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> The sub doesn't let me post That's weird. There are auto-rules that limit TOP-LEVEL comments for posts tagged as "Seeking Personal Stoic Guidance". You have to be tagged as a "Contributor". I do…
LOB training Q — Why does moonlight in the LOB training section say we can’t do it as soon as we wake up? I thought this was, like before we go to sleep, a time when our subconscious mind is impressionable ?
Meta won’t let you control impressions, so I trained an RL model to do it — One thing that always annoys me with Meta campaigns: you can’t just say “give me X impressions.” It’s all budget-based, and if you’re trying to hit specific visibility goals (like consistent daily del…
What could cause massive spikes in Impressions on Google Search Console? — I am getting massive spikes once a week. From 4000 to 16,000 impressions. But clicks do not increase and these are lowering my CTR. We arent doing anything special on these days - no emails - no marke…
Anyone else noticed a drop in Search Console Clicks despite better rankings? — I've got three sites where the average position and impressions have improved considerably in the last month, but Search Console is showing less clicks. Obviously this is because the CTR is down, how…
How do you deal with the spam? — I recently (4 weeks ago) started a shopify store in a niche market with my handmade products. Doing organic advertisement with product videos on tiktok, facebook, instagram and youtube. Generally spea…
Help with my website — Hello friends, I could really use some help with my website. I provide content localization services, but my website does not rank well. I barely get any impressions, and even less clicks. [https://…
Help with my website — Hello friends, I could really use some help with my website. I provide content localization services, but my website does not rank well. I barely get any impressions, and even less clicks. [https://…
Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences? — I haven’t been to many design-related conferences throughout my career, but I decided to give a CoCreate Conference a shot. I won’t go into the event organization here – just the speakers. From what I…
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…
Impressions dropped significantly. Can not figure out reason — I have very new site launched at start of feb. It is app content made available through site. When I launched my site I had almost 15k public pages ready as the content was from app now just available…
iThomas.dk - New site don't get traction? — I launched my site on March 1st, but I’m still struggling to gain traction and would really appreciate a second pair of eyes. A quick check using site:ithomas.dk shows that most of my pages are index…
Do any of you find that search ads work better for your store than shopping? — I just launched Google ads April 29. My shopping ads are getting lots of impressions but few clicks. Like 3.5k daily to 6-10 clicks with a budget of $15 and not spending it all. My search ads at $10 a…
Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks! — I posted about my SEO efforts about 5 months ago and I had such a warm response from everyone that I kind of wanted to provide an update. I had both shared my results and asked for advice on next step…
Low search volume not eligible help — Working with a family law firm and struggling with keyword ideas. ones they have come up with are not eligible due to low search volume on google ads. Examples: "Legal aid for non-accidental injury…
My impressions of Lovable 2.0 — # My impressions of Lovable 2.0 with key features and upgrades I always had mixed feelings about Lovable. But given the amount of attention Lovable 2.0 has received over the past few weeks, I decided…
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…
We Interviewed Our Friends Annika & Tristan, And They Gave A Great Oak Impression For His Gracious Welcome To The Experiencer Community! — **\[UPDATE: March 21\]** Thank you all for the support for Annika & Tristan in your responses! Several asked for more from them—**Part 2 is now live!**: [https://youtu.be/OMVygk\_FrtI](https://youtu…
Having a pet and dating someone who uses Rogaine — I recently started dating someone and I noticed he had a canister of Rogaine (Minoxidil) on his bathroom shelf. We had a talk yesterday and he confirmed that he uses it daily and has been for about 10…
When the Disciples could not perform Miracles, they were not told to become Detached or to do somatic release work, they were told that they MUST Believe! — I had to share this as I have noticed in recent times a slurry of misinformation being shared on this subreddit. I see endless mentions now of the need to let go, the need to be constantly detached, t…
Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …
I asked my T what she thinks about me, I wish I didn‘t — Today I told my therapist that I‘m not sure how other people perceive me and that I would be interested in her honest impression. She said that this is purely her subjective experience but that I som…
What if you’re the impression? — I posted here a while back asking whether the process of examining impressions ever gets in its own way. Whether progress looks like faster processing or less need to process at all. The responses hel…
Had my first tiny experience! — Hi fellow dimensional travellers :D. Just wanted to share a small personal win here for personal and mutual encouragement. I've been practicing the first Gateway tape for a week or three, n…
