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r/DecidingToBeBetterUpdated 30 days ago
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I feel like I have no personality but I don't know how to fix it.

You listed singing, reading, writing, and cooking. In the comments you said you write long album commentary and analyze shows in detail. That's not "no personality." That's personality. You've just de…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/3/2026
I always let others take decisions and I’ve realized it’s wrong.

I always let others take decisions and I’ve realized it’s wrong. — Hello, I have realized I have no personality. When I’m put in front of a decision, most of the times I answer “it’s the same for me” so the others in the end are the one to choose. This happens both …

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost4/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 09, 2026

This was a [good editorial about how looksmaxxing](https://archive.ph/2026.02.26-175601/https://www.gq-magazine.co.uk/article/all-the-looksmaxxers-are-getting-personality-mogged)fails if you have no p…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/10/2026
30 Years in "Functional Freeze": How I mistook Survival for Personality

Oh my goodness, I relate to this so much and on so many levels!! I'm so sorry you went through that.. the silent treatment seems to be less "obvious" abuse than say physical abuse but as you pointed o…

r/CPTSDcomment3/20/2026
Spent money on clothes, grooming, and a Miami photoshoot for dating apps. Still getting weak matches. What am I missing?

Spending $500 on a photoshoot is crazy. It might just be a generation gap tbf, since I'm still in my early twenties but in my opinion the photos look corny. Your profile honestly just doesn't give o…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/24/2026
I finally met that perfect Asian Kid most of us were compared to!

I was kind of like this, but a girl. I was a class valedictorian with a record-setting GPA and high SAT and AP exam scores. I had few friends and little personality, and I didn't talk back or ask ques…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/31/2026
I feel like I have no personality but I don't know how to fix it.

I think you might be setting the bar for “having a personality” way higher than it actually is. The stuff you listed already is a personality, it just doesn’t feel loud or defined yet. Liking singing…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/3/2026
How often do you get approached in real life?

I get approached ànd I don’t like it. It just seems so superficial- you only want to talk to me because of the way I look? I could be a complete hag with no personality. I don’t date others just becau…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
I cheated on the first guy to treat me right💔

Hi, answering your question. It took me a lot of time to realize why I cheated. But the final consensus I came to was, I did what I did because I was so lonely. I was seen as that pretty girl with no…

r/BreakUpscomment4/11/2026