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This is quite normal. I always say that the struggle of the victim of emotional neglect (and worse) at the hands of our parents is our persistent attachment to them no matter what. I understand your p…
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What differences normal Saturn from retrograde? — Some sites say that Saturn represents obstacles that are encountered in a certain area, and when it is retrograde, it means those obstacles are psychological. What is your take on this? I have a hard …
TheTinder curse — I (M50) have matched with a very intriguing (F41). She is amazing in all ways and she has made it clear that she is married but she says we are inevitably drawn together. couple of basic meets. casual…
My mom called me on my birthday to apologize for taking me to the hospital instead of bruising me when I was sick as a kid. — My parents are in a cult that believes in bruising=healing. They are in china. In traditional Chinese medicine, some branch believe that the color of bruises are a sign of toxins, and by bruising your…
The Gaslighting is So Exhausting.. — After months of her blaming her affair on me and our “problems,” I realized she isn’t even lying anymore. Not in her mind anyway. She has thoroughly convinced herself. It took me many times of expla…
NC since christmas. got ambushed at easter. abuser parent showed her colors infront of family(socially), first time ever. need emotional support. (struggling to come to terms with MBP,/captivity /starvation abuse and abusers complete refusal to acknowledge) — to preface , id like to say some of my story/past (although, for those of u who are regular here im sure u have seen some of my olde rposts from 2 years ago) the easter incident will be at the bottom…
Manifestation help! — so my parents are religious (i’m muslim) and they’re not like super extreme but still strict enough where i can’t really do what i want w my appearance. like i don’t really like wearing the hijab and …
Is Astral Projection forbidden for some people? — I tried Astral Projection back in 2018. Did not succeed, but after a few weeks of trying magic was done on me, and i got possessed by some entity. I dont know if its related, but I think I might have …
we’re any other daughters of nmoms not allowed to socialize with boys growing up? — i’ve been realizing recently that i have a lot of trouble socializing with the opposite gender as a girl, mostly i get very anxious and awkward, and come off as “weird”. i wasn’t allowed to be friends…
Graduating to nGranny — I'll (\~30F) be a new mom soon (yay) but of course, I have an nmom who is over excited about the news because, Facebook bragging rights + new ways to be possessive. I've been working towards low con…
Really appreciate the thorough reply, but I have questions about it if you don't mind. 1. You are talking about learning signals of comfort and signals in a general sense. Like, is a hand on her lo…
I can feel the angst in your post, particularly between the lines as such. I hate that this society makes people feel so powerfully shitty over totally natural and the naturally variating sexual intri…
Well, I'm going to participate in this post because exactly one year ago, I received a Hashimoto's diagnosis, and I weighed 80 kilos, couldn't sleep, and was living like an old car on reserve fuel. I…
Not only was not encouraged, but it was forbidden, taboo, avoided at all costs. I loved football (soccer). It was my one and only passion since I could walk. I wanted to play it all the time, and foll…
This isn't how it works for me. I was brought up in a religion that I believe is false, even though millions of other people find it to be 'real' to them. Remember the old analogy about the blind me…
Either she needs to quit her job and get a new one or You need to leave the relationship. They still work together, their attachment is still activated and the “forbidden” nature will make it even mo…
While playing hide-and-seek with friends, I went into this long forbidden closet that connected the office and his mothers bedroom. I pushed through a lot of clothes and came upon a empty space, I bel…
I was reminded this week that my love is forbidden. Brought food to work for guy I’ve been dating 6 months. Met through his job. His work policy is to not date clients. Outside the building, I gave hi…
You need to have faith in yourself and trust that the things you cannot control will eventually break your way. APs, for better or worse, do not survive without the affair. They go from forbidden frui…
Hon he just doesn't want another kid. He can't say, "let's get an abortion" because that's forbidden in your culture. So he says, "you are the villain and so you should terminate your adultery pregn…
I'm familiar with the "can't win for losing" concept. I remember one Saturday I was washing HER car. It was disgusting and desperately needed it. I told her I was going to wash it........two of th…
He dumped me a long time ago. Even now as you clearly see I still filled with detailed thoughts on detailed every little thing he did and said to me. Many people said it was abuse, intentionally an…
Hey good to know you came round in the end (; With me, I was always interested in drugs, as all of the musicians and creatives I read about said that they opened doors that were otherwise locked. I …
Hells bells, I'm in the EXACT SAME situation. Broke down after 9 years of lies despite evidence of cheating right when it happened and years of lies and gaslighting that followed. Said it was one time…
You're welcome. The forbidden fruit always looks sweeter, but it usually winds up being bitter.