Do people eventually want marriage/long-term partnerships, or is it mostly just dating at our age? — I'm a 42M, only a few months into my divorce. To be clear, I am by no means looking for a relationship right now. However, I've been lurking on this sub for a while because I knew my marriage was c…
My Experience in Intro Focus 21 Odyssey Wave IV, Movement to Locale 2 — Last night I was in a meditation session (Wave IV, Odyssey, Movement to Locale 2), and after the part where you’re guided to move toward and through the white light, I ended up somewhere that felt ver…
I think my friendship with my best friend might be ending after her wedding and I don’t know how to handle it — I (29F) recently attended my best friend’s (29F) 10-day wedding, and what should’ve been a happy time has turned into something really confusing and honestly hurtful. We’ve been close for years (aro…
How to move past fear of the unknown — Hi everyone! I’ve been experiencing a spiritual awakening which has led me to discover the tapes. I did a lot of research before trying it out for the first time and I’m currently on Advanced Focus …
Encounters with NHI + Jesus? — Hey guys, I had an experience that I want to share and want to know if anyone had a similar experience. I haven’t seen any posts about it after searching far and wide on this sub. I one night medita…
inappropriate relationship with my therapist — okay so. i started seeing a therapist in december when i was 17 (im 18 as of january, and he was 50+) and a lot of the therapy we were doing was about my sex trauma, and he thought i had a sex addicti…
4:44 — Well. It's 4:44 and I found myself immediately awake again. I took the advice of another experiencer and I went outside and meditated. It's been ages since I've seen anything in the skies and I saw a …
How to handle this stoically? — Hi everyone. I've been reading books about Stoicism for a couple of years now, plus, more importantly, I've read Marcus, Epictetus, and a decent chunk of Seneca. I feel like I've taken in a fair bit a…
What are the orbs? — I saw a pure white orb a while ago in my yard. It stopped and “looked” at me but I don’t know what its agenda or purpose was. Then it vanished. The encounter only lasted a few long seconds, but it ob…
Tired of toxic connections.. can my birth chart help me finding the right people? — I’ve been trying to understand how to not stay stuck in what hurt me + somehow still find people I actually feel aligned with. I also wonder if some of these patterns make sense through my chart, lik…
How can I attract genuinely aligned friendships? (my NN is in the 11th but I have a very hard time with it) — Hi! I’m very interested in the insights of this sub bc I’m not very experienced with astrology but even less with the whole sign system. Just right now while transferring my chart in whole sign notice…
Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…
Wife cheated after 7 years of long distance and 3 years of marriage — Met my now wife 10 years ago online. I live in Europe and she is from the US. We talk for a year and things start to get romantic. I visit her for the summer and we decide to start dating and go long …
Shrooms vs. LSD Explained by Experienced Tripper — **WARNING:** All information provided is based off of my subjective experience from my use of psychedelics over the years. Experiences will vary greatly, do not take this as factual or gospel. This is…
Why are koreans so class/status conscious? — \*\* here, 'koreans' mean korean-koreans or first gen korean immigrants, not korean americans who tend to be more chill in my experience. I'm a first gen immigrant. I'm posting it here in a hope to ge…
I figured out why my affirmations weren't working and most folks miss it. — For two years I did everything right. Access state, feeling it real, present tense, thinking from not of. My sessions felt good. Nothing moved. Then I found something in Murphy that nobody in this sp…
The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control. — I wrote part of the body of this post as a comment in another thread, but I see these comments very often anyway so I thought (voluntarily) that I would give a general objection to them here. The g…
Issues from anger stops me from building long-term connection — NOTICE: I'm sharing a ton of information, and self-assessment so expect this to be long I've come with alot of friendships from schools, outside, and many things that allows me to potentially have fr…
One Sentence Encheiridion (1-15) — I was rereading the Enchieridion and decided to try and summarize each passage in a single sentence. This was a fun activity, let me know if I should share more. 1. The only thing fully up to you are…
The reality regarding interracial dating for Asian men in the West — Hey everyone, Long-time lurker here. I was recently watching a RehabRoom video on youtube regarding whether or not height was the biggest disqualifier for ethnic men in American dating, where he p…
Five questions: my answers — Feel free to comment or share yours! 1. Who am I? This was an immediate answer. Being of light, beacon, lighthouse 2. Where and who was I before? Struggled with this one. Just got the impression of…
Breakup with fearful avoidant — So I just want to tell my story of how the breakup is and how I assume that the person who broke up with me is fearful avoidant after analysing what happened and what was going on. I want to get some …
Greys, an Ophanim, other beings, new personal knowledge, and an OBE — ​ I've long had interest in the phenomenon and seen a few UFOs. In late 2021 I started projecting intent for my own personal contact and proof, then in early 2022 I got my answer, and it was t…
