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Cannabis during meditation?

I'm an aspiring (or failed, depending how you look at it) writer who smokes all the time. Whenever I think of something 'clever' when I'm stoned, I write it in my little idea book thinking "this is th…

r/Meditationcomment4/4/2026
🛑STOP HIJACKING POSTS🛑

🛑STOP HIJACKING POSTS🛑 — 📣Saying it loudly for the people in the back. I know this post is going to have a “vibe” but being warm and fuzzy has never worked so I’m trying to be crystal clear and firm here: Recently there h…

r/AvoidantAttachmentpost6/11/2025
They had Easter without me...

They had Easter without me... — they didn't even invite me. they even had a dog there. which my parents have never allowed in the house, but they would rather have a dog in the house than me. this is the one year anniversary of …

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/5/2026
Unique Potential Divorce Situation

Unique Potential Divorce Situation — I actually can't believe I am typing this post out. Something I never thought I'd ever do. My wife and I are in what I would think is a very unique situation that I don't think a large percentage of t…

r/Divorcepost4/7/2026
I like when there’s tension in my home

I like when there’s tension in my home — This sound weird, but All my life, I was used to unstable environments. I was used to my mom coming home angry every day. I was used to my parents fighting every day. The only thing that was stable wa…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/10/2026
How do you hide it when you don't care?

How do you hide it when you don't care? — 18F with AuDHD I've always had an issue where its obvious to everyone when i don't care about something. be it a problem, random person, old project, whatever. People always notice by my body languag…

r/CPTSDpost4/12/2026
Is my (29 F) BF's (31 M) Witching Hour Sex-Pest Alter Ego Something Worth Tolerating?

Is my (29 F) BF's (31 M) Witching Hour Sex-Pest Alter Ego Something Worth Tolerating? — BF (31 M) and I (29 F) have been dating 5 years. We have normal sex during the daytime at least once a week. However, he also often wakes me up for sex in the literal middle of the night when I'…

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
Before you make that post about some avoidant ex ask yourself……..

This is the one. I'd also add that attachment doesn't just stop at partners — it's also at play at work, friendships, family relationships/siblings, and even children. It's really fucking hard to be …

r/attachment_theorycomment3/24/2025
🛑STOP HIJACKING POSTS🛑

It’s not even just here. I have to hear people trashing avoidants in a lot of other subs. This is the one safe place I have about this topic online. Thanks for keeping it safe ❤️

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment6/13/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

As Whosedev said, I hope this isn't a habit. I much rather get insulted right in my face, appearance and all, and be told to piss off, than be ghosted out of nowhere. Out of everything about modern …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/12/2026
Are these early signs of narcissism?

> absolutely match everything I say (he likes the music that I like, travelled where I travelled but if I ask precisely what he likes and where hes been, he can’t answer etc.) This is the one I fell…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/8/2026
Eat, Pray, Love for white men

lol out of all the things you could say, this is the one you landed on? How do we go from mere disagreements to talking about war crimes lmao. Like there has to be a better way to discuss these things…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/8/2026
Media fear-mongering or truth?

This is the one thing I know that fits what you’re asking… https://www.tiktok.com/@mrballen/video/7605321573129669901 Aside from that though, I’ve never heard anything else overly bad with psychedeli…

r/Psychonautcomment3/8/2026
[Prove Me Wrong] Bruce Lee was the last English speaking Asian that represented us well

This may be a hot take but you can’t pick and choose representation. Kpop might seem feminine to you but it’s someone’s style, likewise Bruce Lee embodies someone else’s style and represents them. The…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/10/2026
Nmom wants an invite to my wedding or she is going to divorce my dad

this is it! this is the one! this comment is practically RBN gospel; sees right through the bullshit, and perfectly sums up the underlying motivations mad respect to homie hollowfollows ✊🏼

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/11/2026
r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/14/2026
***I m 40+ F.. Never married, no kids.

As long as I don't have to express the anal glands, This is the one. I want this this one Lord, where do I sign the adoption papers?

r/datingoverfortycomment3/14/2026
Which one trait helps you detect narcs early on?

This is the one. Everyone would always tell me how sweet my ex was. Meanwhile he was telling me he wished he could kill his daughter’s mother.

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/16/2026
I was in Barbados… Well actually it was Turks and Caicos but close enough!

