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The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

> The sub doesn't let me post That's weird. There are auto-rules that limit TOP-LEVEL comments for posts tagged as "Seeking Personal Stoic Guidance". You have to be tagged as a "Contributor". I do…

r/Stoicismcomment11/25/2025
LOB training Q

LOB training Q — Why does moonlight in the LOB training section say we can’t do it as soon as we wake up? I thought this was, like before we go to sleep, a time when our subconscious mind is impressionable ?

r/JosephMurphypost12/5/2024
Meta won’t let you control impressions, so I trained an RL model to do it

Meta won’t let you control impressions, so I trained an RL model to do it — One thing that always annoys me with Meta campaigns: you can’t just say “give me X impressions.” It’s all budget-based, and if you’re trying to hit specific visibility goals (like consistent daily del…

r/digital_marketingpost4/30/2025
What could cause massive spikes in Impressions on Google Search Console?

What could cause massive spikes in Impressions on Google Search Console? — I am getting massive spikes once a week. From 4000 to 16,000 impressions. But clicks do not increase and these are lowering my CTR. We arent doing anything special on these days - no emails - no marke…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Anyone else noticed a drop in Search Console Clicks despite better rankings?

Anyone else noticed a drop in Search Console Clicks despite better rankings? — I've got three sites where the average position and impressions have improved considerably in the last month, but Search Console is showing less clicks. Obviously this is because the CTR is down, how…

r/SEOpost5/2/2025
How do you deal with the spam?

How do you deal with the spam? — I recently (4 weeks ago) started a shopify store in a niche market with my handmade products. Doing organic advertisement with product videos on tiktok, facebook, instagram and youtube. Generally spea…

r/Shopifypost5/3/2025
Help with my website

Help with my website — Hello friends, I could really use some help with my website. I provide content localization services, but my website does not rank well. I barely get any impressions, and even less clicks. [https://…

r/web_designpost5/4/2025
Help with my website

Help with my website — Hello friends, I could really use some help with my website. I provide content localization services, but my website does not rank well. I barely get any impressions, and even less clicks. [https://…

r/web_designpost5/4/2025
Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences?

Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences? — I haven’t been to many design-related conferences throughout my career, but I decided to give a CoCreate Conference a shot. I won’t go into the event organization here – just the speakers. From what I…

r/UXDesignpost5/5/2025
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads

using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Impressions dropped significantly. Can not figure out reason

Impressions dropped significantly. Can not figure out reason — I have very new site launched at start of feb. It is app content made available through site. When I launched my site I had almost 15k public pages ready as the content was from app now just available…

r/SEOpost5/6/2025
iThomas.dk - New site don't get traction?

iThomas.dk - New site don't get traction? — I launched my site on March 1st, but I’m still struggling to gain traction and would really appreciate a second pair of eyes. A quick check using site:ithomas.dk shows that most of my pages are index…

r/SEOpost5/6/2025
Do any of you find that search ads work better for your store than shopping?

Do any of you find that search ads work better for your store than shopping? — I just launched Google ads April 29. My shopping ads are getting lots of impressions but few clicks. Like 3.5k daily to 6-10 clicks with a budget of $15 and not spending it all. My search ads at $10 a…

r/ecommercepost5/6/2025
Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks!

Proud of my results as a non expert and want to share and say thanks! — I posted about my SEO efforts about 5 months ago and I had such a warm response from everyone that I kind of wanted to provide an update. I had both shared my results and asked for advice on next step…

r/SEOpost5/6/2025
Low search volume not eligible help

Low search volume not eligible help — Working with a family law firm and struggling with keyword ideas. ones they have come up with are not eligible due to low search volume on google ads. Examples: "Legal aid for non-accidental injury…

r/SEOpost5/7/2025
My impressions of Lovable 2.0

My impressions of Lovable 2.0 — # My impressions of Lovable 2.0 with key features and upgrades I always had mixed feelings about Lovable. But given the amount of attention Lovable 2.0 has received over the past few weeks, I decided…

r/UXDesignpost5/7/2025
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience]

Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…

r/Psychonautpost3/7/2026
We Interviewed Our Friends Annika & Tristan, And They Gave A Great Oak Impression For His Gracious Welcome To The Experiencer Community!

