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From what I am reading above - it seems much too early to give up. You have most things going for you that are needed to make it work: Experience/skill and readiness to work for "normal" rates and no…
Why is it so hard for people to do something this simple? — I’ve been trying something small recently. I started a notebook that gets passed from person to person. Each person writes one honest line about themselves and then passes it on. That’s it. No pr…
I feel stuck — Hey hey, Im 25m, autistic and have experienced trauma my whole life. I struggle greatly with appreciating the amount of work and success I have achieved in the past, to still keep on going. Every li…
Daughter Refused a Medical Proceedure Due To Fear Of Needle... — So my daughter (14) has just refused treatment on an ingrowing toenail due to needing a local anaesthetic injection - she'd been getting increasingly anxious at the prospect; got all the way to the ap…
At first there are signs, then with practice you just know. The signs vary from person to person can occur during a session and not occur during the next. So the only way to know is to do your researc…
Yes it's few. Can take months, but a change or at the very least some thoughts of thinking from the desire will be noticed within 2 - 3 weeks, IF you are doing the technique correctly. And they may ev…
Yeah hypervigilance is very much an AA thing. Not just AA, I think, but anxiety or anxiety disorders in general. The thing about auto capitalisation is definitely a form of hypervigilance. There are m…
I feel like my experience speaks to both these perspectives. I’ll chat and people will disappear and it’s so strange to me to make such an effort and not see it through. But someone’s I’m the one who …
I am very dedicated to a hobby that takes 3-5 hours of my time 3-5 days a week with occasional breaks for a month or two. (Live theatre. It can be a lot but it's what keeps me going.) I've always said…
After about 30 years, I always wonder how much someone’s felt shift toward their Sun sign or Rising sign is also being shaped by progressions, because secondary progressions can literally move those i…
My ex was deep on Kratom powder. It was addictive, but it helped with intense back pain associated with scoliosis. The addiction was worse than the effects for her. Just changes from person to pers…
Active suppression is unlikely to be effective, as is strong desire for something not to arise; both are craving and aversion which are the underlying fuel of any sankharas. Long term abstention work…
I'm only 29, so I typically only lurk since I'm not 40+ but I'm definetely in the category of men who are interested in older women so I'll give an answer. It's partially a sex thing. Older women are …
Any outer planet aspects you have to your personals or to themselves, everyone else within a few years of your birth will have that aspect, which isn't to say it'll necessarily affect you with everyon…
Gladly. I made it my choice to help people when it comes down to things like this, because I was targeted while blind :( and I think it's in my best interests to help someone else not to struggle the …
It's not rare for pregnancy to result from sex with a condom, because the efficacy rate is only true if you use it properly and assure no fluid whatsoever crosses from person to person. Precum can sti…
Good question about the nightmare thing. **Short answer:** I don't know. **Long answer:** My nightmares usually seem to be internally created, based on my worries. Bad dreams my subconscious is t…
it's cool that you both see this unloading of the day's weight as reconnecting, but lots of people don't. I generally don't do this though, since as a caregiver most of it is private. Also, we should…
Nice. “Abide in”, “enter into”, “notice”, “place/rest attention” can also be useful ways to go about it. Really, anything that helps keep attention on the object is the right way. It can differ perso…
Yeah, body chem ofc will differ person to person, but on avg cannabis will ruin consistency and quality due to rem suppression. I have vivid dreams as a heavy user, but they are WAY more consistent a…
I think it's very different person to person, I used to date multiple people from dating apps (\~3 people and maybe talking to some other matches), but I also used to have a lot more time and was more…
Hormone levels also vary a lot from person to person within the sexes so I just can’t attribute the majority of male aggression to that. Men have widely varying levels of testosterone, and getting inj…
oh absolutely. it's been here for 7,000+ years. and i do understand why you say that about the aztecs, trust me. but i also know the spanish colonizers doled out a lot of misinformation in their writi…
Some people claim to be in limerence for a decade, some less. Varies person to person. Know people who married their affair partner decades later after their spouse finally passed away so...
