
Make sure you thoroughly research your dates

I don't have kids, but I do have pets (which I want to be very clear are loved like family members but I fully understand are not the same as a child you delivered and raised) and I wouldn't trust any…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Make sure you thoroughly research your dates

Right. You know when the vibes are off too. With some exceptions it's pretty easy to tell when you're being fed a line.  If someone is *EXONERATED* there would be nothing more to find because it "ne…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
I (23F) trying to escape from my abusive husband (23M) and in-laws

This is beyond terrifying and you need to get out immediately. Your husband beating you for 3 hours is attempted murder, not just abuse. The thing about your dad making you come back alone - that…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

His reaction tells you everything. I guess it’s possible he was found not guilty or charges dropped due to insufficient evidence if you can’t find it online. However, it sounds like he knows whoever…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

No, that is the society we live in. People are not guilty unless proven so by a court of law. Is the system perfect? No of course not. But saying you, a random person on Reddit with absolutely no know…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

You weren't wrong at all. It sounds like you know the actual truth is somewhere between bf and stranger's stories. If it was a major crime and bf isn't in jail...for the last 3yrs at least. So, it cou…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

All I’m saying is, random people on Reddit, who literally know nothing, like OP didn’t even say what the alleged crime was until like the last few comments from her. So it’s not possible for you, rand…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

Not trying to be pedantic, but for this I think it’s important that at least in the US you don’t get “found innocent.” If you’re charged, you’re found (or you plea) *guilty or not guilty* (or other re…

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An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

People throw around the term gaslighting way too much nowadays - I don’t believe it fits this situation. Everyone is pouncing on the fact that he left instead of staying to try and convince you it’s …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

Sometimes accusations are just that and they are easy to make and of course anything regarding kids is going to stir up controversy and anger regardless of what the outcome becomes by either the enfor…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
People who cut off their family completely do you regret it, or was it the best decision of your life?

Best feeling ever. Cut off some hella toxic family members more than 20 years ago. My life has been great. For example; my brother slept with my wife and he help turn to file false domestic violence …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/11/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

Per OP’s comments, 2 brothers age 14 (Max) and age 9 accused her bf. The 9 year old later retracted his statement stating the 14 year old told him to say it. He was never proven “not guilty”. The case…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

People who are not guilty would be upset and want to prove their innocence. I’m really sorry, but I wouldn’t trust him

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

> Woah woah woah, we don't know if he was really innocent. He was found not guilty. That's all you can reasonably demand, assuming no obvious corruption of the legal process. It's unhinged that you w…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

You're only found "not guilty" in court. That's not Law Enforcement's job. If they said there isn't enough evidence to take it to the DA, that's the most they can do.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

So because there’s not a trial due to lack of evidence, someone who is presumed innocent is guilty in your mind because he never got charged and found not guilty? So if I make an accusation against yo…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

It’s crazy people like you think like this. What’s funny is that if they had taken him to court, he would have been found not guilty due to lack of evidence provided by the prosecution. And in the pro…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

No one is proven not guilty by a police investigation. Finding not enough evidence to charge is the closest there is. I don’t get why OP seems hung up on that.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

Does it matter since he was ultimately exonerated? Whether the so-called "other side" painted him less favorably, the fact still stands that he was found not guilty after investigation. Court records …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

I assume you’re from the US, but she isn’t. If her country is anything like mine, there’s no plea bargains because the risk of getting a false confessions is too high. If there’s any evidence, it goes…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

He wasn't exonerated. He wasn't found not guilty. Many guilty people aren't taken to court due to lack of evidence. You're making assumptions.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Update: An anonymous person messaged me (F27) saying that my boyfriend (M29) of 3 years was arrested… can you help me know what I should do next?

No, he was not ‘found not guilty’, he wasn’t taken to court, instead the case was dropped. There is a difference in that. A dropped case also does not mean he didn’t do it, or did do it. It just means…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026