intercourse

Obviously there are no apple-to-apple alternatives. Sorry. But hear me out. I totally relate with having an alive and kicking sex drive during and after my divorce process... just not for my ex. And…

DA’s - Do You Know When You’re Deactivating? — When you’re deactivating, do you know that’s what’s happening? If you were unaware of your attachment style or attachment theory, would you still have a sense of what’s going on? Had some intimacy …

Questioning ending a long term relationship — I (25F) am starting to question ending a long term relationship with my boyfriend (26M). We have been together since December of 2019, so about 6.5 years.  To give some background, I moved across the…

Thinking about my ex constantly — ​ I haven't stopped thinking about my ex since we've broken up. I've been with my ex from the end of February to half of August last year. Since then, she's been on my mind almost non-stop. I …

Should I stop waiting for my ex? — TLDR: I want to get back together and I still love him and he says he still loves me but he‘s too afraid to risk breaking up again. Should I still wait? I broke up w my bf about a month ago. We were…

Advice with my parents in the past — I don’t know if this counts as emotional neglect or bad parenting so lmk. Pretty much I’ve been dreading coming back home from college to a point I’m staying on campus for summer. I’m nearly 19 and…

why are asian parents like this — ​ Me (filipino 20M) and my gf (italian 21M) we've been together for almost 3 years. We were both born and raised in Italy, and living in two different cities. We had some ups and downs during …

Someone I saw a future with shattered my view of relationships for the rest of my life. — I no longer can see relationships the same and I used to find myself resentful of woman sometimes(I know not every woman is a cheater or a liar but it builds up and need to find someone to blame). T…

Me 21m and my girlfriend of 4 years 21F have had no issues with intercourse before but now i feel like im not wanted my her? — I have been questioning myself about intercourse with her because nothing has happened in a long time. it used to be a very often thing in our relationship but now i don’t feel wanted. we have talked …

My f20 gf f20 stop talking about her interest and it pisses me off — Hello I 20f and my gf 20f have been together for about a month. We haven’t known each other for too long, and while it’s super unusual for me to get into a relationship with someone I’m not friends wi…

My parents trapped me. I’m not allowed to date or leave and they threatened to kill me — (F30) I have two narcissistic, controlling parents and I feel completely trapped. I’m the scapegoat in my family. I can’t date, have a relationship, or move out until I get married but I also can’t ch…

My parents trapped me. I’m not allowed to date or leave and they threatened to kill me — (F30) I have two narcissistic, controlling parents and I feel completely trapped. I’m the scapegoat in my family. I can’t date, have a relationship, or move out until I get married but I also can’t ch…

AITAH for being mad at my ex for lying about their sexual activity? — So when my ex (30F) and I (32M) were dating, I made it clear that I can feel quite anxious when it comes to sex - for context, I’m neurodivergent (so is she) and I also have OCD. I made it clear that …

Am I justified in feeling mad / violated with my ex lying about her sexual activity / STI status? — So when my ex (30F) and I (32M) were dating, I made it clear that I can feel quite anxious when it comes to sex - for context, I’m neurodivergent (so is she) and I also have OCD. I made it clear that …

My girlfriend (24F) is very sensitive and I (25M) find it's starting to get hard to be handled. How do I do this? — As for starters I don't want to make myself look ignorant or careless towards woman, as if I know and totally aware that they have their own struggles and world to live in. As a man I understand that …

Feeling stressed after a dream sexual encounter with a reptilian being — ok, so i want to preface this story by saying this is all quite embarrassing to me, and i chose this subreddit to post in because people seem genuinely open minded and helpful. to begin, i have been …

Has Anyone Else Struggled With Understanding What Child Sexual Abuse Is? — I've seen a couple of posts on here with people questioning whether they had actually been sexually abused or not. This really stands out to me because I also struggled with this growing up. In my opi…

