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FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

I'm doing the same right now. I read the list of symptoms, and isolation and cognitive distortions made me say "oh god" and start crying, lol.

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment9/5/2024
read this if you are confused

read this if you are confused — Yes I have shifted, here is the mindset that brought me to this point. If this does not resonate with you move on. For those who follow the Law of Assumption, non duality etc I intend this will make …

r/realityshiftingpost3/10/2026
27 M my first gf left me for another man.

27 M my first gf left me for another man. — I don’t have my first relationship until I was 24. I met her (let’s call her Ashley) while working fast food after I stopped going to college due to Covid & tuition. She was a typical alternative type…

r/BreakUpspost4/2/2026
Things I want to tell you.

Things I want to tell you. — Todays the first day I haven't cried. It's been a month since you left me, I can't believe it's been this long already since I last saw you. You told me to move on from you and I guess that's what I'm…

r/BreakUpspost4/2/2026
My (30M) girlfriend (29F) of 5 years confessed to a "minor drunken mistake" with a coworker. My brother just leaked her group chats, and the truth is making me sick. How do I move forward from this?

My (30M) girlfriend (29F) of 5 years confessed to a "minor drunken mistake" with a coworker. My brother just leaked her group chats, and the truth is making me sick. How do I move forward from this? — **Background:** My girlfriend "Amy" and I have been together for 5 years. Recently, I took a stressful promotion that requires long, unpredictable hours. I did this specifically to improve my financia…

r/BreakUpspost4/8/2026
She is so mean and cruel. am never breaking no contact again.

She is so mean and cruel. am never breaking no contact again. — I literally sent her a 2 second video of our cat Sunshine. Our first cat. And she blocked me. I forgave her for cheating on me and breaking my heart in the worst possible way. How could I be so dumb…

r/ExNoContactpost4/11/2026
If you are new here..

Oh God. Way to generalize people. This blanket statement and judgemental attitude shows that you have not even understood the principal basics of neither Nevilles nor Joseph's teachings. Really weird…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/22/2020
If you are new here..

> Oh God. Way to generalize people. This blanket statement and judgemental attitude shows that you have not even understood the principal basics of neither Nevilles nor Joseph's teachings. Oh ? And w…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/22/2020
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Uh it's thoughts like: "I love her, I love her, I love her" "I really like her, how can I love someone who hasn't even said they like me" "No I love her" "Oh god, she's getting tired of me" "I like ke…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/2/2025
Is it just me or is "date secure people" a bad idea?

Oh God I hate dating "normal" people from "healthy" families. I always feel like a freak, and the way they act when they find out or tell them/joke about a trauma is so... ostracizing? othering? like …

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/9/2026
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

>I think another expression of this is the insistence that a relationship can never be ended except by mutual agreement. Oh God, I had an ex like this. She spent all her time laying around the hous…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/22/2026
how to be "chill" in early stages of dating?

ohh yeah i struggle with the urgency thing too, like if im dating someone and i cant see them for a few weeks my gut reaction is "oh god what if they lose interest" and its like.... ok well then if so…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/30/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oh god it’s so mortifying. I showed up at his place, I know he doesn’t lock his doors so I went in and he was sleeping. I don’t remember a lot of what was talked about, I think was being super dramat…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oh god. I don’t think I would be able to forget it. Then I guess now I start to actually appreciate not verbose men…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
Decided it’s time to call out blatant misrepresentation regarding our sub

To be fair, while I agree with the general ‘avoidants are hated unnecessarily’ sentiment, many avoidants don’t noticeably come across as avoidants until some closer level of connection. The differenc…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

>I've hung out a couple times with a friend of mine in the city who I used to be interested in, a few weeks ago we went to a nice dinner and ice cream and then next week we're going to a comedy show t…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/14/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment2/15/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oh god, I don't think I could do that! LOL Wishing you luck!

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/16/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oh god, I also always feel like they might be reading argh. 

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oh god. I am so sorry. We really do. Did you finish it? And how?

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Oh God, I am so sorry, this is so heartbreaking. Why they just don't say directly to our face that they lost interest or whatever the reason is for the change in their behavior... He didn't deserve yo…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Yes, same here. Just a little check in would suffice (I mean not all the time, but some days sure).  Oh god, I have been seeing this guy also for around 2 months but well one month he was away abroa…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Hahaha oh God, lesbians just move so fast in intimacy and emotions. We've barely hung out in person but there are already plans for her to visit me when I travel. Good morning/good night texts. Plans …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/20/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment3/1/2026
The most difficult Sun & Moon transits!

oh god... I just checked back to when I had that transit, in my early 20s... I was looking for the exact month, and I was thinking, weird, it's right around the time I met (long term partner, now ex).…

r/astrologycomment3/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 02, 2026

Oh god, I'm really getting old, I'm losing the slang! I have no idea what the difference between those two things could be!

