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I wish men wouldn’t talk about my curves after 3 chats

It should stop with "you are pretty" or comments about your face... Or "you seem fit" Anything more than that I consider over the top and uncalled for. Unless you have your profile set to "F toy" or…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026
START HERE !!!

START HERE !!! — # Step-by step short guide r/Sbreggo So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the…

r/gatewaytapespost1/19/2024
Are you lost? START HERE!

Are you lost? START HERE! — # Step-by step short guide So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the same que…

r/gatewaytapespost3/20/2026
Are you lost? START HERE!

Are you lost? START HERE! — # Step-by step short guide So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the same que…

r/gatewaytapespost3/27/2026
To a younger me - it’s not your fault

To a younger me - it’s not your fault — You couldn’t have known. You couldn’t have stopped it. You are pretty enough, you are smart enough, you are enough. I am so, so sorry. The whole thing was a trick - I think he even tricked himself. He…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/2/2026
Are you lost? START HERE!

Are you lost? START HERE! — # Step-by step short guide So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the same que…

r/gatewaytapespost4/3/2026
Are you lost? START HERE!

Are you lost? START HERE! — # Step-by step short guide So you just found this sub but you don't know anything about "The Gateway Experience", follow these steps and read all the suggested documents to avoid asking the same que…

r/gatewaytapespost4/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Your hinge is pretty solid. You are pretty, your photos are good, they seem interesting and produce talking points, your descriptions are solid. Personally, I would even match you if I saw you on my h…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

This is almost certainly it. He says he doesn’t want to date and is okay hanging out after 9pm (!!!). He wants a booty call and is okay putting in a little work for it if he has to. OP, don’t go throu…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
42M. Do these things basically disqualify me entirely?

The thing that jumped out for me from your post is not any of the things you’ve listed but the sense that you are pretty inflexible about things - the main thing being your finances. Is there a reason…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/9/2026
I have the Sun and Moon in Aries, why have I never identified with that sign and why doesn't it define me at all?

Maybe the mars in Aquarius. The question is worded in an Aquarius manner. I bet you are pretty brave, in specific ways which is how Aries may manifest. Maybe the Scorpio rising too, also making Mars …

r/AskAstrologerscomment3/10/2026
My desire for relationships disappeared after a narcissistic ex. Has anyone else experienced this?

Yeah same here, all other aspects of my life have significantly improved. I have tried dating but I would say I am more hyper vigilant and less willing to tolerate low levels of investment from the ot…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/11/2026
Meditation hasn’t worked for me

It seems like you are pretty self aware. But If meditation is putting you to sleep that’s what you need. Listen to your body, give it a break.

r/Meditationcomment3/25/2026
Is your seventh lord debilitated? Did you ever get married? If yes, then at what age?

Would you say you are pretty? Prettier than average maybe? Sun+venus, hence I asked

r/vedicastrologycomment3/27/2026
My mom is accusing me of incest. Again.

She is only doing this to instill a sense of shame in you. This shame is installed to: 1. Keep you from being your free, pretty, feminine, confident self 2. Drive a wedge between you and your brother…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/29/2026
Am I doing the right thing? F42,

Just wanted to ask if you had tried couples therapy to resolve this? It sounds like you are pretty far done and the attraction issue is pretty irreparable, but I can see there is a lot of love/care s…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
Update to my previous post (only and final)

Yeah, I'd guess you are pretty low on her list of things to be concerned about right now. You seem to have always been pretty low on her list of priorities.

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/30/2026
Why am I sacred of marriage ?

There is no reason for fear of marriage. You are probably desperate because it’s delayed so far. But there is no need to be in a hurry. You are due for marriage anytime in and around by Venus period t…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/1/2026
Boyfriend’s ex

But still maybe i still have a bad mindset where i thought looks matter more, i need to fit in with the standards, i need my boyfriend to be with a beautiful girl better than anyone he has dated but i…

r/relationshipscomment4/1/2026
My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what?

"she didn't feel you were giving her what she needed". You were approaching things with maturity, thinking like a true guardian. As for your lass, "she wants to live little"? To what extent? I under…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
Feel like I, M29, am dumbing myself down for gf F23…

Good forbid an adult pays their fair share of things. A whole 12 dollars at that. I'm also assuming you'd ask your partner for money at any time because "I'm just a girl" or "it's the man's job to pay…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
I can’t stay present. I'm always chasing the next thing and still feeling empty

You are pretty much defining the Buddhist term "dukkha". Which is a deep feeling of dissatisfaction or suffering stemming from how everything is impermanent and nothing really has any innate meaning. …

r/selfhelpcomment4/7/2026
How should I feel about meeting my ex's AP years after the affair?

Sounds like you are pretty good. Keep it casual no reason to be texting or hanging out. Happy for you.

r/Divorcecomment4/9/2026
My wife has started a trial separation with me

Honestly, the second you leave the house. You are pretty much done for. However, it's the right thing to do. If you force yourself to stay or try pushing for something else. She will resent you even m…

r/Divorcecomment4/12/2026