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Non-generic tips for someone struggling with lifelong depression?

The really hard thing with stuff like exercise and eating better is that you need to keep doing it. It doesn't just change your mood if you do it a few times. Consistency is important. It's building t…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/5/2026
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Feedback Thread

Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…

r/web_designpost4/18/2025
5 Best SQL Books for Web Development - JV Codes 2025

5 Best SQL Books for Web Development - JV Codes 2025 — Welcome to the [SQL Books](https://jvcodes.com/category/free-books/sql-books/) section on [JV Codes](https://jvcodes.com/)! If you’re starting with SQL or want to strengthen your skills, you’re in the…

r/web_designpost4/23/2025
Feedback Thread

Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…

r/web_designpost4/25/2025
Anyone? Figma ➡️ WP, XTheme

Anyone? Figma ➡️ WP, XTheme — I see tools touting Figma to Wordpress, Elementor, but haven’t seen any for Figma to Wordpress, Xtheme. Xtheme has been around for over a decade and we love it as a WYSIWYG builder to hand over to c…

r/web_designpost4/26/2025
How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course?

How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course? — Hey everyone! 👋 I run a live, cohort-based masterclass on advanced Midjourney prompt engineering and am in the process of ramping up my lead-gen funnel for the next cohort. So far, I’ve Explored: *…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use?

Business scaling up - what cloud provider should we use? — Our business is scaling rapidly — we’re currently handling millions of unique requests per week, and this number continues to grow. At the moment, we’re hosted on DigitalOcean, paying approximately €4…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
Feedback Thread

Feedback Thread — Our weekly thread is the place to solicit feedback for your creations. Requests for critiques or feedback outside of this thread are against our community guidelines. Additionally, please be sure that…

r/web_designpost5/2/2025
Australian Job Market, Melbourne & Sydney

Australian Job Market, Melbourne & Sydney — What does the job market look like for UI/UX and are there any UX engineering opportunities? Is learning frontend or fullstack the only way for us designers to actually get creative work done anymore…

r/UXDesignpost5/3/2025
Redis is open source again?

Redis is open source again? — Redis seems to be Open Source again!!! With Redis 8, the Redis community is thinking of going back to open source. Source: https://thenewstack.io/redis-is-open-source-again/ Guys let's discuss this…

r/DevOpspost5/3/2025
Don't get distracted by lack of experience (I will not promote)

Don't get distracted by lack of experience (I will not promote) — You know the biggest myth people buy into? That you need experience to succeed. It’s a trap - a story we tell ourselves to stay comfortable. Don’t get me wrong, experience is nice, but it’s not the…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
more open useful o2o platform app.i will not promote

more open useful o2o platform app.i will not promote — This is an open suggested startup idea sort particularly focus at philippines or emerging markets A sort of early shopee were everyone can buy and sell with no business permit free shipping marketpl…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Upwind's Cloud Security CNAPP. Is it viable?

Upwind's Cloud Security CNAPP. Is it viable? — Can anyone share their real-world experience implementing Upwind's "Runtime-Powered" Cloud Security Platform? The promise of using real-time runtime data (I think they use eBPF sensors?) to focus onl…

r/DevOpspost5/3/2025
Low-risk, High-reward, and Easy-to-start Business... an A-Z overview of the Rental Management business I run (I will not promote)

Low-risk, High-reward, and Easy-to-start Business... an A-Z overview of the Rental Management business I run (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I'm a real estate & software developer, AirBnB Host of \~20 units personally, and I help run a management company with \~200 client homes. So I've been through the ringer in every which …

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation

Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation — I currently manage a few servers running some ecommerce sites (WordPress) and some custom PHP based applications (Vanilla PHP, and Laravel) on DigitalOcean. My setup is pretty basic and consists of *…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote)

Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Need Advice: 3x Salary Offer for Fullstack Role, But It’s a One-Man Show. Go for it?

Need Advice: 3x Salary Offer for Fullstack Role, But It’s a One-Man Show. Go for it? — Hi. Everyone. Please bear with me, I hope this is the right place to ask. I’m currently a jr web developer and have been working in my first proper dev job for almost a year. The pay is on the l…

r/webdevpost5/5/2025
Is anyone else feeling the pressure from new import tariffs? How is it impacting your business or ways you source stuff?

