She was the one who got cared for, not me.

I'm so sorry about your cat, and I hope you are finding some time to grieve for yourself. I am rolling my eyes in frustration at your mother. You need her, and she is not there for you. "She was the…

I needed my emotionally immature mom for once and it went exactly how I thought it would — God forbid my (29f) mom ever does something for someone else. Everything needs to be about her as if she is a child. Last week, two things happened and I just need to vent. 1. My cat of 6,5 years was…