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Oh hey look. DARVO. Front and center. [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO) Interesting how you not only hit all the keynotes you missed the entire point of the …
Perimenopause and dating — For the ladies. I'm 40F. I'm oh so very lucky that I'm going through perimenopause early. 😑 TBH, I feel ugly these days. My face has changed in the last year and I'm gaining a little bit of weight,…
I (22M) have a major crush on a co-worker turned friend (F19) but the situation is weird and i don't have anyone to talk about this. What would you guys do in this situation? — *(Sorry if my grammar isn't correct, unfortunately English is not my native language. )* So i (22M) have a crush on a co-worker (F19) that has slowly become one of my best friends. We have been w…
Question for the ladies on FB dating — I’ve been trying out Facebook dating for about a month and I’ve noticed something on there that I find peculiar. A majority of who I match with have both something casual and long-term relationship …
First and foremost,let me say it takes courage to do what your about to do. I feel your anxiousness and the lump in the throat but also the butterflies that start when you see the other person. You me…
Not to mention that whenever someone with an agenda joins your regular group, it is usually very obvious on a visceral level and can be off-putting. If the activity itself is not something you want to…
Definitely don’t look 17 but if I do a clean shave I get ID for lottery tickets. They ID everyone they suspect is 25 and under here. Most women place me at 30 with facial hair. The ladies at work mock…
I agree dating a 22 year old would be creepy. I am not the one looking to do that. My wondering is why I am not compatible with people in my age range. The comments point to emotional immaturity as po…
I am 50 and also invisible to the ladies. I feel your pain but can't see it since we're both invisible.
trust me, most men aren’t out there wowing the ladies with their conversational skills either
I think you're just being buried. You have NO idea how many likes/messages the ladies get compared to us.
I can’t speak definitely for the ladies, but from what I’ve heard, for the ladies, it’s more like finding a nice shiny needle in a haystack of bent/ broken/ rusty needles. Overwhelming! But you’re ri…
This was for the ladies to answer but as a man, it is the same for me. I'm not swiping yet but I do look and a warm smile goes a long way. I also see a lot of women hiding their eyes behind giant su…
Original copy of post by u/SkullsAndDragonflies: For the ladies. I'm 40F. I'm oh so very lucky and that I'm going through perimenopause early. 😑 TBH, I feel ugly these days. My face has changed in…
Maybe it was all her fault. Maybe he's telling a story in first person, which has the natural pitfall of being a bit self-biased. Maybe he's doing what dozens of women do here every day, yet I don't…
Yeah, not an unusual "Woman" behavior. Guys could do it too, but more commonly the ladies that need to fill the air with words...
I got flowers on first dates several times and I love it. I hate nonchalant people and am tired of all these rules in dating. If you want to get the ladies flowers, just do it. If she finds it cringe …
Edit: as requested, citation below. If you had planned a girls weekend trip away and he asked to go, you know it would make the whole trip feel different. You might not want to admit it, but you kno…
No more dating apps after 3 years. No more. Its a relief. I'm tired. I put myself out there. I work out, go to therapy, volunteer, have social hobbies, and yet on the apps its like pulling teeth. I …
What the hell are you smoking? I gave a scenario and for the ladies to come in and explain their phases? Do you have Down syndrome? Or just simply incapable of reading?
I’m wondering when dudes like these will understand that violent words and actions don’t provide safety, don’t make the ladies open up. You dodged a bullet. Please for the love of all that is good i…
For me I think daily yoga, botox really helped my facial muscles from repeatedly frowning, or tensing up daily so I dont need to get it often anymore, like it trains your facial muscles to relax, and …
Thanks!! No, definitely open and happy for male opinions but wanted the detail Intel from the ladies working it.. 😊
THANK GOD! If the ladies are out, Seriously consider cats as well I don't think a guy in his right mind should date you. Best of Luck!
We really need to normalize red flags and for people to understand their boundaries before dating. You should have a boundary, being touched a certain way, he crossed it and crossed it early. That…
If he don’t respect the ladies he loses his visiting privileges.
Here it is on the Why Files, him saying it's actually wrong and it's October. [https://youtu.be/BYzXPxktcuM?t=7409](https://youtu.be/BYzXPxktcuM?t=7409) Transcript >But what I do know is when I whe…
Is she planning on wearing her wedding ring? If my wife suggests this I’d tell her I’m going out with that one friend ( the one that never got married and never has a problem with the ladies) just to …
Dad of 3 and 18 marches in less than a week? Bro you’re killing it. You’re easily in the top 10% of profiles. I will suggest that you focus on quality, not quantity. Focus on the ladies who type p…
Is there a picture on any of the other guy's public records search results? As long as you have your own picture on your profile, can you put a note somewhere or tell the ladies in person that there a…
Yeah........that just sounds a bit too creepy for me. No thanks. I'll just leave the ladies alone in public. And if they want to approach me the can. And sometimes they do. And, I LOVE the dating ap…
Nothing against drinking personally. But again on a date I rarely - if ever drink - ESPECIALLY with someone I have not known long. I am a bit paranoid when it comes to the ladies. Yes Not drinking wil…
Male here, question for the ladies: I had a great first date a few days ago. She wants to see me a few more times before we commit to anything. At this point, are yall looking for something specific…
Been in a similar situation. She slowly faded and I hit a breaking point with my anxiety. Realized I struggled so much as I was so attached. In hindsight, Best thing we did was pull away from each oth…
Maybe it's time for the ladies to step up and do the approaching. In general, men don't get offended, call it creepy, or post it to tick tock, instead ....they are flattered.
I found women won't close the door in a relationship, until another door opens in a new one.. That's why I never ask a woman if she is single. I figured it just makes me look like a player, and no…
For the ladies who date men, what does your ideal intimacy timeline look like? Yesterday this discussion scratched the surface, and I was very surprised — not when it comes to sex, but when it comes…
You put up with him many times, the first time our date was canceled last minute I left him on read and did not reply. Went to the pub with my friends. A lot of people here will tell you be strong and…
Jesus to all the ladies here i apologize for then men you have met. I state in my profile i have kids. However they are nearing 30 now and I have 7 grandchildren. When Simone asks why I don’t have a 3…
Just want to share that I went to a speed dating event and hit it off with a girl, got her number during the event and chatted a bit after (yay!) Unfortunately, our schedules didn’t line up for this…
As long as men keep doing it, it will be heard about. Police your peers, sir, not the ladies.