More mad about how they set me up to be abused and taken advantage of as a young adult. Men, bosses, coworkers, neighbors, friends. I was taken of advantage, mentally, physically, and financially by c…
exactly. she had all that and still cheated, the answer is: she’s selfish. she wanted all that plus extra forbidden excitement and attention on the side. her selfishness will not go away until YEARS o…
of course ! "i wish you all the best" is one of my favorite books about a non-binary teenager who goes through hardships with their parents and reconnects with their sister, and finds their people "…
Everything I've stated can be found in countless occult grimoires and forbidden sects across a wide variety of cultures. It's not new. The idea that powerful groups sacrifice children isn't some q…
I apologize for being rude. I was doing multiple things at once and didn't fully read through what you were saying. I agree with you But energy harvesting and vampirism tend to be in the darker sid…
It does have a lot to do with it, and your response sort of proves that point. I have a great amount of respect for teachers, I was blessed to have many good ones throughout my childhood. Importantly …
Not in any forced or direct -for-purposes-of-dating way, but my mom pushed me to socialize, so I was always put in social situations where I interacted with both boys and girls. And when I was older,…
Your boss is the forbidden fruit, and boredom is a dangerous spice for workplace attraction.
What happened was wrong and was NOT your fault. Even if you were an adult, sex between a therapist and their client is forbidden. The relationship is inherently imbalanced because of the therapy dyn…
You haven’t been married to this cruel, abusive monster very long, look into if you can still get an annulment. The way he treats you is monstrous, not loving. You have an autoimmune disorder and he…
This is your natural inclination to the fact that fornication is forbidden and you should wait until marriage tbf, the body knows its rights and it knows that it’s not something you should be doing, i…
I’m sorry you’re going through this. Short answer, he’s splitting his realities so he can fulfill his desires (to feel wanted and lusted for) while still presenting as the husband who is meeting your…
Objectivly wasnt hurtful But what made it hurtful was how it was used She said my big butt will break the sofa For 8 years i was forbidden from sittin on the sofa (as an adult. Munchausen by proxy, …
Insane food rules. I remember being 16 and over at my high school boyfriend’s house for dinner, and I looked like a deer in the headlights when his mom asked me if I wanted seconds. At home, this was …
Original copy of post by u/Material_Wallaby_193: I (M50) have matched with a very intriguing (F41). She is amazing in all ways and she has made it clear that she is married but she says we are inevit…
Very interesting dream and message. I am one of many people who has had entities ask me for children and I'm child free for my own personal reasons. Doesn't mean I wouldn't adopt a child when I'm fina…
I was forbidden from talking to women. She did this because she said I would get baby trapped. Never went to a prom or homecoming. Then use to complain I was home all the time. Married now. Very lim…
I felt time burning away when I was younger. I tried to be there for people and they did not care or reciprocate. I spiralled over my lack of control but I was forbidden agency growing up, had no clue…
Yep, I apparently "didn't pick good friends". I was supposed to only be friends with the daughters of her friends. As she only stayed friends with people who enabled her, that was never going to end…
There was two different kinds of milk in our fridge: the milk we weren’t allowed to touch and powdered milk. The forbidden milk was store-bought regular milk and we were not allowed to ask for it. …
I had this too! Remember staring at the forbidden fresh berries in the fridge that would slowly mold over time because we weren’t allowed the “good” fruit or bread or whatever else my mother wanted fo…
The fantasy threesome in his head can never happen because of the dynamic involved where you are not a couple as you are now. Fantasies are very commonly things that are risky or forbidden but they do…
Back in the day we would watch the forbidden zone, ninja bachelor party and top it off with the overfiend, my friends were pretty weird.
Very powerful stuff. It reminds me of how, in general, we sustain however our parents treated us. If they loved us unconditionally, then we love ourselves the same. If they abused us, that means we ab…
Did she cheat ? Yes absolutely, it was at least an emotional affair Did you react badly ? Yes without a shadow of doubt , you permitted her to walk over you and you are still doing the pick me da…
Thank you for the reminders. I have to keep telling myself to stop and think. I’m journaling my thoughts, I’m trying to make friends (something that was forbidden by her, unless it’s someone she ap…
Cheating & 'forbidden' relations are always romaticised in books and media. It really sad that its become the norm.
Hi ZodiacDax, **1) Error 400 - Bad Request** is usually a Browser/Cookie problem - which can be usually solved by trying diffrent browser or by clearing the cookies/cache in the browser. So thanks …
that it's good talk but, you on the right way you know why because when you find the true love you will hold on it because you already know what dose lonely mean, i'm the Muslim guy and on my religion…
Astrology predicts the exact roadmap you have to walk on in order to get to the destination of your life with the karma you act upon throughout. Consider this as a train with multiple stops and a 24 …
Maybe but I know my family history and in my culture people don’t even marry estranged cousins, those things are forbidden
"You're not supposed to marry for love. Marriage is not about love." "Divorce is not an option in this family. You stay for the kids." "Men will never want to be with a woman who doesn't smile [like…
YES. Exploiting young people is not forbidden only when you're biologically related to them. I worked as a teacher for years and the idea of having a relationship with one of my students makes me want…
It could be as messed up as it just feels fun, taboo, forbidden and that makes it more exciting. He sees no future with her but he's enjoying himself enough to keep going back. Please be kind to your…
Yes, I was forbidden to have friends and it was screamed in my face regularly that "friends are a waste of time". It took me years of effort as an adult to develop any social skills at all.