3 out of 5 people carry hsv2. It is considered more of a skin thing that happens on different areas of the body depending on 1 vs 2, than it is an STI and this is why standard STI panels don’t include…

Very similar to my situation. My husband had an emotional affair with a workout partner at the gym. When I found out, they were secretly spending time together outside of the gym I made him swear on h…

What’s was eating her alive is the true extent of the wine meetup of which you got a sanitized story. What you know already for sure is a fully developed romantic/sexual relationship psychologically. …

Oh, and the part of our morality made me chuckle because my husband told me the same thing. He told me they did not have intercourse because the affair partner was a Christian and couldn’t bring herse…

Here’s my understanding of it based on being an energy worker, healer, and psychic. I have years of exp experience working in men’s sexual energy. When a man masturbates and ejaculates to pornograph…

I’m a little confused why are you giving him oral and why isn’t he giving you or why aren’t you both having orgasms with oral sex? Isn’t he trying to please? You physically with oral sex? There’s othe…

A decent prospective BF/GF can discuss sex and expectations/boundaries without it being awkward, and will try to put your needs first. So OP is happy to give oral--which: good--but you can't ask for…

She was *on the floor.* Gravity would have 100% put a stop to the intercourse before he would have even realized she was unconscious. There is no explanation that supports any supposed rape. We agr…

I haven't read the original post since it has been taken down. But to answer just your question only, firstly, please stop comparing consent with metaphors of buying objects it doesn't work like that.…

It is a huge problem and it’s even worse when you get to know somebody and like them and then suddenly the sex is gonna be horrible. I found it more common than not. I had to lower my ages of dating m…

Sorry for asking but it's just to understand how you possibly set yourself in this situation moving forward. When you joined them, in that brief time did you actually engaged with her Best friend and…

Let me tell you a little story about information and relationships. About 100 years ago, I was engaged to my absolute first love (me 21 / her 20). She either cheated ( my definition) or was just hor…

Holy shit. She's so insecure that she's worried you were attracted to the woman's body that SA'd you? She's probably thinking you had to be aroused to have intercourse. Teenage guys get aroused from…

If she doesn’t shower(& you know she doesn’t shower), what made you think “I’m going to put my face down there by that unwashed ass” and then expect it not to stink. Put some boundaries up, tell her y…

It’s clear to me she had an emotional and physical affair with this coworker. The level of disrespect for her to have you call her affair partner so he can also lie to you is astonishing to me. She do…

First of all, I'm sorry this happened to you. Form someone who dealt with infidelity with his first girlfriend, you reacted pretty average. Chances are she already did "something". Maybe not full on …

Poor guy is taking it up the ass but he isn’t having regular intercourse.

Oof. Let’s get a few things cleared up here. The morning after pill does nothing for someone already pregnant. It works for up to 5 days after **intercourse** NOT insemination. It works by ***preven…

Please use every single form of protection if you engage in intercourse, better yet, just abstain entirely. If she's willing to break your trust on this, and her parents can casually mention your weal…

Thanks for your input. Over the counter lidocaine (4%) has legitimate uses for disorders and pain for both penises and vaginas. The "numbing" effect is mild since the point is to enjoy intercourse and…

Well you can "fix" lax vaginas with Kegal exercises, but I don't think that's the problem here. I would talk to him about his masturbation habits if I were you. Does he masturbate? I'm guessing that…

…absolutely. Remember that’s the reason Marie Antoinette and her hubs didn’t have children right away. He had phimosis which made intercourse very painful. BF could have it as well, to a lesser degree…

Let's look at it in a factual, scientific sense. Has your vagina, A) "loosened" up permanently due to repeat sexual intercourse despite this being a 100% myth and you only "loosen" up when aroused o…

The vaginal canal is designed to birth babies and then go back to just the right size for pleasurable intercourse. She’s not the problem.

