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What I find amusing is your immediately thinking a more physically active woman versus getting on board with a woman that's more your physical level.  That being said in my experience those people l…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/12/2026
This is harder than it should be. 🥸

And a bunch of clinical diagnoses of personality disorders for every guy by someone "who has done the work" and "takes care of themselves". It's the same old story everyday. This place has just turned…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
Are My Expectations Too High?

50m. Sex has never been better. Two people and combination of their high sex drives, knowing what the fuck they're doing, knowing what they like, and having the time without babies around...! Raise t…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/19/2026
Do people eventually want marriage/long-term partnerships, or is it mostly just dating at our age?

I was married almost 24 years before my divorce was final. I am hoping to get married again. That said, I’m going to be incredibly picky. I dated someone for about four months and I think he would’ve …

r/datingoverfortycomment3/22/2026
My Boyfriend (28M) thinks the reason why he can't finish is because I'm (20F) too big from the inside.

Chances are he has a “man issue” with porn or a medical condition or his way of “pleasuring himself” makes vaginal sex not work for him. This is something he can talk to his doctor about or change per…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/28/2026
I put all of my self worth into my relationships. How can I learn to be comfortable when alone?

I understand this because I'm the same. You really need to look back in your life and see where this started. When we were children we weren't logical. We just react in order to survive. Attachment/…

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
Worried about my overweight partner

I had to actually end a relationship like this one time. It’s important to me that whoever I’m with takes care of themselves. He wouldn’t go to the doctor or get checkups. He didn’t take his health se…

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026