We Interviewed Our Friends Annika & Tristan, And They Gave A Great Oak Impression For His Gracious Welcome To The Experiencer Community! — **\[UPDATE: March 21\]** Thank you all for the support for Annika & Tristan in your responses! Several asked for more from them—**Part 2 is now live!**: [https://youtu.be/OMVygk\_FrtI](https://youtu…

r/experiencerspost3/11/2026
Having a pet and dating someone who uses Rogaine

Having a pet and dating someone who uses Rogaine — I recently started dating someone and I noticed he had a canister of Rogaine (Minoxidil) on his bathroom shelf. We had a talk yesterday and he confirmed that he uses it daily and has been for about 10…

r/datingoverfortypost3/15/2026
When the Disciples could not perform Miracles, they were not told to become Detached or to do somatic release work, they were told that they MUST Believe!

When the Disciples could not perform Miracles, they were not told to become Detached or to do somatic release work, they were told that they MUST Believe! — I had to share this as I have noticed in recent times a slurry of misinformation being shared on this subreddit. I see endless mentions now of the need to let go, the need to be constantly detached, t…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/17/2026
Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force

Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …

r/energy_workpost3/18/2026
I asked my T what she thinks about me, I wish I didn‘t

I asked my T what she thinks about me, I wish I didn‘t — Today I told my therapist that I‘m not sure how other people perceive me and that I would be interested in her honest impression. She said that this is purely her subjective experience but that I som…

r/therapypost3/19/2026
What if you’re the impression?

What if you’re the impression? — I posted here a while back asking whether the process of examining impressions ever gets in its own way. Whether progress looks like faster processing or less need to process at all. The responses hel…

r/Stoicismpost3/19/2026
Had my first tiny experience!

Had my first tiny experience! — Hi fellow dimensional travellers :D. Just wanted to share a small personal win here for personal and mutual encouragement. I've been practicing the first Gateway tape for a week or three, n…

r/gatewaytapespost3/20/2026
Do people eventually want marriage/long-term partnerships, or is it mostly just dating at our age?

Do people eventually want marriage/long-term partnerships, or is it mostly just dating at our age? — ​I'm a 42M, only a few months into my divorce. To be clear, I am by no means looking for a relationship right now. However, I've been lurking on this sub for a while because I knew my marriage was c…

r/datingoverfortypost3/22/2026
My Experience in Intro Focus 21 Odyssey Wave IV, Movement to Locale 2

My Experience in Intro Focus 21 Odyssey Wave IV, Movement to Locale 2 — Last night I was in a meditation session (Wave IV, Odyssey, Movement to Locale 2), and after the part where you’re guided to move toward and through the white light, I ended up somewhere that felt ver…

r/gatewaytapespost3/22/2026
I think my friendship with my best friend might be ending after her wedding and I don’t know how to handle it

I think my friendship with my best friend might be ending after her wedding and I don’t know how to handle it — I (29F) recently attended my best friend’s (29F) 10-day wedding, and what should’ve been a happy time has turned into something really confusing and honestly hurtful. We’ve been close for years (aro…

r/relationshipspost3/23/2026
How to move past fear of the unknown

How to move past fear of the unknown — Hi everyone! I’ve been experiencing a spiritual awakening which has led me to discover the tapes. I did a lot of research before trying it out for the first time and I’m currently on Advanced Focus …

r/gatewaytapespost3/24/2026
Encounters with NHI + Jesus?

Encounters with NHI + Jesus? — Hey guys, I had an experience that I want to share and want to know if anyone had a similar experience. I haven’t seen any posts about it after searching far and wide on this sub. I one night medita…

r/experiencerspost3/24/2026
inappropriate relationship with my therapist

inappropriate relationship with my therapist — okay so. i started seeing a therapist in december when i was 17 (im 18 as of january, and he was 50+) and a lot of the therapy we were doing was about my sex trauma, and he thought i had a sex addicti…

r/CPTSDpost3/25/2026
4:44

4:44 — Well. It's 4:44 and I found myself immediately awake again. I took the advice of another experiencer and I went outside and meditated. It's been ages since I've seen anything in the skies and I saw a …

r/experiencerspost3/26/2026
How to handle this stoically?

