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My mistake. I read "have" when you said "haven't" as in you "haven't" been to each others' houses.

Letter to my ex — **7th February 2026** “You will find me, right?” That sentence is the last sentence. The one that always stays with me. Every single day I think about it, and I think that’s why I know what I have t…

My mom is ruining my life and I feel helpless — I hope that this is the right place to post this. I'm sorry if this is too long to read. I want to know whether its my fault or hers, me and my mom fight a lot. I feel like my mom hates me and is tryi…

Goodbye and good riddance — things I wish I could tell my ex (but obvi won't): I’ve realized something since everything ended, we were never going to work. You blindsided me. You were already halfway out the door for months, a…

My dad said to me I am rubbish and I am in a spiral — I’m 24 now and few months ago my dad said to me and my mum during an argument directly “look at your son, he is a rubbish, 25 years old and still can’t get a job.” “I should change my death wish and l…

So… I have dated someone with DID before. Dissociative Identity Disorder. In these individuals, when anything even remotely stressful happens; they will quite literally turn into a different person. L…

This is probably not the answer you want, but it could be the one you need. With 8,3 billion people on the planet. It is to be expected that a few of them doesn't get the same emotional response as o…

Hope someone can tell me what i did wrong or misread. I’m in my 30s, Mikaylah is in her early 20s. i transferred to her department last July. At first i wasn’t interested in her as anything more than …

this didn’t get any traction in the previous thread so i’m hoping this one might get me some advice. i have to go back to work on friday so any help would be appreciated. Hope someone can tell me wh…

Damn that second paragraph really hit home for me. Particularly when you said “Does he show he cares about who you are as a unique and special person in this world.” I broke up with a guy last yea…

Pumped and dumped. He ended it the day after he slept with me because I am friends with a guy I’ve slept with. Who he knows, sort of, distantly. Who he outright told me he was okay with me being frie…

Leave man. Guaranteed now that she’s “single”, she’s seeing this other guy. She already went behind your back when you said block him. She’s definitely going behind your back now that you guys are sep…

i don't think i have much to say that hasn't been said, but when you said "my harsh words," that really hit hard. those words were not harsh. not even a little bit. that was incredibly kind, straig…

No, i'm thankfully not suffering from stomach issues but yes, my father is well to do in an authoritative field. I have a doubt though, when you said that marriage will happen by 2030, do you mean "by…

This does sound like sexual incompatibility, but you should know that grinding with lady on top does stimulate the clitoris; in n out can miss the clit entirely. She should have definitely stopped and…

Maybe this is sexist but I knew you were a guy when you said ‘years ago’. Something about dudes that they bury their feelings while you’re with them or breaking up, then years later they return becaus…

Sorry I misunderstood. When you said sunrise lamp I thought you meant the sunrise itself. English is not my native language, sorry, my bad 😓.

I feel the healthiest thing for both when this happens is to go, "This conflict has obviously occurred, and we need to talk about it and reconcile it. Since we are both too dysregulated to handle it n…

Lol gurl. What do you expect him to think when you said this? I would probably break up with you. Question for you, what do you think was the point in telling him this? Why did you need to tell him t…

I think when you said it he takes it personally. But yeah if he gives you the silent treatment, breakup with you on your birthday without open up to talk to you. Something really wrong here. That is …

You should stay broken up with this person because A, you tried to be manipulative when you said what you said, and B he sounds controlling and manipulative and you deserve better. Stay broken up

OP, what did you mean when you said one can revise deaths What does that literally mean? An individual obviously cannot be brought back to life once they have passed, so what are we revising? Is it a …

yea it feels like a humble brag. best case scenario this did something for his ego. worse case scenario he wants to make her feel more insecure and the "he has good intentions" makes no sense to me …

I can’t see any possible good intention behind someone initiating that conversation. “Remember when you said I could pull prettier women than you? I’ve been thinking about it and you’re right!” Like …

I'm very sorry to hear that. My mother is similar to your dad in the sense that she rejected labels and prefers to stick her head in the sand rather than address things. You put it quite eloquently wh…

Oh wow. I felt this endorphin rush when you said you smashed that frame! I'm so glad you did. Fuck that thing. I'm sorry for all you've gone through

If she would want to be married to you she would do something and not accusing you of this or that. Why wasn't she begging you when you said you want a divorce? Her behaviour makes no sense to me. S…

So sorry to hear you had to go through that.. But Jesus. When you said the “I see how….” Idk if it’s just them putting it in ChatGPT and thinking that it’s a good way to bring things up without taking…

What when you said you’d need a 2nd partner for when he’s unavailable he was like ‘say less. I have a good friend you can hook with on my off nights! That’s a win/win!”

