checklists

Thanks! I've been trying to combine stoicism with Franklin's 13 virtues, it's still a work in progress. I have multiple "checklists" to help with tons of daily hurdles to improve on. I'd eventually li…

40(m) w/ADHD needing to be reliable/dependable at home — I am 40(m) and separated from my (39f) wife. We live together still but I am just trying to be dependable and reliable from a co-parenting and human standpoint. We have 3 boys and I have ADHD and a…

Checklists can be great.

virgo sun / aries rising is a quincunx (150 degrees) rather than an opposition like taurus/scorpio, and that actually changes how the shift feels. oppositions create dramatic, either/or tension -- you…

I second this, realizing we are part of something bigger to our community is the first step, after achieving all our goals. As goals are a bunch of checklists that are bound to be checked (or not). …

It sounds like he didn't have good relationship models growing up and as a late bloomer he didn't get early romance practice like peers his age typically have. The longer you spend together, the bette…

This exact guilt cycle is the main reason I completely gave up on standard habit trackers. They basically punish you for being human. You miss one day because you're exhausted, your streak breaks, the…

Same feeling about pets too! At least most shelters have checklists to see if you are eligible for a pet but there will always be situations where they get pets from somewhere else. I have always want…