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Do narcs enjoy kissing?

oh god same issue here, mine was also always complaining how i "took too long to do stuff" and that he needed it to be done quickly. also had the expectation that i'd act like a porn star... all while…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/7/2026
Keeping the conversation afloat

oh god a MUSE like they’ve ever created anything in their life

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
30F, when & how will I find my partner?

Oh god! You're scaring me. 🙈 Can you analyse my D9 for confirmations?

r/vedicastrologycomment3/10/2026
Seinfeld-esque reasons you broke up with someone

Oh god I hate that too. It’s gross to me.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/10/2026
Seinfeld-esque reasons you broke up with someone

Oh god, I hate how right you are. 

r/datingoverfortycomment3/11/2026
Men having rigid body type preferences

Oh god. My petty comeback reflex has been so triggered reading OP's post. *You should have sent the other guy a scathing critique of his technique.* To be fair, there's only so much the guy can do w…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/11/2026
Men having rigid body type preferences

Oh god, he's such an idiot. Don't waste another second.

r/datingoverfortycomment3/12/2026
Knowing the exact time when waking up - psychic or circadian?

Oh god I feel for you lmao, my sleep is all over the place currently as I'm unemployed and so don't have any kind of strict sleep schedule. What's the cause of your late sleeping? Insomnia? It's c…

r/experiencerscomment3/12/2026
I'm sick of the state of this subreddit

Oh god I'm glad I never visited this subreddit

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/12/2026
r/datingoverfortycomment3/13/2026
Reactive Abuse is the Worst

Oh god this is so true. I would drink to escape but then he would trigger me targeting my vulnerability. I left last year but the trauma still remains. Worst thing is that no one understands. I'm just…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/15/2026
My mom who disowned my for being gay is ready to forgive me, oh and for me to financially support her and my dad after he retires of course.

"Advice OK", the flair says...but we all know you don't need advice here. You did the right thing by going a separate path, and you know it. You're awesome. Shoutout to your cousin as well, her valuab…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/15/2026
Miss the sex with my ex

Oh god this is one of the things i am struggling with to be honest. I dont know if this ever gets better but i hope it doesnt get worse.

r/BreakUpscomment3/17/2026
Did any of your parents purposely scare you?

Oh god that’s awful. I’m sorry 😔 I hope you can find peace one day with this

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/17/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/17/2026
This is harder than it should be. 🥸

Oh God no. So many people stay in shitty marriages, cant leave, have affairs, live with simmering resentment, outright hatred etcetera. I see having left as a success/ victory! I will survive! (Glo…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/17/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
Break up 2 days before my girlfriend’s graduation, or wait a week? (32m & 25f)

I was pondering for a bit whether "oh God oh jeez I am shitting myself so bad right now" would go over well too. I usually am NOT about holding things off but graduation is a huge once in a lifetime t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
"You'll understand when you have kids..."

Oh god. I copped this all through my childhood. Always being told how difficult parenting is, how stressful it was. How much all us kids cost, how they had no family to help them. Then I had my own c…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/19/2026
My husband (34M) told his friends about my miscarriage as a “joke” and now says I’m overreacting (32F)

Oh god no. You need to leave. How could you possibly stay with someone knowing in the back of your mind that your pain is entertainment to him? The death of your child is entertainment? Hard fucking p…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 19, 2026

He's making sentences... Oh God, dark laughter.  Yeah, I don't wanna be too jaded and sabotage my own chances at happiness but there are definitely times I hear my thoughts and laugh at myself. The …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/20/2026
2 monts into breakup. Here's what I'd tell my younger self.

Oh god...that is so hard. I keep thinking back to the last time we had sex, the last time we were together. Was he knowing it was the last time?

r/BreakUpscomment3/21/2026
I finally moved away from my partner of 13 years. Fuck it's painful

Just saw the part about your dog as well - I am also losing my deeply beloved dog in this breakup oh god. I feel for you so deeply.

r/Codependencycomment3/21/2026
Share your Robotic Affirmations Success Stories

Oh god I love RA!!! <DDD • Manifested myself out of an abusive household. FYI it wasn't just "OH my parents hate me", no, I used to get beaten and shouted at by my drunk mom, + had a careless dad who…

r/Manifestationcomment3/21/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 21, 2026

Oh God I found out -she- is also on Reddit. I pray she never finds this sub HAHA

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/21/2026
r/CPTSDcomment3/22/2026
Those of you who were blindsided, discarded, or abandoned- how are you doing now?

Oh god same. But I would describe it a different way: this other woman is a shallow fantasy, and my husband chose that over a real family. Says a lot about his avoidance, the way he just escaped inste…

r/Divorcecomment3/22/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment3/22/2026