Wait he was 26 when you were just out of high school? Ew. Also, most women don’t reach orgasm from vaginal intercourse. The clitoris is our sex organ, not the birth canal. You need (good) clitoral sti…

No. She sounds like a woman with strong boundaries who doesn’t tolerate men’s bullshit. You lot sound like you still try to shame women into have unwanted intercourse. She can say no and find sexual j…

Just enjoy things while they last- you are both mature adults, have discussed the fact that you both travel soon, and have reasonabke expectations about this little relationship. She may be a virgin …

It’s impossible. If you have just one sex, you will be addicted. Just say no to intercourse

These conversations are hard, but they definitely don’t get easier with time. People tend to stay in their lane once established and change becomes more difficult. I’d suggest a conversation that i…

I have some short experience in BDSM, so take it from me. Especially because it's more rough , it's even more important to follow the rules and know when to stop. I am honestly shocked with your situa…

The best ritual or practice for getting pregnant is intercourse. Try that.

I kinda live this until it clicked. For dudes reading, you have to take care of your partners needs too. It's just being considerate. You can get off but make sure it's not just a one-sided event. Pe…

Tried to get pregnant for many years. Didn't. Pictured myself heavy pregnant during intercourse. Pregnant in 4 weeks. However, things that worked for others may not work for you.

In fact, I never believed I had a mental problem. They say it was a granuloma in my brain due to a stroke. However, no one is sure if it appeared before that crisis I had, meaning it's possible it was…

A quote was found to be attributed to Epictetus in Discourses 4.2 (Oldfather) ^(4.2. Of social intercourse ()[^(Oldfather)](https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Epictetus,_the_Discourses_as_reported_by_Arr…

If he truly wants to make things better for you, then maybe start not letting things happen till you finish? My wife has a hard time getting over the edge, so we don't even try having intercourse unti…

First, I’m sorry this is your situation. It’s hard when someone you care about doesn’t make any effort to do what makes you happy. It really and truly sucks especially if it’s not everything in the re…

COUPLES THERAPY AND SEX THERAPY. Not one or the other, BOTH. Mandatory. The next time you want to be intimate, do not allow intercourse until and only until you’ve been satisfied. Stop giving him what…

Tell him he only gets intercourse if you orgasm first.

Death grip" (or DGS) is when a man's aggressive masturbation techniques reduce penis sensitivity, often causing him to feel that sexual intercourse is too loose or not stimulating enough. This is a p…

My hubby isn’t big on oral either and I require clitoral stimulation to get off as well. After many years of sex where only he got off, I started using a bullet (small vibrating toy) while we have int…

Medications like SSRIs are used a lot for this issue and work pretty well. There are sex therapy techniques for desensitization tools In general both of you guys are worth seeing seeing a urologist a…

I lost my virginity young and I personally regret it. Why? Because 14, to 15 years old is way too young to understand the weight of intercourse. And even though I was somewhat smart enough to wrap i…

The reason why I view stealthing as bad/evil is because it is sexual intercourse between two people in a context that one did not agree to. Similarly, if someone cheats, when they go home to their p…

If this happens specifically during intercourse then make an appointment with the doctor, there could be a medical reason for this effect. Once that has been eliminated then you can consider other rea…

this is the reason for dating. it is about making sure you connect with the person mentally and emotionally before you get sexual with them, because once you have intercourse, your souls tie together.…

If you mention having intercourse to her again this post moves to AITAH.  Fool around with her. Figure out how to do absolutely everything except penetrative sex. Tell her you want that and that you …

Im posting this on a throwaway because my (previous) partner knows my main). My partner cheated on me about half a year ago, and told me a few days ago. I immediately broke up/went on a break, and th…

When I was 16 I got hair dye on my new t-shirt. I had only worn it a few times. It was black so I thought it’d be fine but it had a white design on the front and a dropped a whole splat of purple on i…

I get this sensation from intercourse with smaller penis'. I hated penetration with my ex husband, id just do it for him after he took care of me in other ways. I thought it was just the way I was unt…