How to handle this stoically? — Hi everyone. I've been reading books about Stoicism for a couple of years now, plus, more importantly, I've read Marcus, Epictetus, and a decent chunk of Seneca. I feel like I've taken in a fair bit a…

r/Stoicismpost3/26/2026
What are the orbs?

What are the orbs? — I saw a pure white orb a while ago in my yard. It stopped and “looked” at me but I don’t know what its agenda or purpose was. Then it vanished. The encounter only lasted a few long seconds, but it ob…

r/experiencerspost3/26/2026
Tired of toxic connections.. can my birth chart help me finding the right people?

Tired of toxic connections.. can my birth chart help me finding the right people? — I’ve been trying to understand how to not stay stuck in what hurt me + somehow still find people I actually feel aligned with. I also wonder if some of these patterns make sense through my chart, lik…

r/AstrologyChartSharepost3/26/2026
How can I attract genuinely aligned friendships? (my NN is in the 11th but I have a very hard time with it)

How can I attract genuinely aligned friendships? (my NN is in the 11th but I have a very hard time with it) — Hi! I’m very interested in the insights of this sub bc I’m not very experienced with astrology but even less with the whole sign system. Just right now while transferring my chart in whole sign notice…

r/AskAstrologerspost3/26/2026
Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today...

Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…

r/energy_workpost3/27/2026
Wife cheated after 7 years of long distance and 3 years of marriage

Wife cheated after 7 years of long distance and 3 years of marriage — Met my now wife 10 years ago online. I live in Europe and she is from the US. We talk for a year and things start to get romantic. I visit her for the summer and we decide to start dating and go long …

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/27/2026
Shrooms vs. LSD Explained by Experienced Tripper

Shrooms vs. LSD Explained by Experienced Tripper — **WARNING:** All information provided is based off of my subjective experience from my use of psychedelics over the years. Experiences will vary greatly, do not take this as factual or gospel. This is…

r/Psychonautpost3/27/2026
Why are koreans so class/status conscious?

Why are koreans so class/status conscious? — \*\* here, 'koreans' mean korean-koreans or first gen korean immigrants, not korean americans who tend to be more chill in my experience. I'm a first gen immigrant. I'm posting it here in a hope to ge…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/28/2026
I figured out why my affirmations weren't working and most folks miss it.

I figured out why my affirmations weren't working and most folks miss it. — For two years I did everything right. Access state, feeling it real, present tense, thinking from not of. My sessions felt good. Nothing moved. Then I found something in Murphy that nobody in this sp…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/29/2026
The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control.

The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control. — I wrote part of the body of this post as a comment in another thread, but I see these comments very often anyway so I thought (voluntarily) that I would give a general objection to them here. The g…

r/Stoicismpost3/29/2026
Issues from anger stops me from building long-term connection

Issues from anger stops me from building long-term connection — NOTICE: I'm sharing a ton of information, and self-assessment so expect this to be long I've come with alot of friendships from schools, outside, and many things that allows me to potentially have fr…

r/selfhelppost3/30/2026
One Sentence Encheiridion (1-15)

One Sentence Encheiridion (1-15) — I was rereading the Enchieridion and decided to try and summarize each passage in a single sentence. This was a fun activity, let me know if I should share more. 1. The only thing fully up to you are…

r/Stoicismpost3/31/2026
The reality regarding interracial dating for Asian men in the West

The reality regarding interracial dating for Asian men in the West — Hey everyone, Long-time lurker here. I was recently watching a RehabRoom video on youtube regarding whether or not height was the biggest disqualifier for ethnic men in American dating, where he p…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/31/2026
Five questions: my answers

