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I'm "moderate" and usually match with liberal women. Maybe I should just put liberal? But I'm *classical* liberal, so I like guns (collector & gunsmith) and capitalism, but I'm also pro-choice and I l…

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Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results. — I (37M) decided to conduct an experiment and went out to the types of boilerplate events/gatherings/functions people suggest. Book clubs, sports, volunteering, etc. I joined a public book club throug…

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Questions on Seneca's Letters — Hey everyone, I am working my way through Seneca's letters to Lucilius. The translation I have is by Margaret Graver and A. A. Long. I am a bit confused by what Seneca's views on feeling emotions ar…

Does anyone else feel like this fixation on "trauma dumping" stinks of toxic positivity? — It literally feels like the onus is on people with really challenging life experiences, to hold that all inside and only talk about good things, for fear of burdening people who have objectively bette…

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I'm sick of the state of this subreddit — I'm tired of it: I love lucid dreaming, I achieved it on a weekly level for years now and I love to read about people's experiences, sharing my own piece of advice, learning about the different techni…

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For guys who have no trouble getting dates on OLD, how do you filter for good personality? — I see this question asked of women a lot online, but less so of men, I assume because far fewer men have this problem, so I wanted to get other guys’ take on it. I’m finding that I could get a first …

Ahh words! Jokes aside:TY for the response! Personally I am saddened at the new rules as I feel phone addiction (and by extension pron accessibility) is a prevalent issue, and one worthy of r/Decidin…

Hm, no. Nice try. The NGCritics sub has dozens of archived stories of people who lost everything due to these teachings that would be otherwise censored and banned in the JM/NG subreddits. This subred…

Uh oh…better get to affirming and visualizing before your man runs away! Imagine not being able to enjoy your time with your partner because you always need to check your thoughts and assumptions? Wha…

There are many factors to consider with regards to attachment styles, especially towards different people / situations a specific style might be more prominant. There is also a spectrum - mild, modera…

I'm not suggesting that sub is 100% bad (nothing is all bad or all good). But it's absolutely an echo-chamber that frequently becomes toxic and dehumanizing, conflates every negative behavioral trait …

I think skepticism is always warranted. But I would make the case that psychological processes like cognitive dissonance and projection are likely magnified in insecure attachers.   Plus some peopl…

It might be a moderately common DA request, especially when younger, but it wouldn’t generally be acceptable for a secure partner and it’s a sign of the competing needs of the DA - the need for space/…

Thank you for choosing to moderate this subreddit. It's a lot of work that you are volunteering to do, and so often, moderators don't get the thanks they deserve. The new rules are very welcomed (by m…

I would also be wary of relying too much on support groups, as they can become dysfunctional if not managed well. Before this sub became moderated, it basically functioned as an echo chamber where unh…

If you're in a secure relationship with your wife where you are able to respond to her needs enough of the time, then you're really not that avoidant. I don't know your past, but moderately anxious an…

Im angry and disgusted (not at you personally) that people are automatically insinuating that avoidant people would make bad parents. First of all, being avoidant is not permanent. And no one said “Im…

I've been in a relationship with an anxious partner for 7 years now. I don't know how we've managed to get along for so long, but lately I just feel like I can't deal with it anymore. They act like a …

Wow, thank you for replying. I’m genuinely glad to receive at least some insight into the situation. My psychologist had me take the TSI (Trauma Symptom Inventory) test to determine how traumatized I …

One tip: apolitical, moderate, or no politics section filled out = conservative and hoping you don’t care

I have friends and good relationships with some of my co-workers. Studies indicate that "pretty privilege" exists, but I have found moderate success in other areas of my life. Returning to the subjec…

I (38M) divorced a few years ago. Married for 10 years, had three kids, and it was toxic. I feel I kicked out my coverage and married an 8 or 9 while I’m a 5 or 6. Part of the toxicity was constantly …

Would be interesting to know how common avoidant attachment is among lesbians. I knew a lesbian who was extremely avoidant after escaping a physically and mentally abusive relationship (with a man) wh…

Feeling hopeless about dating. I know there has to be someone who thinks I’m their dream woman, but it just feels impossible. I don’t know where or how to meet men who also want a relationship. I’m mo…

In a LTR since Oct, but before that: When I'm in NYC: 20-30 per week between Hinge and Feeld When I'm in Pittsburgh: 3-5 per week between Hinge and Feeld I live in Pittsburgh lol. But I typ…

Hahaha I was going to write my number on the sleeve I put them in to hand out. I'm a moderately skilled baker but custom fortune cookies are probably outside of my talents, love the energy though!