When you said that to him what was his response?

When you said you saw 'the life you COULD have had' with your coworker-it triggered my codependency all over again... CODA has changed my life, the life of my family and our next generation for the be…

In the bottom when you said "humor me in my mental illness" im curious if he is trying to convince you are mentally ill or if you've been diagnosed with something hoarding disorder?

When you said he had an open smile and his eyes were shining, and you felt like you had looked at the devil himself… is a remark I will never forget because I experienced a similar situation and could…

I feel you missed an opportunity when you said I a previous post you were on a walk asked for her phone and she fell down crying, gave the phone when you got home, and ran to her bedroom sobbing... y…

have him tell her. he refuses to wear condoms, he told too early when you said not to, he can deal with it. youre not his mom. stop parenting him and picking up after him.

reading your gym story felt really familiar. so many people have that exact first experience and then spend years afraid of the next one. when you said therapy didn't help, was it more that the approa…

Was it a perfectly round orb? And can you explain what you mean when you said it "looked" at you?

What’s your game plan? Were you always planning to have separate finances and watch her struggle? You’ve been together twelve years. That’s usually ‘combine finances’ territory; she does more housew…

You're asking the wrong place. Everyone here has bought into the false idea that doing it more = progress. So much so that they track every second of every day, and becoming fixated on it.  Well let…

I really appreciate your honesty here. There is a specific kind of grief that comes with realizing 'I’ll decide later' was actually just the ego choosing the default path to stay safe. You’ve identi…

Thank you op. I can see your framework. I related the most when you said keeping your practice. Thanks for inviting me to your party 🎉

leave him! when you said “i thought he was into me” broke my heart 🥺 there will be soo many people who are into you and values you more for than what you look like! he sounds like a loser anyway. and…

Sounds like this is one of his sexual fantasies, it’s clearly not yours . His being passive aggressive when you said you were not into it is concerning so probably for the best you ended it.

When you said he agreed that nothing like that could ever happen again "because of his side, not his reaction," what did you mean by "his side"? Did he ever apologize for behaving and speaking menac…

Can you be more specific? Giving is different from person to person. What did he say when you said you gave and gave?

Wow when you said what did I do to deserve this is exactly how I felt. I went out of my way for him I did tons of stuff for him I was there when he needed me I didn't cheat on him I didn't lie to him …

You're still trying to justify why she lied, even if she claims it didn't lead to anything. That's like me asking you to explain why you broke into a neighbor's house when you said you were just looki…

man you're way too hard on yourself here. no contact is brutal and almost nobody gets it perfect on the first try, especially when there's still genuine care between you two asking about his trans…

Confidentiality is a very nuanced question for minors in therapy. There are a few key considerations. - the state you live in and it’s unique set of laws. - whether the information you wish to share…

LDR with a Turkish guy- at first I didn't know that he couldn't type in English- There was just so much lag in our chats. I found out he pastes everything to google translate. I didn't mind, he wa…

Yeaaahhhhh this is kind of his own fault for not believing you when you said you didn’t want kids. Kind of shows he doesn’t take everything you say seriously.

I do have to stop seeing myself as behind. That's only putting me further in a hole that I don't want to be in. I didn't think about the part where you said 'there is no decision you will ever make th…

So when you said: > Is it it possible to find women to just be friends with? You weren't being genuine. So bottom line is that you want a booty call??

Safe words exist to make you feel safe in a situation. He didnt stop when you said the word that means stop....if a woman says stop and he doesnt stop that rape. He didnt stop after use of the safe wo…

When you said your life would be easier without him, a decent person would have been horrified. He laughed… because he knows that and he doesn’t care. You *should* divorce him. He is creating more wor…