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Did you eventually forgive the affair partner?

No. I'll try to keep it short. Husband and I have an open relationship with bdsm, with a few rules, like we will always be each others number 1 and first priority, no secrets, and always safe. Husb…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/9/2026
My (M19) Gf (F19) constantly asks for details on me being raped because she "can't wrap her head around it", is this worth it?

My (M19) Gf (F19) constantly asks for details on me being raped because she "can't wrap her head around it", is this worth it? — Me and my gf (both 19) have been dating for 2 years. 4 or 5 months before we started I was raped by an older woman. She tried to play being my friend and it just happened. I have never told anyone ab…

r/relationship_advicepost3/20/2026
Am I (30f) missing something? (31m) long post and tw! Conflict styles making conflict bigger

Am I (30f) missing something? (31m) long post and tw! Conflict styles making conflict bigger — Hi all. This month will make my current relationship 5 years. We have been in couples therapy for less than 2 years working on communication and handling conflict better, navigating the avoidant and a…

r/relationship_advicepost4/12/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

So I (38M)'ve just been dumped again by someone who picked up on my attachment anxiety, and I'm extremely frustrated because I'm pretty far along my healing journey, but not finished yet obviously, an…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/13/2025
Do you feel watched by Them?

Everything you think and do is taken note of by someone. There are no secrets and privacy here is an illusion

r/experiencerscomment3/26/2026
My Awakening was around 2021 - the realisation that past me would've never believed everything I've experienced since

Yes, telepathically but they do not say much, just enough for me to understand what is happening at the time-no secrets of the universe stuff. They also use visions but I admit I do not always und…

r/experiencerscomment4/2/2026
Anyone have a parent try to turn you against the other one?

My parents hated each other my whole life and kept no secrets about it. My mom was worse complaining about my dad, but they both made their mistakes. The thing that made me "pick" or "turn against" a…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/7/2026
Am I in the wrong for not wanting my bf to be friends with his ex?

Being friends with ex on itself is fine. But there need to be good boundaries. No secrets. No hanging out one on one, no flirting or anything. She should be respectful and welcoming to you, and he sho…

r/relationshipscomment4/7/2026
My partner says she chooses me but keeps an emotional affair with her coworker — I’m losing myself

If she does not scale back an emotionally intimate connection that you are clearly expressing your discomfort with, she is NOT choosing you. In my book, if you are someone who genuinely loves a person…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/11/2026
My (33M) partner (32F) revealed something about herself in a moment of vulnerability that feels like more than I can non-judgmentally accept...

Are you guys 14? Where does this “no secrets” weirdness come from? Every terrible thought or thing we’ve ever done does NOT need to be voiced to our partner. Let’s leave some room for sparks. No need …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
My (33M) partner (32F) revealed something about herself in a moment of vulnerability that feels like more than I can non-judgmentally accept...

This is perhaps the worst idea I have ever heard. Even more so in an exceedingly new relationship. “I know we really only just met each other, but let me tell you the dirtiest shit I have never told…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026