not up to them

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Those people calling you cold didn’t have to deal with the things he put you through, it’s not up to them when it comes to how you feel or how you react. He thinks he’s gonna find somebody better but …

you’re an adult and it’s your body. your parents are being terrible parents if they don’t support you, and it’s ultimately not up to them.