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I wish men wouldn’t talk about my curves after 3 chats

It should stop with "you are pretty" or comments about your face... Or "you seem fit" Anything more than that I consider over the top and uncalled for. Unless you have your profile set to "F toy" or…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026
Cat is safe and healthy ❤️

Cat is safe and healthy ❤️ — I cannot believe it. I’m still freaking out. One of my cats has had health issues all his life, and long story short, one of the ways he acts out is by eating stuff he shouldn’t. He has already had e…

r/nevillegoddardpost4/4/2026
Asking if this was abuse

Asking if this was abuse — I am struggling with IDing what was abuse or me overreacting. I stopped talking to my dad since the past came up since my mom passed 7 months ago. I am having issues separating the past and present.…

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/8/2026
I [F24] went thru my boyfriends [24] phone. We live together, and found msgs, videos, photos. What do I do?

I [F24] went thru my boyfriends [24] phone. We live together, and found msgs, videos, photos. What do I do? — It was Friday night, and my partner was sleeping. He has always had this thing of me not going through his phone, or holding it. Not knowing his password, not sharing locations. So I went on his Insta…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/13/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Yes, I understand your point. My outlook is that nobody ticks all your boxes so compromise in a few areas is essential if you're mostly getting what you want in a partner. True, I tried to not get ahe…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/23/2026
My boyfriend (31M) is upset I prioritize money and don’t want kids, even though I (24F) told him this from the start

So, he's 31, working full-time, still living with his parents, presumably not paying rent... he must have a hella savings account or IRA, and if he doesnt, if he has a big fancy truck and lots of toys…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/14/2026
Fiancé 26 M shamed me 25F for my kink

My gf kink is also this. I blinfold her and use all sort of toys to amplify her fantasy. Even if it wasnt his sort of kink he couldve responded in a more interrested/supported way. I mean it depen…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
Out of curiosity, do your parents even fit the "demanding in-law" stereotype?"

You're right, and because you're right, that easily make AM one of the best dating partners in US dating market, white men know it too, but they do not want you to be the top choice over them, so they…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/20/2026
My (37F) partner (43M) is obsessed with having something in his ass during sex and its ruining it for me.

I'd be really curious to know what kind of toy has to be replaced every 5'. That literally makes no sense. Like maybe find something that holds in place? As in 99.999% of toys.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/21/2026
I am becoming resentful towards my husband for letting his brother live with us

I feel like I’m qualified to give my take on this because my situation growing up was very similar. My mom married my dad, then he subsequently flew in his sister (my aunt) to live with us. She was me…

r/relationshipscomment3/30/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
Name a quirk, trait, or something else about you that you believe was caused by trauma from your family

I have a quirk that I'd love someone to theorize on: I get sad and empathize with objects. Half eaten apple's (they weren't used 'fully'), concept of toy story (abused toys), when i was depressed (o…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/3/2026
I (30F) found out my husband’s (32M) fantasy through a couples app and now I feel weird

There are sooooo many ways to incorporate threesome fantasies into your bedroom without adding other people. You can get a sex machine(hismith), all different kinds of toys from simple(multiple size c…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice?

Book a weekend retreat, buy a bunch of toys, get some sexy stockings, book a massage together and tell him: you are fantastic, but: one man, one job. We are only gonna talk about sex, we’re only gonna…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
I (25F) got into an argument with my boyfriend (26M) over a vibrator. How can I get over this?

I am 100% confident that man has not made her cum once. Or any other woman for that matter Girl, get rid of the guy, buy yourself a toolchest of toys and go to town on yourself

r/relationship_advicecomment4/7/2026
what’s a weird thing you guys do bcuz of neglect?

When I'm really stressed and upset, I sleep in the bathtub. As a kid, I used to sleep inside a toy box on top of toys. Tight spaces mean physically safe I guess. Edit; and yeah, the food hoarding. I …

r/CPTSDcomment4/8/2026
Feeling sort of childlike

1000% I fill my life with the most whimsy and regularly buy myself toys that I wasn't allowed to have as a child. What kind of parent says the Care Bears are evil demons????

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/8/2026
Did anyone else grow up in the 70's with these ritualistic, delayed punishment "ceremonies" from their narcissistic parent?

Partially. I was born at the start of the 90s, so my mother was from that generation, but cultural norms were changing. She performed a similar type of ritualistic violence, but it was more covert, vi…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/9/2026
Does anyone remember 2000s asian diaspora internet culture and kinda miss it

Burger King used to sell Hello Kitty merchandise such as large plushies as part of their kids meal back in the 90s. I remember just trying to get the whole collection lol. I still have I think 2 of th…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/10/2026
r/Divorcecomment4/11/2026
Alternatives to sex during/after divorce?

I'm not built for casual, but I also didn't start dating until well after the divorce was finalized... bought a bunch of toys and started masturbating like a fiend, though! 😅

r/Divorcecomment4/11/2026
What is the best way for I (21F) to go about breaking up with (20M) because I am tired of arguing about the possibility of future kids?

Good for you. I had a huge collection of toy cars as a kid. Not a single doll. Just say you're not compatible with what you want from life, best not to waste each other's time.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026