Is anyone else feeling the pressure from new import tariffs? How is it impacting your business or ways you source stuff? — With all the recent shifts in trade policy, I’m curious how others are handling the growing pressure from import tariffs. Especially those sourcing from China, which I suspect is most of us here. For…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
Devops not using Docker (or Podman), what does your stack look like?

Devops not using Docker (or Podman), what does your stack look like? — Edit: I have nothing against containers, I'm looking for another containerization solution / ecosystem. I hate docker with all my soul. While writing it, I'm 100% aware that "hate" is a feeling and n…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
How do you keep track of costs across your (AI+SaaS) stack (I will not promote)

How do you keep track of costs across your (AI+SaaS) stack (I will not promote) — We’ve been working on an AI product that touches a ton of different tools: OpenAI, Midjourney, Claude, ElevenLabs, Google Cloud, etc. Recently, we started noticing these random billing spikes, $300 h…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
[Terraform vs. Bicep] — Is Terraform Still a Safe Bet Post-IBM?

[Terraform vs. Bicep] — Is Terraform Still a Safe Bet Post-IBM? — **TL;DR:** We're 99% Azure and choosing between Bicep and Terraform for IaC. Bicep fits the stack, but Terraform offers flexibility (especially if we acquire orgs using AWS). With IBM buying HashiCorp…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Got a 3hr interview coming up. Tips/advice appreciated.

Got a 3hr interview coming up. Tips/advice appreciated. — I got through the recruiter screening, a meeting with their main DevOps guy and CTO. I got notified that I'll be moving forward to the next round which is a 3 hour interview with other members of the …

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Is this a new-ish policy: Payouts released when orders fulfilled?

Is this a new-ish policy: Payouts released when orders fulfilled? — Hi all. I noticed a stack of money in my 'to be paid' payouts section. It ought to have been scheduled for Wednesday, but hasn't been as yet. I spoke to Shopify support and asked what was going on.…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
What back-end tools should I focus on to become a marketable full stack developer using .NET?

What back-end tools should I focus on to become a marketable full stack developer using .NET? — Hey everyone, I've been a front-end dev for a while now, and I’ve recently started diving into back-end development. I'm interested in becoming a full stack dev using React on the front and making my…

r/webdevpost5/5/2025
Why do MNCs seem to avoid the MERN stack?

Why do MNCs seem to avoid the MERN stack? — I've been working with the MERN stack for a few years and noticed it's quite popular among startups and smaller tech firms. However, when I look at job openings in MNCs, I rarely see MERN listed—most …

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Warning: Aggressive Tactics from Paperstack – A Cautionary Tale for Store owners seeking funding

Warning: Aggressive Tactics from Paperstack – A Cautionary Tale for Store owners seeking funding — Hey fellow builders, I want to share our recent experience with [Paperstack](https://paperstack.ai/), an e-commerce financing provider, to caution others who might be considering their services. We …

r/ecommercepost5/6/2025
We Fired a Developer But Not Because He Was Bad, But Because He Wasn't Right. Only 2 Legit Reasons to Fire Anyone. (i will not promote)

We Fired a Developer But Not Because He Was Bad, But Because He Wasn't Right. Only 2 Legit Reasons to Fire Anyone. (i will not promote) — After building a small team and running a startup for a while, We’ve come to a hard conclusion: There are only two legitimate reasons to fire someone. 1. They are not the right fit for the company.…

r/startupspost5/6/2025
What Projects Should I Build That Actually Matter?New to the community plz help 😊

What Projects Should I Build That Actually Matter?New to the community plz help 😊 — Hey everyone, I’m relatively new to Reddit and just starting to get more involved in the dev community. I’ve been learning and working with the MERN stack, and now I want to move beyond tutorials and …

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Should I move from Supabase to a self-hosted backend?