“THE EARTH - A LIVING CREATURE!” This is the message of a brief video created from NASA satellite imagery. — I was a contact team coordinator for the CE-5 Initiative in Los Angeles from 1992 to 1998. “She is alive. She is awake and She loves us.” is the message that I received during of a kind of channel…
I (24F) feel so emotionally drained in my relationship with bf (28M) — I'll preface by saying I know this dynamic isn't uncommon. I know this argument typically happens but I need some real, actual advice on how to fix it. I am tired of having the same argument again and…
My theory on why Chinese restaurants have a bad/low end rep with most Americans (I’m not talking about Panda Express style takeout places) — So I saw a thread about why Chinese food has a bad rep in America. Here’s my theory… There seems to be some very high end Chinese restaurants like Hakkasan or more mass appeal Din Tai Fung like place…
My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. I'm still in love with her. — Quick backstory. My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. We broke up after being together for 4.5 years. We met on a dating app, I was 21 and she was 18. Everything clicked instan…
This is the first I'm seeing about the Backstage platform, it seems like it can do a lot, and is pretty extensible. Considering the tool belt seems to revolve around Typescript, it's giving me the imp…
Based on my impression of your post, you already know the answer and you're looking for a reason to keep it. Take the money, enjoy a vacation and start your next thing
I'm a neuroscientist and I know a conditioned puppy when I see one. I will continue to meet what I sense being 110% wrapped up in classical conditioning and subjective emotions with 110% mental clar…
Free will is a fundational lense through which we experiment the world. We have the impression of free will. We hold ourself and other responsible for their actions. It seems impossible to think the w…
I see your point, yeah. Thing is also despite all that tension we still discuss such topics (i.e. not seeing each other) politely (when she brings it up though), and I have an impression that she stil…
I only know what you share. You shared you have been dating two months and that’s it. How would I know that you knew him longer? No one here is a mind reader. If you don’t want someone to get the wron…
I have been in work situations where a lot of boundaries were crossed Indeed some people are really adept at being fruends in a work.setting Obviously this situation is bringing up flashbacks for …
I understand. I can relate to these feelings *a lot.* I understand not wanting to label someone you love as an abuser, I think it can prevent so many people from actually healing because… I mean I cou…
Am I (26M) being triggered by my anxious attachment with this guy I'm seeing (25M)? Hi everyone, I (26M) am struggling to separate reality from past trauma (a toxic avoidant ex) and need a rational a…
I've been dating to find casual sex partners for a while now, and I feel like I'm attracting men who want to get close to me, even though they know I'm not interested in a relationship. They say that …
I know deep down. Not talking for 6 days when we used to talk for hours every other day is wrong. I know her enought to say, she was doing to create more energy in the relationship. Playing games, pus…
Yeah, the thing about changing for other people is always interesting. I am always struck by how much more willing other people seem to be to change in order to stay close to others than I am. It’s so…
Is it me or is it kind of odd for someone to suggest about going on a trip together when you have not met in person for the first time on a date, but have FaceTimed? There was this one woman I was tal…
This is where I had a discussion with my therapist, and posted on Reddit before, before and everyone said I shouldn't have to worry about any of that. How I sit, maybe leaning forward or leaning back,…
I’m in the same boat with an alimony hearing coming up (she was the breadwinner). It has been really hard to keep myself from sabotaging myself because of that impression of confidence dismissive avoi…
The impression I get is that people who know they prefer solitude but try to force themselves to go through with conventional cohabitating are the ones who end up with Man Caves and She Sheds and I re…
Thought about going to a book club tonight but honestly I just don't have the energy to try. I really want to go but I don't think I am able to be my best self and don't want to leave a bad impression…
That must be so frustrating and exhausting! I'm sorry to hear it. I think a lot of people are just tired from dating. It feels like everyone is trying to protect themselves from rejection and disappo…
Date 3 with someone I'm excited about tonight; she wants to cook us dinner at her place. Too early tell what kind of staying power this has, but I do know I'm experiencing a kind of chemistry here tha…
I used to be like this. I used to think that if I did everything right, then people won't hurt or intimidate me. Turns out abusers just do that anyways regardless of if you're kind to them or not. H…
Alright, prepared to be downvoted potentially but really curious to hear other people's opinions. I (F 34) think I am changing how I approach asking men out on the apps. I tend to be the one inviting …
My guess is that if she's willing to do a second date on Valentine's Day, she doesn't see it as a massively important day. If it's nice enough she'll probably be happy. Did you get the impression tha…
I have wondered this too, however, any time he might have been showing signs of interest I have backed off, so I think he is of the impression that I am just not interested.
