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Where to find the time??

I work in radiology and when I read your message.. I was thinking immediately that off hand, I know healthcare workers are off during the week.  There are people that work Friday Saturday Sunday, or…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/3/2026
Working on becoming secure has made me more susceptible to toxic relationships

Working on becoming secure has made me more susceptible to toxic relationships — I think. Here's the thing, I'm fearful avoidant, and before I was aware of attachment styles at all the moment a person I was interested in made me feel at all rejected in the slightest (took too lo…

r/attachment_theorypost10/20/2025
Update: Divorced and kept the house

Update: Divorced and kept the house — [Here is a link to my earlier post](https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/1jwso51/how_should_i_bs_handle_my_relationship_to_my/). In February of 2025, I learned that my wife had been …

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/25/2026
My mom does not want me to drive. She got what she wanted.

My mom does not want me to drive. She got what she wanted. — Last week, I decided to go out driving with my mom. I am a young adult with no license and have been trying to get my license for 6 years now. Each time, something happens with my family or with a car…

r/CPTSDpost4/9/2026
Anxiety only triggered in romantic relationship, how to manage it?

OP, I think what the person above said is very true. I was honest with my partner from the start, and thankfully they were also quite supportive. This helped immensely What also helps me is to tak…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/3/2025
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

Here’s what I’ll say. Me personally, I think a lot of people that are being called avoidants really aren’t true avoidants with the right person. I strongly believe the avoidants people are met with ar…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/3/2026
Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results.

I am an introvert mostly if I'm not at work. This has made it hard for me to find someone to settle with. On my off days I sleep or watch movies or visit the beach😂😂😂

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
Stuck In My Head After Affair

Listen to your gut. Your spirit is speaking to you. Too many things don’t add up and just because she didn’t necessarily have any extended work hours or peculiar off days, doesn’t mean nothing happene…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment3/9/2026
I (24f) am tired of cooking for my bf (25m)

I think you should try cooking and cleaning together. Like maybe switch off days where one person is the “head chef”?

r/relationshipscomment3/9/2026
My husband (39M) is annoyed that I (31F) always get sick after him. How can we find a solution?

>I understand that he can't use sick days for when he's sick AND when I'm sick. Why not? My husband takes off days when I’m really sick (he’s almost never sick himself). I know different employers h…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
Has anyone looked into what chronic depression and trauma actually do to your body at a cellular level? The research is both terrifying and oddly empowering.

Yeah I get that, it’s taken me awhile to build up my friends as well and to see who has stuck around. I’ve found my closer friends to have come from work. The first year or two at my job I never thoug…

r/CPTSDcomment3/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 24, 2026

That’s why I schedule dates on off days so I know my tank will be full

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/25/2026
I didn’t realize how much your daily routine changes after divorce

This was hard. I haven’t rediscovered everything that I on my own truly still love as a routine as the dust settles. My stores changed, my access to the world changed. I make significantly less income…

r/Divorcecomment3/27/2026
5 years later and i’m still here. there’s not a single shitbag person in this world that is worth taking your life over. keep fucking going.

This gave me chills, it’s the same for me. Just over two years ago I didn’t want to live anymore. I could barely manage getting off the couch on my off days and every time I drove I had visions of run…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/31/2026
Emotional incest: What are your symptoms as an adult

I do, too, about therapy. It's ridiculous that it's so often those who need it most who cannot afford it. The fees are just crazy when you think about how mental health so strongly impacts physical he…

r/CPTSDcomment4/5/2026
How do I (29m) Gently Convince my Girlfriend (29f) to stop Self Deprecating all the time?

Hope 24 isnt too late, I fixed myself around 27 😅 still got my off days from time to time lol but hey, so do we all.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
Stop thinking you don’t have to work

Running a business requires even more of your time than pretty much any "regular" job does. All the business owners I know don't have an "end time" like an employee typically does. After hours, weeken…

r/nevillegoddardcomment4/7/2026
I think I’m (15f) really bad at being in a relationship

Fifteen is peak feeling annoying and unlikable age, but I promise: you’re just fifteen. Your brain is a soup of hormones, and so is your body. The thing is, we were all kind of annoying and unlikable…

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
BF (22M) fell for a phone scam. I (22F) don’t know how to feel about it, as well as my response. What would you guys do?

I work in IT and smart people usually fall for these when distracted by family issues, stress, health problems, etc. Everyone has off days and that's when you have to be extra careful, especially wh…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
BF (22M) fell for a phone scam. I (22F) don’t know how to feel about it, as well as my response. What would you guys do?

I did read your comment, and I would think a threat actor emptying out my bank account because my credentials got harvested would be on the same degree of magnitude. I think what you are meaning is yo…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026
I just want to be happy. Share with me your daily thoughts or practices to maintain or work towards general happiness and positivity.

congrats on almost a yearrr that’s hugeee for meeee small stuff helps more than i thought like writing down one thing that went well each dayyy or just forcing myself outside for a few minutes, even i…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment4/9/2026
Trauma bonding. I'm só sad, lonely and lost. Help me, please.

Please take a look at my post about a year on from leaving. Honestly I promise you, it does get better. You will have on and off days but you will thank yourself in the long run. I remind myself it’s …

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/9/2026
Confused about second date

Do you see how asking that immediately puts the focus and blame on her for being "off?" He barely knows her! Rather than ask her to supply an explanation for why he has perceived a shift, can't he j…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/11/2026