How much texting should there be between dates? I know it differs from person to person, but the person I had a first date with doesn't seem to want to text too often, and its a few weeks before we ca…
Through early experiments I learned that nosetip worked best for me. As far as I know it doesn't matter much though, and can vary from person to person. Later, as the attention capacity grows, the w…
Codependency is a different problem from person to person. Make another post but explain what your struggles are. Also state what you know and have already tried or thought of. The more info you give,…
It's about support, and the feedback is OPs to do with! You did great! And person to person, it's different! Maybe physical fitness needs to come first, then the cooking. Either way, it's about sta…
This is awesome! Thanks for sharing your signs with us. They vary from person to person (I think the way our intuition speaks to us is unique to our personality) so I love seeing you start to trust yo…
Everyone settles, but the degree in which we settle varies from person to person. If you are of a certain age and don't want to be single anymore, then you may find yourself accepting certain people, …
Honestly, I don't know if recovery is possible. It's a person to person thing. For my experience, nothing has robbed me of security because I was never on the receiving end of something like OP witho…
Can you be more specific? Giving is different from person to person. What did he say when you said you gave and gave?
This is very normal, even for experts, you can't have full control of the dream every time exactly, it varies from person to person and there's a trick: When you push too much some "power" or "magica…
It’s clear you’re not being unreasonable… and the comments agree with how you’re feeling. The morality you’re showing speaks volumes about you… so be proud and hold your head high regardless of how th…
I’m diagnosed with cPTSD with dissociation. The amount of dissociation I experience is considered severe, to the point my therapist had to evaluate me for DID. What I’m sharing below is stuff I have l…
It's super hard. It's about safety and health, at the end of the day. It's understandable to miss the good parts, memories, etc. But the bottom line is that some people will kill you, slowly or quickl…
This level of over-analysis is probably why you are struggling to understand something that is incredibly subjective and can change not only person to person, but in one person over time as well.
I hope your doing better, I’m currently in a similar situation. I initiated the break up due to him being emotionally abusive. He never once called me names, screamed, or anything. He just wasn’t emot…
I love playing competitive games and shooters (big resi fan and I have SO many hours on Overwatch) so it varies person to person. Moreso I can't do horror so I can't play the other Resident Evil games…
Do you visualize anything specific during this? Obviously it varies person to person but did any specific framing of this help you at all?
Its just like your body was transported into the dream, not in your room. You move around the dream realm the same way your body moves in real life, and for some people they feel numb but some people …
3 years meditator here. Im not an expert at visualization work but I've had several great and helpful experiences, such as for a first day at job etc. Any form of meditation requires concentration and…
>”is there anything you wish you had done differently before bringing up separation?” MANY people say they wish either themselves or their spouse had been willing to do the thing DURING marriage that…
For the last bit of your question: yeah, you can pretty much do everything "just like in real life" (because it is) when you shift. Reading, looking at the mirror, your hands, they are all solid and w…
Scapegoat here. I was in until my early 40s. I didn't realize I was the bad one and my brother is the GC. Everything was either my fault or my job to make better or to keep everyone in line or happy. …
That is neither here nor there. If you are to argue violating bodily autonomy is only okay when it saves lives, then you would surely be against the tetanus vaccine. It does not spread person to perso…
guy is probably just trying to fill the void you know. when people cant handle being alone they do weird stuff like this - jumping from person to person without really connecting with anyone the f…
This is called sleep inertia. It's a real thing that varies from person to person. He's not choosing to be this way. This is just how his brain works. Getting upset or mad about it is not a productive…
Oh hello! Welcome 💗 Manifestation is a ton of fun. Typically, people make their way into this space in order to get a specific thing. Something that if you were to get even 5% of it, your quality of …
Different feom person to person. For my in lucid dream you feel more immeresed, and your presence is more solid. But in VR I feel the space more right. Maybe it will improve later on, but right now i…
I agree that this is a phase, and the duration varies from person to person. For me it lasted about a year after going no contact. During that time, I think your number 1 priority should be to love yo…
I think I did about 4 sessions before I started EMDR. I was in a fairly stable place, had good coping mechanisms, and developed trust pretty quickly with my therapist. But it varies from person to per…
What has kept me going all these years is actually kinda funny. For like three years straight I would attempt to shift and then get mad when I fall asleep. And then I realized… I was mad that I was sl…