Five questions: my answers — Feel free to comment or share yours! 1. Who am I? This was an immediate answer. Being of light, beacon, lighthouse 2. Where and who was I before? Struggled with this one. Just got the impression of…

r/gatewaytapespost3/31/2026
Breakup with fearful avoidant

Breakup with fearful avoidant — So I just want to tell my story of how the breakup is and how I assume that the person who broke up with me is fearful avoidant after analysing what happened and what was going on. I want to get some …

r/BreakUpspost4/1/2026
Greys, an Ophanim, other beings, new personal knowledge, and an OBE

Greys, an Ophanim, other beings, new personal knowledge, and an OBE — ​ I've long had interest in the phenomenon and seen a few UFOs. In late 2021 I started projecting intent for my own personal contact and proof, then in early 2022 I got my answer, and it was t…

r/experiencerspost4/1/2026
“THE EARTH - A LIVING CREATURE!” This is the message of a brief video created from NASA satellite imagery.

“THE EARTH - A LIVING CREATURE!” This is the message of a brief video created from NASA satellite imagery. — I was a contact team coordinator for the CE-5 Initiative in Los Angeles from 1992 to 1998. “She is alive. She is awake and She loves us.” is the message that I received during of a kind of channel…

r/experiencerspost4/1/2026
I (24F) feel so emotionally drained in my relationship with bf (28M)

I (24F) feel so emotionally drained in my relationship with bf (28M) — I'll preface by saying I know this dynamic isn't uncommon. I know this argument typically happens but I need some real, actual advice on how to fix it. I am tired of having the same argument again and…

r/relationshipspost4/1/2026
My theory on why Chinese restaurants have a bad/low end rep with most Americans (I’m not talking about Panda Express style takeout places)

My theory on why Chinese restaurants have a bad/low end rep with most Americans (I’m not talking about Panda Express style takeout places) — So I saw a thread about why Chinese food has a bad rep in America. Here’s my theory… There seems to be some very high end Chinese restaurants like Hakkasan or more mass appeal Din Tai Fung like place…

r/AsianAmericanpost4/2/2026
My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. I'm still in love with her.

My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. I'm still in love with her. — Quick backstory. My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. We broke up after being together for 4.5 years. We met on a dating app, I was 21 and she was 18. Everything clicked instan…

r/relationshipspost4/2/2026
Backstage feels like a fools errand

This is the first I'm seeing about the Backstage platform, it seems like it can do a lot, and is pretty extensible. Considering the tool belt seems to revolve around Typescript, it's giving me the imp…

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
Should I sell my design agency?

Based on my impression of your post, you already know the answer and you're looking for a reason to keep it. Take the money, enjoy a vacation and start your next thing

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Turns out I needed a "middleman" to have a successful relationship with a DA

I'm a neuroscientist and I know a conditioned puppy when I see one. I will continue to meet what I sense being 110% wrapped up in classical conditioning and subjective emotions with 110% mental clar…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/15/2025
Attachment Theory & Free Will?

Free will is a fundational lense through which we experiment the world. We have the impression of free will. We hold ourself and other responsible for their actions. It seems impossible to think the w…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/3/2025
How much space do DA avoidants need when deactivating?

I see your point, yeah. Thing is also despite all that tension we still discuss such topics (i.e. not seeing each other) politely (when she brings it up though), and I have an impression that she stil…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/9/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I only know what you share. You shared you have been dating two months and that’s it. How would I know that you knew him longer? No one here is a mind reader. If you don’t want someone to get the wron…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/5/2025
Physically Reacting to Jealousy

I have been in work situations where a lot of boundaries were crossed Indeed some people are really adept at being fruends in a work.setting Obviously this situation is bringing up flashbacks for …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/14/2025
Do fearful avoidants "split" or "idealise" and then "devalue" when triggered? Or is it more likely to be a sign of something else? (Eg BPD/NPD?)