Grief is what happens when you lose something or somebody who you love, and it sounds to me like you’re trying to evade grief. Which makes sense, loss is terrifying and painful. At the same time, you …
Thank you! I was under the impression that it was a sneak peak so I got a little excited. May 2025 - September 2025 a lot of good things were happening (travel, discipline, and was very much in love).…
Thank you. Unfortunately I asked him if he would like to hang out some time this week, but he is very busy. His replies were pretty blunt and I got the impression he didn't want to discuss anything fu…
Went to a 30-50's valentines singles event over the weekend. It was pretty miserable if I'm being blunt. Talked to some other men there, but it wasn't really something I'm glad I bit the bullet on do…
Type is just what you find attractive and has no real impact beyond initial impression imo. Regardless of experience, all dating more does is help you determine compatibility or identify things you'd …
Isn’t it just so nice when they get you flowers? :) I dated a guy who purchased a really big and beautiful bouquet for my birthday. I didn’t even know he was planning to do that and I forgot I told …
I dramatically prefer long hair on men. It's basically the only thing that makes me look at a dude and go "oooh, pretty." I get the impression it's a minority of women that prefer it, but a) the mino…
OP, it’s your friend’s responsibility to set the boundary with you in regard to his relationship with the other woman. If the girlfriend is uncomfortable, that’s between him and her. She voiced her op…
So, a few first thoughts - none of this is meant to be accusatory or judgmental, but are my first reactions here, and I think kind of teasing out some unstated things could help. **First:** …
Girl, THANK YOU. It really bugs me how often I hear women struggling in a relationship where they wonder if the person they're with is into them, and everyone piles on excuses: well some people just c…
I didn’t get the impression he wants to see me again, he said nothing about it and the way he left doesn’t leave me with any confidence that he does. I really struggle with getting dates, and I’m no…
IMO an activity is a great date, although usually I tried to do that for a second date. The one time I thought an activity really worked best as a first date was when I was going on a date with someon…
Something with your first impression is really off. Are you meeting these people off the apps? Do you portray your profile accurately?
I told this guy that he compliments his ex too much. He's not black. I'm not black. She is a black woman with beautiful hair, apparently. Some beautiful woman that made him The Affair Partner three ye…
Fine. I’ll sacrifice my body for DoT. I’m also gonna bring a steel chair and a ladder. I’ll wait for everyone to enter the building. Then I’ll bring a little speaker with me and play the undertaker mu…
Since my last post about [diving into the world of matchmaking](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/s/g7AeBUgP7X), a few people have reached out privately to ask questions and for updates and I …
SMALL RANT & SEEKING ADVICE 4 years separated/divorced, I am very much still struggling with OLD. It’s the first I’ve been single as an adult and I only know how to be a wife, not a “potential girlfr…
Pisces rising 22*30’ Saturn in Aries 18*16’ Saturn rules my 11th & 12th house My natal Saturn is trine my midheaven, but that’s literally it I’m 27 (almost 28) and at a major career turning poin…
Aquarius rising, with Saturn in Pisces at 23°, ruling both my 1st and 12th houses. Saturn aspects include trine Pluto, square Mercury (retrograde), and sextile Neptune. **Early Life & Development**…
I’m Cap rising with Saturn in Pisces too 0° and really resonate with your life, relationship with money and navigating friendships (being the one always reciprocating, 1st impressions etc), even the t…
I think it kind of depends on the activity. I would maybe do mini golf - could be a laugh. a museum might be good if you're both into art/history and can whisper commentaries to each other to not dis…
Aspects to the Ascendant are definitely meaningful — the conjunction gets so much attention partly because it's fused into the body and immediate presence, but the other aspects still shape how that r…
Sigh... I'm stupid. Delusional even. I guess with my 33rd birthday fast approaching, I'm naturally in a morose state thinking about my utter lack of success with romance. And somehow mulling about mis…
It happens, I’ve double booked myself before, it’s just a bad look, and it takes work to undo a bad first impression. Last week I was supposed to meet someone after work at 3pm, I’m ready but still wa…
I like this guy I've been hooking up with, but I don't think he's emotionally available. It's only been a month and a very physical relationship. We've had very surface level conversations so far. I w…
It's not the sweat pants hoodie look though. It literally looked like she found random clothes and then put it on. That's why I made that comparison to college girls at a supermarket. First date, we …