This is the one I use https://youtu.be/KcU6w1Pr5gc?si=Q8vvE8XyS2Xnd1dk 

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/17/2026
Caught wife with her best friend (F)

I have an idea about it, its a fairly straightforward description where the truth comes out slowly over time to help "insulate" the offending party from ownership, blame, and in some cases shame. Fr…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/18/2026
unpopular opinion: therapy isn't worth $200/session

I think the mainstream popularity of therapy has has led to some serious misinterpretations around what therapy is and what to expect. 1) Therapy is not a “cure,” it’s a tool. It will teach you stra…

r/therapycomment3/20/2026
Failure & The Power of Awareness

https://preview.redd.it/pqgx79h8cerg1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=deb4f869a58be779d83fde57be93614fb0cd8f29 This is the one I have. It’s manufactured by Amazon. Just a heads up, it is just…

r/nevillegoddardcomment3/26/2026
What’s a behavior or reaction you’ve had that you later realized was actually a trauma response, even though you didn’t recognize it at the time?

Ohhh man this is the one. The very mention that something was wrong with my childhood or with the way my father has treated me as an adult sent him into a tailspin every time. Fragile ego, that one. H…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/28/2026
Whats the most hurtful thing a parent/caretaker has said to you?

Yup. This is the one right here for me too. She said a lot of foul stuff to me, but in 2024 when she said that to me and also said it to my sister about me, that was when I knew for sure that when I l…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/28/2026
Something about manifestation that most people get wrong (probably you do too)

You know what, I actually really appreciate this perspective. It takes genuine critical thinking to push back on something so widely accepted, and I respect that. But I want to offer a few things that…

r/Manifestationcomment3/31/2026
Husband (45M) Jealous of Stepchild (16F)

This is the one to listen to, OP.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
Female dumpers, have you ever regretted leaving someone?

It’s been 3 weeks. I don’t regret it at all. The relationship was abusive. I tried to talk to him, tried to warn him. He’d promise to change, then he’d repeat his actions. I eventually got fed up of b…

r/BreakUpscomment4/3/2026
How can I maximize my soul energy?

I love that you’re thinking about this at 19, because most people don’t realize this until they’re already burned out. I’m going to give you a reframe that will actually change how you approach this:…

r/energy_workcomment4/3/2026
How can I work toward something without feeling bad about it?

It seems like very natural tension you're dealing with, trying to reach certain goals but also seeing that there are tradeoffs. So at a general level, yes that's just 'part of life'. The way you pr…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/3/2026
r/lawofattractioncomment4/3/2026
Conflict about 3rd kid after an affair (36M/36F)

You can’t keep playing that card now that you’ve decided, knowing full well who she is and what she did, to have unprotected sex with her. You had a lot of choices after her affair came out, and this …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
I (31M) am currently in a sexless marriage with my wife (33F). Wwyd?

Going to preface this by saying that I am very much monogamous, and wouldn't usually recommend anything like this. I just want to share the story of an acquaintance, whose husband - like your wife - d…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
Umm... Your thoughts on this?

I don't believe anyone who is posting anywhere I can see it actually shifted, because how awful was their other reality if this is the one they chose? If I shifted, I certainly wouldn't still be in th…

r/realityshiftingcomment4/7/2026
Were we all always 'liars'?

I would have my father ask where one of his tools went (this is the one I can think of quickly, but the same thing happened a lot for multiple things). I would be honest and say I didn't know. Why wou…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
Will shrooms help heal my brain from past addiction

👾 I had trouble finding decaffeinated coffee fruit extract before! This is the one i currently get: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B09CLM32PL (NEURIVA Original Decaffeinated) For lion’s mane it’s i…

r/Psychonautcomment4/9/2026
Did your parents’ need for control manifest itself in medical issues as well? Like, convinced she knows more than doctors, or always assuming the worst when it’s how you’re managing your own kids’ medical issues?

I've mentioned on another post that I'm convinced my narcs don't believe I can have problems that are serious enough to take care of (ie they want me to ignore things) but also mild enough that I can …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/9/2026
No one warns you that childhood trauma doesn’t end, it just waits until your 30s to finally surface

Ive never done this but if I ever had health issues like that again I'd go for Somatic Experiencing - its a method developed by Dr. Peter Levine to help release trauma that is physically stuck in your…

r/CPTSDcomment4/11/2026