New Identity

How to Create a "New Identity"? — How to Create a "New Identity"? I've long understood and concluded that we don't attract what we want, but what we are. There's a really cool example in my country, Brazil, where a girl pretended to…

Codependency and an ex that keeps coming back — Hey guys! So, I've run out of ideas on this. I got together with a single mum in summer 2024 and we parted ways around last October. Since then, we agreed to stay friends but she wouldn't even give m…

Huge Success. Actually shocking how EASY it is. (Guidance & Success) — # 3/29/26 First things first, I want to say that it all starts with you and the person that you believe you are. What you believe you are capable of achieving. I want you to remember that a belief is…

Having a hard time morphing into a new identity — i hope this question is not too general to post. long story short; I manifested my first bf by scripting when i was in middle school, but i dont know how to do it again in my letter, I even wrote t…

Return to I AM — the infinite awareness. — I am currently writing this as I had the biggest click and realisation of my entire life. Transition into the state of infinite awareness — I AM. Where infinite possibilities, knowledge, information,…

You will slowly figure out what your life looks like without `we´. — Start small. Define your mornings, decide how your evenings end. Create default choices so you are not emotionally negotiating every little decision. Stop waiting to feel ready and start acting anyway…

Yes, I’m disappointed I scrolled this far looking for somebody to mention that she might still be in a post partum *something*!! Sounds like she’s having a hard time reconciling her new identity as a …

I married a young Mongolian woman so I don't need dating advice. Blacks and Latinos have more of a community than Asians do so that's a bad example. Just look at the Latino response to ICE deporti…

Yes, especially if you want to change your identity. But as Maltz said, you're not here to create a new identity, you're here to wake up from the false one.

So when neville says to stick to the new identity and not go back to the old one how would one do that.Because I just want to give up this one bad habit but I keep relapsing after 3-6 days so would th…

Accept and love your new identity. You are already a lottery winner.

Thank you for the insight. I’ve done all of these this last 9 weeks and continue to do them. The gym is a great form of emotional regulation. Running with no headphones is serene and a great way to co…

You can achieve it! I thought I’d never achieve such a state and new way of being, but I finally have. It takes work and persistence in the new state, but I’m telling you, it’s so worth it! Now, as fo…

Hi! I’m glad my post was helpful :) So, since you want to be in a boss at your job, yes you do have to identify and act as if you’re the boss even if you’re reality right now is showing you different…

You were already manifesting your whole life without knowing. you do not need sleep to make something work, you can do this anytime.  Every single time you affirm and you find the opposite, you relabe…

When I learned of manifesting a few years ago I could easily bring in the sp or the desired relationship but money was something I struggled with but with persistence in the new identity I became calm…

youre manifesting things that your current identity cannot achieve. so the brain is panicking, "my forecast for the future isn't matching up with what the person's new identity wants" and theres this …

Don't think bigger than your beliefs. Gradually shift day by day to be the new you. How would you walk? Talk? Feel? All the small changes add up quickly to a strong belief and new identity!

It's easier than you think. Think of your new identity as holding a cork under water. When asking, "How do I create a new identity?" is the same as asking, "How do I get the cork to float?" When you …

Most people get this wrong because they think creating a new identity is about deciding who to be. It’s not. It’s about: Detaching from your current identity Installing a new one through repetiti…

You're absolutely right – we don't attract what we want, we attract what we ARE. That Brazilian girl example is perfect because she literally embodied the millionaire identity first, then reality caug…

New identity’ isn’t something you just decide and magically become. It’s something you build through repeated proof. I tried the whole ‘I’ll just choose who I want to be’ mindset before—didn’t stick.…

Yep, not remotely ready to enter the dating scene. I’m just trying to find a new identity that isn’t labeled, “husband.”

Man, I actually really get what you’re saying here. That line “we don’t attract what we want, but what we are” hits hard because it kind of forces you to look at yourself instead of just wishing for s…

exactly! the only time you need to consider being more 'active' is when you feel disconnection between you and your desires/new identity. basically if you came across manifesting problems, whether tha…

Bro I think you should have new identity like someone who is lucky or abundance or wealthy. With this you don't have to manifest anything you can live your life knowing your indentity attracts everyth…

1. Instead of SATS, just try the "Isn't it wonderful!" technique and fall asleep peacefully with it. :) It works great, just as well as SATS. 2. Simply redirect your thoughts if you notice yourself…

Intellectually I can see making "parent" your identity and going all-in, then burning out and creating a new identity, which happens to not include kids and losing interest. But I cannot for the life …

Same things started going well because I decided it to...that's exactly what I experienced but I wasn't worrying about things going downhill cause I was very settled with this new identity.

I signed my biggest monthly business deal this week! It came from me changing my self concept about myself and what I told myself I was able to learn When you assume the feeling of being a "fast lear…

This reminds me of what happens when people move out of depression, sometimes people feel the need to breakup for their new identity to exist.  When you composed the list, how much of that stuff is …

Hey, you said to not stack new thoughts on top of old patterns. Could you please elaborate a little bit more on how you do this on a daily basis to set up your new identity and live by it when your ol…

Honestly the whole situation is totally gross to me. If I ever went on a first date, gave someone a blowjob in a car then started projectile vomitting in the road … I’d move to a new town and get a ne…

A 45 day reset is still a fabricated structure because people can change their self image in less or more time. It depends on the person, their beliefs, and experiences. Correct, Joe does speak of l…

u/Born-in-divinity **:** i love your perspective, and I actually think we’re saying the same thing from two different angles. You’re 100% right: the Law of Belief is the ultimate law, and if you can …

I too have found this story very helpful if not the most helpful in clearing out old wounds, and shifting away from negative thoughts. I recently went to that just before sleep state and wen through …

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