I understand. I can relate to these feelings *a lot.* I understand not wanting to label someone you love as an abuser, I think it can prevent so many people from actually healing because… I mean I cou…

r/attachment_theorycomment11/16/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Am I (26M) being triggered by my anxious attachment with this guy I'm seeing (25M)? Hi everyone, I (26M) am struggling to separate reality from past trauma (a toxic avoidant ex) and need a rational a…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/9/2025
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

I've been dating to find casual sex partners for a while now, and I feel like I'm attracting men who want to get close to me, even though they know I'm not interested in a relationship. They say that …

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/7/2026
So tired of constantly feeling anxious and worried

I know deep down. Not talking for 6 days when we used to talk for hours every other day is wrong. I know her enought to say, she was doing to create more energy in the relationship. Playing games, pus…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/20/2026
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

Yeah, the thing about changing for other people is always interesting. I am always struck by how much more willing other people seem to be to change in order to stay close to others than I am. It’s so…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/22/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Is it me or is it kind of odd for someone to suggest about going on a trip together when you have not met in person for the first time on a date, but have FaceTimed? There was this one woman I was tal…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

This is where I had a discussion with my therapist, and posted on Reddit before, before and everyone said I shouldn't have to worry about any of that. How I sit, maybe leaning forward or leaning back,…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
We live in a culture that glorifies self-sufficiency and punishes inter-dependence and needs. That impacts what we start labelling as anxious attachment, and how we are encouraged to heal.

I’m in the same boat with an alimony hearing coming up (she was the breadwinner). It has been really hard to keep myself from sabotaging myself because of that impression of confidence dismissive avoi…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/10/2026
Please help my friend and I decide if we're unreasonable. How much time do you spend with your partner or spouse and if you live separately or together.

The impression I get is that people who know they prefer solitude but try to force themselves to go through with conventional cohabitating are the ones who end up with Man Caves and She Sheds and I re…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Thought about going to a book club tonight but honestly I just don't have the energy to try. I really want to go but I don't think I am able to be my best self and don't want to leave a bad impression…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

That must be so frustrating and exhausting! I'm sorry to hear it. I think a lot of people are just tired from dating. It feels like everyone is trying to protect themselves from rejection and disappo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Date 3 with someone I'm excited about tonight; she wants to cook us dinner at her place. Too early tell what kind of staying power this has, but I do know I'm experiencing a kind of chemistry here tha…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/11/2026
Can I get some assurance from reformed people pleasers 🥲?

I used to be like this. I used to think that if I did everything right, then people won't hurt or intimidate me. Turns out abusers just do that anyways regardless of if you're kind to them or not. H…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Alright, prepared to be downvoted potentially but really curious to hear other people's opinions. I (F 34) think I am changing how I approach asking men out on the apps. I tend to be the one inviting …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

My guess is that if she's willing to do a second date on Valentine's Day, she doesn't see it as a massively important day. If it's nice enough she'll probably be happy. Did you get the impression tha…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
32(F) really need advice about feelings for friend

I have wondered this too, however, any time he might have been showing signs of interest I have backed off, so I think he is of the impression that I am just not interested.

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/15/2026
Tired of my own inability to connect

Grief is what happens when you lose something or somebody who you love, and it sounds to me like you’re trying to evade grief. Which makes sense, loss is terrifying and painful. At the same time, you …

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/15/2026
SATURN RETURN & TRANSITING SATURN/NEPTUNE IN ARIES POSTS PROBLEMS

Thank you! I was under the impression that it was a sneak peak so I got a little excited. May 2025 - September 2025 a lot of good things were happening (travel, discipline, and was very much in love).…

r/AskAstrologerscomment2/16/2026
32(F) really need advice about feelings for friend

Thank you. Unfortunately I asked him if he would like to hang out some time this week, but he is very busy. His replies were pretty blunt and I got the impression he didn't want to discuss anything fu…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/16/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Went to a 30-50's valentines singles event over the weekend. It was pretty miserable if I'm being blunt. Talked to some other men there, but it wasn't really something I'm glad I bit the bullet on do…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/17/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Type is just what you find attractive and has no real impact beyond initial impression imo. Regardless of experience, all dating more does is help you determine compatibility or identify things you'd …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/17/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Isn’t it just so nice when they get you flowers? :) I dated a guy who purchased a really big and beautiful bouquet for my birthday. I didn’t even know he was planning to do that and I forgot I told …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I dramatically prefer long hair on men. It's basically the only thing that makes me look at a dude and go "oooh, pretty." I get the impression it's a minority of women that prefer it, but a) the mino…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Is this an emotional affair?