Should I move from Supabase to a self-hosted backend? — I’ve been using **Supabase** for my current app—mainly for Postgres, authentication, and storage. It’s been super convenient for getting started, but I’m starting to think about switching to a **self-…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Seeking a low-maintenance frontend/CMS stack for modernizing 10+ year old sites

Seeking a low-maintenance frontend/CMS stack for modernizing 10+ year old sites — Hi all, I’m looking for advice on a conservative, low-maintenance frontend and CMS stack for modernizing a couple of old but still functional client sites. **Background:** I’ve got two long-lived s…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Need recommendations : TMS or similar solution for a GatsbyJS site

Need recommendations : TMS or similar solution for a GatsbyJS site — Our GatsbyJS website (in the works to be migrated soon-ish) is partially translated into 5 languages (French, Spanish, German, Japanese, Mandarin) with just a few pages being translated into 5 other l…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Most commonly used technologies

Most commonly used technologies — I use Laravel + Inertia.js + vue to create websites, the websites I've created are usually with this stack since it's more of a platform then a website like a landing page. My question is for creatin…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
I created this cool game in react. It's called MystiCrafter

I created this cool game in react. It's called MystiCrafter — I created this cool game using React. If you know alchemistry or ever heard of the term, then you would love it. It's essential a puzzle game about combining base elements to create new ones. The ga…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Parallax effect issue on mobile using theme

Parallax effect issue on mobile using theme — I'm trying to find out if anyone is using Flatsome or any other theme, experiencing issue with parallax scrolling effect? I tested it on a few phones using Chrome browser app, then tried it on Firef…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
In the old times I was very productive with Macromedia Dreamweaver/ASP 3.0/database connections/Photoshop. What is now the most productive way to create a full stack website ?

In the old times I was very productive with Macromedia Dreamweaver/ASP 3.0/database connections/Photoshop. What is now the most productive way to create a full stack website ? — Hallo everyone, basically the title, something like 25 years ago, I was veeeery good at web development and tools like Dreamweaver were gold. Being able to also use Photoshop and code with ASP 3.0, t…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out.

Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out. — Hey everyone, I’m in a “Head of Digital” role at a mid-sized company — but in practice, I’m the only technical person in a team full of editors and project managers from a traditional print publishin…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
SOC maturity tool for small teams — assess detection, IR, and automation readiness

SOC maturity tool for small teams — assess detection, IR, and automation readiness — We struggled to get a clear read on how mature our SOC really was — especially with a lean team and cloud-first stack. So we put together a free tool to assess: * Logging & telemetry coverage * Aler…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Everything to learn about Headless wordpress and integrating react

Everything to learn about Headless wordpress and integrating react — Hello fellow devs, I'm looking to expand my skills as a full-stack developer and dive into React.js, Tailwind, and related tools. I know WordPress can be used as a headless CMS, but I'm a complete be…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
Log / Metrics / APM for SaaS Solutions with minimal / no Selfhosting

Log / Metrics / APM for SaaS Solutions with minimal / no Selfhosting — I'm currently looking into a tool for our developers to get metrics and logs from our Azure App Services and Azure SQL services into. I'm currently using Azure Managed Grafana for Alerting and Datadog…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Modern web dev has me on the ropes

Modern web dev has me on the ropes — I'm a FED, and I've been helping build websites for 15+ years. Started on LAMP stack, did some Wordpress stuff, but mostly my bread and butter has been FED-heavy, building UIs with HTML, JS, CSS/SASS …

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
Front-end dev looking for direction

Front-end dev looking for direction — Hey everyone, I'm a front-end dev for 5+ years, mostly focused on React. I'm looking for any tips as far as getting more knowledgeable, I feel I struggle in tech interviews because I don't know the c…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
How do startups choose between Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, and Clerk for auth & DB? What are your must-haves? (I will not promote)

How do startups choose between Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, and Clerk for auth & DB? What are your must-haves? (I will not promote) — I'm doing some research into how early-stage startups choose backend platforms, particularly when it comes to **authentication and databases**. I’ve seen a lot of teams go with **Supabase**, others sw…

r/startupspost5/7/2025
Organization lost access to website

Organization lost access to website — (Edit: mostly solved. Consensus is there isn't a good process to reclaim a site that has been lost. Open to other thoughts, but thank you to everyone who has offered their advice already!) I've been …