There is a moderately interesting UPS guy at work sometimes, but I haven't seen him in a while now that you mention it! 😂

Yeah rules are nothing without reinforcement. *sigh "Go stand 15min in the corner, cool down". Perhaps a moderate spanking 🤷🏼‍♀️. I wished they could built modtools for that.

first time going on a date with someone with ‘moderate’ politics. really deaddove.jpg-ed myself because the conversation was desperately apolitical. the disconnect was fascinating. wym there’s no gend…

Being attracted to each other doesnt mean you are compatible or a good match. The specifics do matter at the end of the day. In my case I'm not gonna date moderate/apolitical/republicans. We just ar…

Interesting. What do you think they mean by "people like you"? Like people in general or is it some characteristic about you? I have no idea why people match just to argue. For me I just skip over t…

These days, a lot of people assume moderate = closet conservative and apolitical = apathetic to the problems of the world. So I think many de facto moderates have started labeling themselves as liber…

Depending on where you live, being moderate might be as close to compatibility as these far right guys are going to find. This isn’t to say you are compatible, but they might think you’d be more amena…

EDIT: Oops, sorry. Don’t know why I assumed you were using a dating app.. But maybe what I said could still be interesting to some. 🤷🏼‍♀️ A lot of guys (no offense guys..) seem to just not know wha…

I put down moderate after a lot of thought and looking it up. I am very apolitical but still lean towards it, and pay attention to whats going on more than most people.

It doesn't sound to me like he is just settling. With the exception of him not being particularly emotionally expressive, to me it sounds like all the hallmarks of a relationship on the right track. B…

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I know lots of single folks who are not on apps. Myself included. Broad strokes is that we didn’t get the engagement we wanted on apps. And often we were what I would call the wrong type for where w…

This group here seems like a reasonable example. It's moderated in such a way that random anxious people can't just hijack the sub, blaming us for their bf/gf breaking up with them. Avoidant-leaning f…

VENT Does anyone feel like dating is difficult as a young adult? Like I’m not ugly and I have a decent personality, yet I find dating to be difficult as a 31M. I’m not going to say I deserve somethi…

I think this group is well moderated. Toxic types are promptly dealt with, no smearing is allowed, I took personal steps to avoid toxic people circumventing the rules by dming. I think this group is a…

How do you split expenses when dating and in a relationship? When I was dating, I was so turned off by a guy asking to split or accepting me paying that I would end things. I'm now in a relationship a…

>Are my expectations unrealistic - Especially when considering that I do not want a man who leans conservatively or even moderately? I mean the folks who would do that are gonna have their own other …

> Are my expectations unrealistic - Especially when considering that I do not want a man who leans conservatively or even moderately? For me as a left leaning man with a good job, they are unrealisti…

We split paying for things. I make more than my bf so I'll often cover the slightly more expensive meals, or cover them more often, as an example. We tend to split expenses pretty evenly but we like t…

My latest ex is fearlessly independent, so we used to fight over "who pays the bill" and eventually settled down on a simple logic whoever invites, covers all the expenses excluding the international …

I think being politically moderate is going to make things tough for you. I’m not saying you should change it if that’s where you sit, but temper your expectations. Your profile seems pretty hippie/…

Definitely agree on the “moderate”, I often assume they’re conservative but don’t want to put it that bluntly

This seems to come up every time. Maybe I should just put down liberal than to open up my horizons more. I am more of a hippie or "eclectic" really for better words as you can tell correctly lol. Main…

No, not at all I really dont care. I know I would align better with a liberal or moderate than a conservative, but it really does not matter to me. I was told last time when I had nothing up that I w…

Looks are subjective. Don’t worry about whether or not you’re “hot”. Focus instead on being well groomed, clean, and wearing clothes you feel confident in. I know this has been said a million times, b…

I think I would be a bad fit for any political stance that cares about this question besides moderate, but that is by far the least amount of people. If anything I think liberal people would be more o…

If I recall on the dealbreakers, you're allowed to choose more than one option if you click into the menu. Edit: Actually I just checked the Politics screen on Hinge which only allows you Liberal, Mo…

They are conservative, liberal, moderate, apolitical on all dating apps sadly as a fellow leftist And its a deal breaker for them not to be the left most option for me I only want to date folks who a…

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