OP, it’s your friend’s responsibility to set the boundary with you in regard to his relationship with the other woman. If the girlfriend is uncomfortable, that’s between him and her. She voiced her op…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Is "good on paper" a thing for guys our age?

So, a few first thoughts - none of this is meant to be accusatory or judgmental, but are my first reactions here, and I think kind of teasing out some unstated things could help. **First:** …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Is "good on paper" a thing for guys our age?

Girl, THANK YOU. It really bugs me how often I hear women struggling in a relationship where they wonder if the person they're with is into them, and everyone piles on excuses: well some people just c…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I didn’t get the impression he wants to see me again, he said nothing about it and the way he left doesn’t leave me with any confidence that he does. I really struggle with getting dates, and I’m no…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

IMO an activity is a great date, although usually I tried to do that for a second date. The one time I thought an activity really worked best as a first date was when I was going on a date with someon…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

Something with your first impression is really off. Are you meeting these people off the apps? Do you portray your profile accurately?

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

I told this guy that he compliments his ex too much. He's not black. I'm not black. She is a black woman with beautiful hair, apparently. Some beautiful woman that made him The Affair Partner three ye…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 24, 2026

Fine. I’ll sacrifice my body for DoT. I’m also gonna bring a steel chair and a ladder. I’ll wait for everyone to enter the building. Then I’ll bring a little speaker with me and play the undertaker mu…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026

Since my last post about [diving into the world of matchmaking](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/s/g7AeBUgP7X), a few people have reached out privately to ask questions and for updates and I …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/25/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 26, 2026

SMALL RANT & SEEKING ADVICE 4 years separated/divorced, I am very much still struggling with OLD. It’s the first I’ve been single as an adult and I only know how to be a wife, not a “potential girlfr…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
NATAL SATURN SERIES: IN THE 2ND HOUSE

⁠Pisces rising 22*30’ Saturn in Aries 18*16’ Saturn rules my 11th & 12th house My natal Saturn is trine my midheaven, but that’s literally it I’m 27 (almost 28) and at a major career turning poin…

r/astrologycomment2/26/2026
NATAL SATURN SERIES: IN THE 2ND HOUSE

Aquarius rising, with Saturn in Pisces at 23°, ruling both my 1st and 12th houses. Saturn aspects include trine Pluto, square Mercury (retrograde), and sextile Neptune. **Early Life & Development**…

r/astrologycomment2/26/2026
NATAL SATURN SERIES: IN THE 2ND HOUSE

I’m Cap rising with Saturn in Pisces too 0° and really resonate with your life, relationship with money and navigating friendships (being the one always reciprocating, 1st impressions etc), even the t…

r/astrologycomment2/27/2026
What's your experience been with an activity on a first date ?

I think it kind of depends on the activity. I would maybe do mini golf - could be a laugh. a museum might be good if you're both into art/history and can whisper commentaries to each other to not dis…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/27/2026
Are aspects to the Ascendant (trines, sextiles, oppositions etc) important to look at when analysing a chart? How do they affect the Ascendant?

Aspects to the Ascendant are definitely meaningful — the conjunction gets so much attention partly because it's fused into the body and immediate presence, but the other aspects still shape how that r…

r/astrologycomment3/1/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 02, 2026

Sigh... I'm stupid. Delusional even. I guess with my 33rd birthday fast approaching, I'm naturally in a morose state thinking about my utter lack of success with romance. And somehow mulling about mis…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

It happens, I’ve double booked myself before, it’s just a bad look, and it takes work to undo a bad first impression. Last week I was supposed to meet someone after work at 3pm, I’m ready but still wa…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

I like this guy I've been hooking up with, but I don't think he's emotionally available. It's only been a month and a very physical relationship. We've had very surface level conversations so far. I w…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

It's not the sweat pants hoodie look though. It literally looked like she found random clothes and then put it on. That's why I made that comparison to college girls at a supermarket. First date, we …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/4/2026