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
Newsletter hosting

Newsletter hosting — Where should I create and send a newsletter? Mailchimp? Substack? What are the pros/cons of each? I'll be sending it out once monthly

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
What I learned building a quoting system for a construction company doing $10M+ a year

What I learned building a quoting system for a construction company doing $10M+ a year — I recently finished a project for a construction company doing roughly $10M per year. They were quoting jobs using Excel and email threads, and while it technically worked, it was slow, error-prone, a…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Webtoons/Tapas/Globalcomix - Builtwith Tech

Webtoons/Tapas/Globalcomix - Builtwith Tech — Is it possible to build a full-featured comics or toons website like the above mentioned with headless wordpress CMS or is there a more appropriate stack for comics or toons website Asking, cos I'm …

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
Set out to launch my first e-commerce brand, feedback?

Set out to launch my first e-commerce brand, feedback? — Looking for advice on a health and wellness business, A transdermal nootropic patch designed for biohackers, deep workers, and anyone looking for clean, all-day cognitive enhancement without the stim…

r/ecommercepost5/7/2025
AI is creating some crazy new verticals and opportunities

AI is creating some crazy new verticals and opportunities — Knot (known for their card-on-file and transaction data APIs) just dropped a preview of something called AgenticShopping It’s an API that lets AI agents — or any app, really — actually complete purch…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
"Mastering Content Creation with Real-Time Optimization, Competitor Analysis, and Smart Editing Tools"

"Mastering Content Creation with Real-Time Optimization, Competitor Analysis, and Smart Editing Tools" — Content is still king—but not just any content. Today, high-ranking content is the result of a strategic balance between creativity and data-driven precision. To climb the search engine results pages …

r/digital_marketingpost5/8/2025
DAE feel like they want to be in a relationship but don’t really know how to? Intimacy problems?

DAE feel like they want to be in a relationship but don’t really know how to? Intimacy problems? — I mean in terms of intimacy. When I think about being in a relationship, the concept of having someone in my corner that I can cuddle with, do things with, nurture and support and generally love—that …

r/attachment_theorypost8/11/2025
'Getting into DevOps'

The 2019 DevOps Roadmap link (aka https://roadmap.sh/devops) is no longer useful and should really be removed or majorly updated as it's confusing to newbies. It's actually linked twice in different…

r/DevOpscomment6/6/2023
Should we use Grafana open source in a medium company

I'm curious about your definition for medium sized to begin with. 20 services and 80 GB per month is not much. If you operate a business using the LGTM stack, you're going to want an FTE just for ob…

r/DevOpscomment5/2/2025
Should we use Grafana open source in a medium company

Have you costed up the Grafana Cloud? We're a small organisation right now, but we're using Grafana Cloud and it's very cost effective for us. Our plan will be to eventually selfhost once we're at the…

r/DevOpscomment5/2/2025
Should we use Grafana open source in a medium company

Im sorry, but 80GB ingest/month is not medium company. 80GB/hour may be middle sized company. You are really looking for small scale/homelab sized solution. Worst part of grafana stack is loki. If yo…

r/DevOpscomment5/2/2025
Should we use Grafana open source in a medium company

The other setup I've seen used is a two layer system, the first layer is something like the LGTM stack, and from there certain key metrics or aggregates are pushed to something like NewRelic or DataDo…

r/DevOpscomment5/2/2025
Which DevOps repositories need contributions?

I’m writing a declarative orchestration engine for integrating mainframe jobs with modern cloud stacks. I intern at CA DMV and work on a bunch of gnarly AWS ETL pipelines so this kind of grew out of m…

r/DevOpscomment5/2/2025
From Rejection to Redemption: How I Broke Into DevOps

Could you share more details of your observability stack, the implementation and relevant metrics collected?

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
From Rejection to Redemption: How I Broke Into DevOps

I'm currently in similar situation. Experienced in overall system administration, windows, a bit of cloud and networking but I'm not able to get through technical interviews. This post is a huge motiv…

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
From Rejection to Redemption: How I Broke Into DevOps

Congrats, my guy. i have a similar story. I can attest to grit and putting into he work to learn the technologies and terms. To learn the DSO isn't a single technical stack. It's a locus where culture…

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
What would you be willing to pay for at your company?

