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How do I (31M) convince my (29F) that her reading is unhealthy for us?

I have a suggestion. Maybe read some of the books that she really seemed to enjoy. Or offer to read one with her? Not necessarily like at the same exact time, though that could be interesting, but sta…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/11/2026
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The advice here to any question always seems to be to move on. Im starting to think this sub is why dating over thirty is so hard because as soon if its not instant fireworks and romantasy then people…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/2/2026
My best friend (F35) with BPD has dropped off the radar and I (F30) don’t know if inviting her to my wedding will be too much pressure or not involving her will hurt more. What should I do?

I really appreciate this message and your kind words. I totally understand where you are coming from and luckily I have a really wide supportive friend group. I love people, and friendship is one of t…

r/relationshipscomment3/19/2026
I 20M broke up with my 21F girlfriend after she proposed to open up our relationship and now everyone is telling me to get back with her basically

You are young, OP. You will find someone that makes you happy; just take your time. We live and learn. Yes, your Ex is just brazen. "Open relationship" with a guy lined-up, ready to go? **What…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/25/2026
How do I (31M) convince my (29F) that her reading is unhealthy for us?

Please bring this up to her. As a fellow book lover and romantasy reader, if this was impacting my relationship detrimentally, I would take a break, or limit myself. It’s hard — the books are our form…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
How do I (31M) convince my (29F) that her reading is unhealthy for us?

As someone who reads fantasy and romantasy regularly and is 35, if your GF is pining after these dudes it says a lot about her being immature. Most of these book guys act like whiny teenagers even tho…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
How do I (31M) convince my (29F) that her reading is unhealthy for us?

Are you interested in more smut or romance? There’s honestly a huge range, but I love Romantasy like a court of thorns and roses (there are sex scenes in it). Just go in knowing that it’s not peak lit…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026