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I feel like I have no personality but I don't know how to fix it.

I also have this issue! Like another redditor here said, it might be down to what you think of yourself. Everyone is doing interesting things and that makes you want to have something interesting to d…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/3/2026
I feel like I have no personality but I don't know how to fix it.

I feel like I have no personality but I don't know how to fix it. — To preface this, I'm very online. I know it. But I tried a "digital detox", stayed off my phone for two months, and it didn't change anything. All it did was made me bored. I don't really have any ho…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/3/2026
Is it normal to lose all motivation and ambition after a breakup?

Is it normal to lose all motivation and ambition after a breakup? — I went through a breakup almost 3 months ago, and I’m wondering if what I’m experiencing is normal. Some days I feel mostly okay. But then there are entire weeks when I barely want to leave my apartm…

r/BreakUpspost4/5/2026
Is it normal to lose all motivation and ambition after a breakup?

Is it normal to lose all motivation and ambition after a breakup? — I went through a breakup almost 3 months ago, and I’m wondering if what I’m experiencing is normal. Some days I feel mostly okay. But then there are entire weeks when I barely want to leave my apartm…

r/therapypost4/5/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

This isn’t directed specifically at you.  I really find women who pepper with questions and/or wait for me to ask them questions profoundly uninteresting.  You’re a grown person! Tell me about the t…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

i’m struggling with the same thing so thought id reply and say you’re not alone, even if i can’t offer much advice. also heavy on all your interests becoming uninteresting. its like i can’t think abou…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/7/2026
DAE find dating just kinda ..boring?

Not OP but having a very similar experience, and my goal is explicitly to find a long term partner. I don't know about instant and fiery, but it doesn't seem like asking that much to come away from a …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/9/2026
For guys who have no trouble getting dates on OLD, how do you filter for good personality?

Not necessarily true sign of uninteresting... Not everyone wants to advertise their entire biography online. As a private person I keep it short and sweet, I prefer to converse over the phone after a…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
People of dating over 40...

When I was on the apps, if it took me a long time to respond it was because the conversation was dry and uninteresting.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
How does the narcissist feel inside?

They tend to be very boring, dull & uninteresting. They spend their time all tangled up in their npd monkey minds & stewing over whatever anguish they've caused.

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/20/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

Judging simply from your post and your responses here, you just seem uninteresting. If you are average looking on top of that (and throw in a little judgy) it’s a turn off to most people, man or woman…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/5/2026
How Can I Protect Myself?

So you have tried to do a homeless look?  Problem with "antisocial" and "I don't like to talk to people" messages on clothes is that they are a challenge to some people.  Don't be a challenge. Be …

r/energy_workcomment4/10/2026
Those that went through the glow up- Are you approached more now?

I don't approach people in public to ask them out on dates. With that said, I did change the way I dress and the way I move through the world after I left my partner of 12 years and sold my business.…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/12/2026