In 2024 I think stack overflow had an april's fools joke about a subscription based model to get access to all answers. I always said, if they're serious, yeah I'll get one

r/DevOpscomment5/4/2025
What would you be willing to pay for at your company?

We pay for stability and support. If something breaks at 3 AM, I want to be able to call an actual human being, not search Stack Overflow

r/DevOpscomment5/4/2025
What would you be willing to pay for at your company?

When the price moves from a published and reasonable price to "Contact us" followed by "Let's setup a meeting"... That's when I know it'll be a waste of time... I need to gather all my people, to a …

r/DevOpscomment5/4/2025
Self-hosted alternative to AWS Elastic Beanstalk with GitHub deploy and automatic horizontal scaling (no Kubernetes)?

Openstack essentially lets you self host an AWS like cloud platform. You can use GitHub actions to deploy to self hosted servers. Also curious why you don’t want to use containers and want to deploy …

r/DevOpscomment5/4/2025
Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model?

Our service involves deploying databases, and a full stack in something like 80+ different regions around the world. For us, we never wanted to deploy to more than one region a day unless we absolutel…

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation

You have mention to many changes other than infrastructure automation. My suggestion would be to focus on automation without changing much of your stack. Once you have automated then focus on things y…

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation

I haven’t heard a single word about automating SSL replacement, so whatever you think it is, add another 35% of tech debt to your list. Honestly you are getting into territory where operations may ove…

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation

I focus exclusively on automating with ansible for now. You don't need to change any other applications or adopt anything else to make your current setup work. With ansible you can just automate the p…

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
What really makes an Internal Developer Platform succeed?

For us it is more about common practices rather than specific tech stack. It's better for the team to share workflows and expectations. The solutions will follow from there.

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
What really makes an Internal Developer Platform succeed?

At our shop, the dumber and more boring the setup, the more stable and automated everything becomes. Our "internal developer platform" is just a simple CLI: `./run-cli.sh deploy all/staging/demo…

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
What really makes an Internal Developer Platform succeed?

We have a cli aswell, Basically: ourCli start $foo Starts the foo service (builds all the containers in the stack. We also use it for bootstrapping kind clusters and set up all developer resources,…

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
Backstage feels like a fools errand

Because poor schmucks are forced to be complete full stacks and when you only know js from Bootcamp, everything is nail

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
Fellow DAs, do you sometimes experience people taking it personally when you need space to be by yourself?

Also you lie to them and expect them to except it.when I notice some one is just saying something that isn’t real ,it bothers me. Often my wife needs space,so she stacks her calendar with appointments…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/12/2025
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

Greetings, I've published a new article one he role that play, games, and hobbies have in Stoicism: https://mimeticvirtue.substack.com/p/fun-and-games

r/Stoicismcomment11/19/2025
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

Greetings, I've published a new article on aesthetics and it's relevance for virtue, and therefore Stoicism: https://mimeticvirtue.substack.com/p/the-aesthetic-compulsion

r/Stoicismcomment12/21/2025
How do avoidant dynamics move forward — and when do they not?

I’m pretty secure, with some anxious history. I’m aware of how the push pull works, and as soon as I noticed his avoidant habits stacking up I made sure to be really really careful not to lean in too …

r/attachment_theorycomment1/8/2026
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

Posted a short summary of my book *A Stoic Resurection* ([I introduced it in another comment down below](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stoicism/comments/1obp2fx/comment/noljs2g/?utm_source=share&utm_medium…

r/Stoicismcomment1/19/2026
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

Greetings, I've published a new article on how passions differ from being moved to action by reason and virtue, as well as situating emotions within Stoic theory: https://mimeticvirtue.substack.com/p/…

r/Stoicismcomment1/21/2026
Weekly Post - ✨Wins and Successes ✨

Was a bit vulnerable again with my boyfriend, this time over text-- a bit risky because I know texting can be tricky for any insecure style-- and it went well (he was warm and concise, neither cold no…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/3/2026
ICE Resources + Discussion Megathread

TW/CW: ICE Raid violence, imprisonment, and deportation Quyen Dinh, Executive Director of Southeast Asia Resource Action Center (SEARAC) joins me as a guest for this emergency episode on The Banh…

r/AsianAmericancomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oh, interesting. He sent a rose, but looked it up and you're right - HingeX users "likes" stay at the top of the stack for a week. That's some bullshit, since it's telling me it's most recent. Edit: a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I accidentally bumped into a big old stack of strawberries and knocked them EVERYWHERE. Everyone was staring at this grown ass man scrambling after rolling strawberries warning people not to step and …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

Greetings, I've published a new article on "fun", situating fun within Stoicism and discussing how Stoics should orient themselves regarding fun: https://mimeticvirtue.substack.com/p/on-fun

r/Stoicismcomment2/14/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

My music family and I bought more concert tickets today 😅 we already have two shows next month and the lineups are stacked! Still making progress on my two year weight lifting goals and gaining weigh…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

Im sorry to hear you’re going through that that sounds really challenging. I hope things feel better for you soon, it’s really frustrating to not even be able to walk like you used to. I get that so…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

Most people aren't paying for Hinge and so if you like people who get a lot of likes, you can easily get lost in the pile. I've had people return likes months later. I liked my current partner three m…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 24, 2026

I haven't given the valentine I made to my guy friend yet, but we hung out this last weekend and I was going to give it to him, but chickened out again. After he left I texted him and said "I keep for…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/24/2026
NATAL SATURN SERIES: IN THE 2ND HOUSE

I use whole sign houses so this will all line up. Scorpio rising at 12°01’ conjunct Mars at 9°20’ and Pluto at 11°16’. I mention this because my chart ruler in both traditional and modern astrology i…

r/astrologycomment2/26/2026
Jupiter in Aquarius and the impersonal nature of this placement

For me… Aquarius Jupiter is my chart ruler and is in my 2nd house (3rd in whole signs). I’ve somehow chosen things to study that require massive machines and lots of space lol. Like printmaking, piano…

r/astrologycomment3/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

I recommend people in this sub read this article https://open.substack.com/pub/cartoonshateher/p/theres-no-way-every-man-is-avoidant?r=qcljn&utm_medium=ios

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 04, 2026

The [decade-younger](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1rjt3k3/comment/o8g55ew/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) finally said s…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/5/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 06, 2026

Might depend who you’re sending likes to. Many women get so many likes that there is a good chance yours will be lost in the stack.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment3/6/2026
Eat, Pray, Love for white men

What's wild about this is, had the author simply omitted the use of that one word, Bangkok, the piece still would've held the same "message" with just as much impact. The author very well knew what th…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/7/2026
Will I ever not feel so lonely? (Seeking input from older folks on this platform)

There is a permanent sense of emptiness and loneliness inside when you are raised in an emotionally neglectful way. I did Jungian depth analysis for seven years which helped immensely if that option i…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/8/2026
What is even going on?

1. They want to get laid. 2. They wanted to get laid. 3. Not everyone out there, anywhere, really wants a serious relationship. Many just want to get laid and don’t care what they have to do to …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/8/2026
Did your Narcissist gift you a " Trash " gift?

My NM mailed me a huge stack of old New Yorker Magazine issues. They didn’t have any specific interviews or articles or cartoons that she wanted me to see. She just mailed me literal garbage so she co…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/8/2026
Dating again

It really is. Met my current wife while we were both in the middle of our divorces (during Covid no less). Our prior dating experiences had not been fun. It is kind of like playing find the hay in the…

r/Divorcecomment3/8/2026
Dating again

I have never heard that and need to use that- trying to find the hay in the needle stack.

r/Divorcecomment3/8/2026
What is even going on?

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this as well. I hope that the conversation helps in at least some small way. If you haven’t heard of Burned Haystack Dating Method, that’s been recommended and sounds lik…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/9/2026
Media fear-mongering or truth?

Well its rare but some people react very badly/may get into psychosis etc. This one guy only managed to win his court case because someone else had done a study on it. Interesting interview here https…

r/Psychonautcomment3/9/2026